A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself

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BenevolentM -> A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 12:11:50 AM)
Let me begin by saying that I am a straight Dominant male. I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Yet, I know what it is to be lonely and I have been abused by women. What I am saying is that if you are unloved, I too know what it is to be unloved. The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 12:55:14 AM)
OP: Seems to me a better topic for you would be how to ditch the conceit, so that when you do find that special someone, she doesn't run screaming away. [8\|] If what you've already got going on hasn't attracted a suitable partner, preserving it wouldn't be the best goal. Changing it so that you're improved, would - IMHO.

NihilusZero -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 1:06:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone.[/font][/size] The answer is carbon freezing. Anyone who's ever seen The Empire Strikes Back knows this.

IronBear -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 1:10:41 AM)
[threadjack] If an acceptable test for insanity is to repeatedly do something over and over with the same result each time.... I wonder how many of us and, especially male Dominants, qualify as being insane? [/threadjack]

dreamerdreaming -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 1:15:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NihilusZero quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone.[/font][/size] The answer is carbon freezing. Anyone who's ever seen The Empire Strikes Back knows this. Plastination is also a good alternative.

RapierFugue -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 1:45:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone. You are Jeremy Bentham and I claim my 5 free dodgy meat pies ...

BenevolentM -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 2:40:17 AM)
It is self-respect that will sustain you. If you have done well by another, you will respect yourself for it. If you work hard to achieve great things, you will respect yourself for it. It will be a lot easier for a woman to respect you, if you respect yourself.

Aileen1968 -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 3:24:59 AM)
It's been my experience that those who shout the loudest about how great they are, usually aren't...that great.

came4U -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 4:30:11 AM)
quote: I know what it is to be lonely and I have been abused by women. What I am saying is that if you are unloved, I too know what it is to be unloved. Lonely people make bad decisions. Not to mention some of us are quite capable of surviving just fine --with or without or a partner who loves us. Being able to distinguish loneliness from the need to be 'loved' by avoiding heartache and disappointment is not necessarily a 'Dominant' trait. It is a strategy used by one who 'thinks' before they react. Maybe that idea could be your guide in your quest for self-preservation. quote: The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone. Most grown men are quite capable of staying sane between partners--get a hobby perhaps.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 4:48:31 AM)
It's possible that you are extremely awesome, sure. But i have to agree that, in my experience, the loudest trumpet player isn't necessarily the best one. =p i have to wonder if you carry this type of self-aggrandizement into your R/T conversations? a lot of women are very put off by that kind of thing, so maybe you're only attracting ones who see you as a challenge and want to prove how purely HUMAN you really are. plus, a really decent girl might steer clear of you, thinking you would never be interested and only want someone of your "clearly unmatched calibre," when she would actually be a pretty good fit for the REAL you. everyone feels lonely now and again; i don't think there's a person on earth, no matter how gnarly-beyond-compare they might be =p, who can say "i have never felt that." it's a part of the human condition. i get by fine as a single person, but that doesn't mean i never wish i WEREN'T single. anyway, maybe you should start being honest about the type of people you're looking at. are you hanging out with people who've never had to build character because any number of other superficial qualities have helped them through life?

angelikaJ -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 4:50:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM Let me begin by saying that I am a straight Dominant male. I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Yet, I know what it is to be lonely and I have been abused by women. What I am saying is that if you are unloved, I too know what it is to be unloved. The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone. My suggestion is to perhaps enroll yourself in some counselling sessions with a good therapist (perhaps a kink-aware one) and see if that person can help you discover where the disconnect is between you and the rest of the world. If you are as extraordinary as you say (and I could never judge that not to be so) then something must be getting lost in the translation somewhere. The right therapist could help you carve a map on getting from where you are now: unloved and lonely to where you want to be --> w/ soulmate. From my point of view, I am feeling blessed to have a Master who would never think of himself as being "the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived" or even very extraordinary at all. (I however, do see him as being extraordinary.) edit: clarity

Buzzzz -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 4:58:28 AM)
What kind of a guide is that?

poise -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 5:36:23 AM)
In this struggling economy, it may be more cost efficient just to rip your heart out and stick it in a jar of formaldehyde.

sofldan -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 5:49:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM Let me begin by saying that I am a straight Dominant male. I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. And I only drink Dos Equis stay thirsty my friends.

came4U -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 5:51:34 AM)
quote: I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Wait on sec. Charlie Sheen, is that YOU??? *STOP IT! signed, Your former publicist.

FukinTroll -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 5:57:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BenevolentM Let me begin by saying that I am a straight Dominant male. I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Yet, I know what it is to be lonely and I have been abused by women. What I am saying is that if you are unloved, I too know what it is to be unloved. The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone. Yep, you're a legend in your own mind. I'm sorry man... I know it is very difficult to take me serious... but every time I read you I feel like the mean kid with the magnifying glass roasting your insignificant lil ass. I guess that is just how Lesbian Dominant Males are.

sofldan -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 6:12:50 AM)
http://www.suite101.com/content/mummification-in-ancient-egypt-a36277

DarkSteven -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 6:19:40 AM)
OP, if I understand you correctly, you're asking how to consider yourself magnificent if you don't have a woman to tell you you are several times a day. Your focus is wrong. instead of focusing on how great you are, focus on what you want to DO. If you want a woman, focus on what you need to do in order to get one. In other words, quit focusing within, on yourself, and try to affect the world around you.

Lucylastic -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 6:24:06 AM)
To the OP, you honestly sound liek you are a legend in yoru own mind..problem with that is that you are turning off people around you with your sparking dominance. If its not working, its not everyone else, its your approach. While ego is synonymous with dominance, its also a huge drawback with the rest of society Being wonderful is useless without someone who can appreciate it agree and love you for all your faults as well as your greatness[;)]

LaTigresse -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/1/2011 7:21:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U quote: I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Wait on sec. Charlie Sheen, is that YOU??? *STOP IT! signed, Your former publicist. Came4U, thank you!

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