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RE: Why No Queening? - 12/28/2006 6:03:45 PM   
LotusSong


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I dunno.. whenever I do it.. I just keep wondering.."Does my butt look big"?

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/17/2007 3:19:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

I adore Queening...not just for the erotic aspect but for Me it is the most submissive position a man can be in, in order to please his Domina.  I find I have a better orgasm while Queening if I am cropping or flogging the slut beneath Me during.


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my First Owner would often leash my sissy clit and crop it or pinch and pully my nipples.  Was incredibly exciting and made me feel very humbled.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/17/2007 3:23:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LifeShouldBeEasy

Basically sitting on someone's face is Queening.



Facesitting? I love facesitting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/17/2007 3:32:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: LifeShouldBeEasy

Basically sitting on someone's face is Queening.



Facesitting? I love facesitting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Diane


LOL but what about facesitting with the comfort and needs of the femdom in mind? The timing of this post is perfect!

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/17/2007 3:40:54 PM   
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Aakasha et al:

Facesitting is to me a very submissive position to be in while orally satisfying Mistress.  As in all things, Her comfort is paramount.  tzndeny

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/17/2007 8:43:51 PM   
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BDSM activities also go in and out of fashion.
But I agree - Dommes profiles attract enough trolls without throwing out more troll bait
:))
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who has the perfect coffee table to tie a sub to for this activity, hehehe

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/18/2007 1:17:57 AM   
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I adore Queening, and it is always clothed for My personal preference. I do not cater for bodyworship, but Queening I do. It is great to inter-mingle breathplay in this activity, also the sub inhales My Dominance as a reward.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/18/2007 6:47:30 AM   
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Delicious subject, I must say! <wink> I have been pretty conservative and picky when it comes to choosing a sub for this, as I see it as a very intimate kiss and also as a gift. Inhaling the sweetness of a Goddess is very addicting, so imo there is an inherent responsibility to choose wisely. Imagine a bunch of guys/girls walking around in their vanilla lives drooling constantly...
 
Got Bib?
 
Two of my fave sites:
The descriptions here are excellent for Queening ideas:
http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/pages/queening.html

This has awesome products and was mentioned before:
http://www.queensandkings.biz/queensandkingswebsite/HTML_files/home.htm

I think I may have Queening listed on my profile and am taking it off! lol.
 
I will be looking for a tiny cane rocker, as I think that's the best idea yet! What a fun diy project for me and a subbie.
 
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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/18/2007 10:54:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

I was just curious, when looking at profiles, I find that most dommes or switches do not put queening in thier lists, some even put it down in the hate or dislike category. So I was wondering, why is there such a large percentage of dommes who do not like this act?




1. Its for Punk to enjoy
2. I am a Pro and keep that sort of touching out of sessions.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/18/2007 5:31:03 PM   
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I wonder if it seems like nobody likes queening because you're looking for someone to queen with. I know I've had the feeling that there is an unreasonable dearth of what I want--be it a compatible playmate or that pretty shirt in my size--but it's often a misperception.

As for me, I don't like queening because I'm not fond of receiving cunnilingus or analingus. .



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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/19/2007 5:17:51 AM   
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So, there's these two lesbians into queening right, and they decide to get together for a session.

The one says "730 on Saturday OK?"

"Yes" says the other

"Your face or mine?"

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/19/2007 6:14:06 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

So, there's these two lesbians into queening right, and they decide to get together for a session.

The one says "730 on Saturday OK?"

"Yes" says the other

"Your face or mine?"

E

Badum-tch!


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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/19/2007 9:33:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

I dunno.. whenever I do it.. I just keep wondering.."Does my butt look big"?


Ms Lotus,

i can assure You that any sub so fortunate to be under You would never think Your butt is anything less than Heavenly.

Respectfully,

pink

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/20/2007 5:06:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

One thing I've noticed is that male subs seem to make many more fetish-oriented demands of their dommes than female subs do.  A domme is a PERSON.  She's not a vulva between two legs to be placed on top of your face.  My guess would be that lifestyle dommes don't list queening because they're not interested in subs who are just looking for an outlet for naughty fantasies.


****Wild applause**** Thank YOU. Now, would you please forward a copy of your comments to every male submissive on the site <grin>. Now you not only have my very favorite pic on the site...but I love your mind as well!

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 11:08:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

Delicious subject, I must say! <wink> I have been pretty conservative and picky when it comes to choosing a sub for this, as I see it as a very intimate kiss and also as a gift. Inhaling the sweetness of a Goddess is very addicting, so imo there is an inherent responsibility to choose wisely. Imagine a bunch of guys/girls walking around in their vanilla lives drooling constantly...
 
Got Bib?
 
Two of my fave sites:
The descriptions here are excellent for Queening ideas:
http://www.tickleberry.co.uk/pages/queening.html

This has awesome products and was mentioned before:
http://www.queensandkings.biz/queensandkingswebsite/HTML_files/home.htm

I think I may have Queening listed on my profile and am taking it off! lol.
 
I will be looking for a tiny cane rocker, as I think that's the best idea yet! What a fun diy project for me and a subbie.
 
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Life is what you make of it; personally I'm making mine an Amusement Park with all the cool rides.

I cannot edit that previous post, so I have to quote myself! lol
I forgot to mention the sense of power I get from Queening. At my mercy, and a nice safe way to go into multiple land.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 5:29:46 PM   
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quote:

was just curious, when looking at profiles, I find that most dommes or switches do not put queening in thier lists, some even put it down in the hate or dislike category. So I was wondering, why is there such a large percentage of dommes who do not like this act?




I think it's because Queening is something you do with someone on a very intimate level. Not all slaves are on that level with their Mistress. When a Domme puts Queening in there every guy(sub or not) jumps to send mail. Next thing you know you're just dealing with a bunch of dumbasses that want to eat ass & pussy but have no real interest in servitude outside of that.

For me it takes a certain type of sub. I wouldn't dream of doing Queening with my sissy maid but if some sexy hotboy was serving me then that would be a very different story LOL. But if I put Queening in an ad, say right here on collarme, I would drown in emails.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 5:33:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix


Don't want to be wanker bait,

Maybe they have bad hemmoroids,




Damn that was funny!!!!!!!! Wanker bait, I LOVE it.

Also to Mistress Imp above, thanks for the great link!!!!


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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 5:35:36 PM   
MistressRage


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty

For a pro dom oral sex would cross the line and become prostitution. (I think) I think a lot of ladies are interested in it, but dont list it on the profile, so they dont get aggressive subs campaigning for it.

quote:

or a pro dom oral sex would cross the line and become prostitution.



Not only would it be prostitution but it puts you at risk for god-knows-what these guys might have! It's interesting to be both Pro and Lifestyle because some of my clients don't understand why I don't do to them what I may do to a personal slave.

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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 5:36:52 PM   
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I have queening as an interest.  One boy is allowed, one isnt.  Just because its an interest of mine does not mean every interested party contacting me is going to get a chance to try it.
I have a feeling that a lot dont list it because most subs contacting us dont read the lists as "interests", or POTENTIAL activities.  They seem to think that anything on our lists mean that if they are even considered for service tey are going to get to try them. I get more emails saying "we have so many interests in common Id be your perfect pet" than I do those who seem to have read my actual text. I filed out the interests the day I joined, and dont believe I have changed it since. Quite honestly, I had to look up my own profile to see where, and even if , I listed Queening. 
It was somehting I got partway through and got bored with. To think that the list is a rulebook rathern than a thought stream would be ridiculous. There are interests of mine that werent even on the lists. 

Anyway, thats just me.

DV


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RE: Why No Queening? - 6/22/2007 6:32:16 PM   
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Man, suprised to see this thing ressurected after about a year.

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