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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/16/2011 9:06:58 AM

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*buggest hugs*

but.. I wil say this: visit her as much as you can as frustrating as it may be. You WILL hate yourself if she passes and yuo havent.

voice of experience.

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/16/2011 9:12:59 AM

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thanks again, will try, soon, maybe.

I just can't stand seeing her as I am not used to. She is HAPPY lol. She sits and smiles all day, very unlike her, in her little blissful world. I want to see her get up, tell me the joke is over and tear over and tell me what to do, how to do it, why I shouldn't have done it, in other words I want her old self back again--a real hardass bitch!! I can't stand her being so passive, she is everything she never intended her retirement (or us) would be.

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/16/2011 10:41:39 AM

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damn.. now that song is gonna be stuck in my head..

think that is bad? Thanks Princ

I actually went to HEAR IT aaaaaaa
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0SlKA2Rgq20

(but, hey, it is a good tune).

My favourite

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96g0lpE5gbA&feature=related

wish that went on forever

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/16/2011 11:00:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: Nanako

I believe the right to punish me is something that any dom of mine should have.

If a dom wanted to punish me for his own sadistic amusement, and is honest about that, it seems fine to me.

For some, punishment is forgiveness. When the sub is punished for a wrongdoing, they have "served their time" and the issue is dealt with, the sub is forgiven. No grudges are borne and no lasting harm is (should be) done to the relationship. This is an opinion I generally share

Nanako, I'll take two of you, and one to go. Thank you.

thank you !
I only wish I could be cloned so there were more of me to go around.

Someone has started an alternate thread on the subject of punishment, so as not to farther derail this one (which is about "that one irksome thing" I believe). It is at http://www.collarchat.com/m_3569464/tm.htm and I will be following that

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/17/2011 12:20:57 PM

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Punishment for forgiveness is one thing.

However claiming the sub did something wrong when she hasn't only teaches her that the dominant cannot be trusted. If it's for his sadistic pleasure then he needs to accept the fact that he is a sadist and not blame the sub for him having these desires.

You don't tell someone that they did something very well but you aren't proud of them for succeeding, instead you're angry at them for doing as they were told. Because what they learn from that is that it is not use trying, as you can't ever win.

And I doubt I'm the only one who didn't give this thread undivided attention, but answered while doing other things as well.

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/17/2011 10:45:36 PM

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This is one of the hardest issues i have with my girl. She doesn't like to listen because she wants to see what punishment I come up with next. Which also excites me. So ultimately i need to learn to control or mask my excitement to get some kind of control over her.

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RE: I demand your undivided attention. - 2/18/2011 9:58:12 AM

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Actually, I'd say two things.

(a) You need to control yourself before you can control anyone else.
(b) You need to get some clarity on whether you're looking for control or kink in any given moment. Right now, you appear to be looking for kink dressed up in control's clothing.

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