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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:07:50 PM   
Termyn8or


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What, you don't analyse responses ?

T^T

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:13:06 PM   
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He is cannibalized by millions every Sunday.


You are right to feel that such an event is one that must involve a miracle.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:20:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Termyn8or

What, you don't analyse responses ?


I didn't want to be disrespectful the first time around, but decided that this sort of nonsense is so thick as to be ridiculous. These people can't even wrap their heads about the possibility that Dominant men can be lonely.

I feel your pain Termyn8or.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:32:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

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Have you ever seen a baby, BM?  What they "say" is "I"M HUNGRY, BRING ME FOOD...NOW!", "I'M UNCOMFORTABLE.  FIX IT.", "CUDDLE ME, PAY ATTENTION TO ME!"  Their comfort and wishes are preeminent.  The people around them are there to see to their needs.  etc.

Sounds pretty dommy to me.


Ok, am I to take what you wrote seriously?


Excellent question.  And one we've been asking you (and each other aBOUT you) throughout the thread.

I'm not sure how much of all this any of US are taking seriously.  But that comment regarded your point that we supposedly think that Doms aren't born that way (though I read the whole thread and don't recall any such sentiment even between the lines) but that speshul You were.

Yes, I think babies exhibit D-type behaviour.  And that, often at least, parents are their de facto subs.  And, although I'm not prepared to go into Kink Psychology 101 here, one might say that D-types continue (or re-manifest) it later in life.

Not saying that subs, 'nillas & others don't exhibit the same dommy behaviour as babies.  Just that babies, as they pop out, exhibit D-type behaviour.  So your point that we seem to think x (x in this case being "Doms aren't born that way") was, as some of your other assumptions...and ALL of your assertions...unfounded.

= = =

Additional point I neglected to add earlier:

Though we are all naturally Dommy when we're born (and most folks either grow out of it or at least cover it up), none of us is born Christian (or whatever flavour of theist).  I seem to recall you said something in the past 7 pages (not worth rescanning for) about
your birth and that Christian was built in.

You're a Christian most likely because it's what your folks taught you.  They were Christian most likely because it's what their folks taught them.  And all that was made statistically more likely due to where you were born.  Born in North America or Europe?  Most likely it's the Christian app that'll be installed...by your parents after birth, not by your Creator at or before conception.  Born in India, Hindu programming is most likely.  Egypt?  Hey presto, you'd become Muslim...because your parents were.

Hey, that's make this thread different.  You'd be claiming to be heir to Mohammed instead of JC.

As (okay, prolly outing myself here) Richard Dawkins puts it "a child is no more born Baptist, Catholic, Hindu, etc. than he is born a Republican or a Democrat".

= = =

And now that you've addressed me personally I may have to re-assess my whole world view.  (I guess you are having a profound effect on us after all.)  Some religious folks figure their God has spoken personally to them.  I don't have the religion kink, but now that Jesus' foster brother (or whatever your self-given title is) has talked to me personally, well...

"I've seen the light.  Last night, God's younger brother spoke to me. 

"Well, texted me anyway.  On a, er, kink site forum.  Huh.  Guess it's true that God works in mysterious ways" 

Hey, that's less likely to be a delusion than those who hear His voice in their heads.  Cuz I've got textual (pixtual?) proof.  And witnesses over here 'n all.

= = =

Should you take my comment seriously?

We've given you 7 pages worth of attention so far.  Not because we take you seriously but because it's fun.

Should we take what you write seriously?  You've made a ton of assertions and claims.  But where's the beef?  What, out of anything you've claimed, is anywhere but in your own mind?  Any third party verification?  Text you didn't write yourself? 

And, for being so great & all, you're pretty vague about any actual accomplishments.

= = =

And, close above, you claim the "weekly cannibalizing by millions" surely proves a miracle.

FAIL

Symbolic cannibalism requires no miracle.  It's not like the loaves & fishes story (hah! a "fish story") where, by a miracle, Jesus' 2000 year old corpse transforms into enough food for the multitudes to feed off him every week.

It's not the Messiah, it's a cracker.

But it's on par with the other miracles.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:45:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Wow, I've actually never had this thought before, but I think Awareness is right.
  Madam, I'm wounded by your lack of faith in me.  Consider yourself removed from my masturbation Rolodex.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/2/2011 11:52:46 PM   
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"I didn't want to be disrespectful the first time around,"

You must be kidding.

Oh Lord, won't you buy me a Mercedes Banz.

Get on it veit veit, rouse, schnell. Now.

T^T

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 12:15:10 AM   
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"Yes, I think babies exhibit D-type behaviour.  And that, often at least, parents are their de facto subs.  And, although I'm not prepared to go into Kink Psychology 101 here, one might say that D-types continue (or re-manifest) it later in life. "

You have just hit resonance LonDom, in ways you do not know. When you are the Parent of an infant what is the most important thing to you ? How many guesses do you want ?

A real Parent has a need, the need to recreate himself, to carry his DNA on. the child fulfills that need. Being dominant might just be another form of immaturity. And I say this as a donimant, I am not afraid of the truth. In fact I have been into alot of things, and I might see if there is a mirror of my posts on another forume way back on this very subject.

My thesis was asserting that all BDSM was based on returning to a former time in life. That bondage satisfied a need in people to go back in time, to when they were straped into bondage chairs (carseats) and saddled with diapers (chastity belts) and that no matter how much the extant circumstances weould be contrary, they need that "feeling". And those cages they called cribs, people pay big money for those in adult sizes.

This is why maybe I should get the fuck off this site, because I see it for what it is, as I see it in myself. Search and find that I have attributed almost every human weakness to immaturity.

You may have not hit THE nail on the head but you have hit A nail on the head.

But then the question comes - does that mean submisives are more mature ? It could I guess.

T^T

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 1:42:25 AM   
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I then suggest that you wake from Freud's couch and get on with your life as a mature adult. You should read up on Freud because he would have agreed with you. According to Freud these base emotions needed to be understood so they may be controlled.

It is likely that you will swing from one extreme to another given that you see the world in black and white. I would say it is more complicated than this. Dominance is not a kink.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 2:09:55 AM   
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You are so Fruedian that you chose this battle ?

T^T

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 2:43:28 AM   
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According to LonDom61 and Termyn8or everyone is a natural born Dom. Considering what people have posted you are all infatuated with the DSM! Dommy traits means Dom. Go figure! It is like saying that since automobiles backfire and when they backfire they sound like gun shots, automobiles are therefore firearms.

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The DSM-IV-TR states ... its contents “cannot simply be applied in a cookbook fashion”.


See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental_Disorders

Spoken sarcastically, gee I wonder why. Every community requires a variety of types of individuals with different temperaments and skills. Drop kick the pop psychology people.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 3:08:36 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

Having met Christ I know that He is Divine.


You are David Icke and I claim my five free ... actually, thinking about it, I don't want to claim any free gifts.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 3:36:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
Having met Christ I know that He is Divine.

You are David Icke and I claim my five free ... actually, thinking about it, I don't want to claim any free gifts.

Hey, just a minute here, if there's free gifts, then I'm in.  Make mine cash, I need all the help I can get. .


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 4:16:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

I mean, fuck it, Jesus is on the messageboard.

Can we keep him? Canwecanwecanwe? Please?


You can keep him BUT... you will have to feed him, take him potty and be responsible for his housebreaking!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 4:20:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

It would be My opinion, BM, that you should probably have a better idea of the person you are addressing when you wish to make statements about  that person's views on faith.  Frankly, you are quite incorrect.




Ok, I admit it is early, I'm still on my first cup of coffee, and potty humor is usual not something I induldge in......but This guy almost became my very first BLOCKED.

Thank you so much LP, now I can follow this thread whilst keeping it in context as relates to the mastermind behind it.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 4:25:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

I am a witch and as such I am familiar with the Old Ways.


"THOU SHALT NOT SUFFER A WITCH TO LIVE." Exodus 22:18

But of course, you being so exceptional, BM, they made an exception for you.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 4:38:13 AM   
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Here is a Henry Kissinger quote that seems appropriate:

quote:


Accept everything about yourself - I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end - no apologies, no regrets.


See http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/h/henry_a_kissinger.html

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 4:58:48 AM   
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Bruce Lee

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Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successfull personality and duplicate it.


Here's a romantic one

quote:


Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.


See http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/b/bruce_lee.html

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 5:42:22 AM   
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ok, even with the OP blocked, this has been a fun read LOL

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 5:58:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

ok, even with the OP blocked, this has been a fun read LOL


LMAO......Greedy, this was almost a case to need to call out the Flying Monkeys!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/3/2011 5:59:59 AM   
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The Flying Monkeys have more important things to do.. like clean the litter boxes...

*snort*

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