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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/13/2006 11:50:39 AM

4u2spoil

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I have my own business which means more to be than any sub does right now, so I understand priorities. If the women in your life place their careers as a priority, then it sounds like you have something in common (and since you primarily meet women offline, I'm guessing it's through social functions where there's a shared interest). Something besides wanting good sex with kink. I'm sure that you got to great sex because you made the women in your life feel appreciated for something besides just sex. Shared ambition, admiration of goals perhaps. It's not necessarily just housework and roses, but if guys want to get to sex demonstration of appreciation is usually the fastest way.

Which was my point for the OP. If he doesn't want to show his appreciation through housework, he should go after different women, but still show his appreciation for being allowed access to their rusty mines (since he doesn't like the golden ones)

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Such a statement sounds more about me than the women I have a relationship with but that is not true. They too want their freedom and careers and they too have made a conscious decision in what they are willing to give up for a relationship. One of the women is the mother of my youngest daughter and while we have a great time together neither of us are willing to be subservient to the other. (except in the bedroom of course!

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/14/2006 4:50:10 AM

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i need training also, taking apps? LOL

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/14/2006 5:31:56 AM

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Sounds somewhat bitter? Whoa...

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/14/2006 12:40:43 PM

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Lol. A male is entitled to have his needs and wants to you know. Its not all about the domme. If its not about sex, why come to this site?

(shakes head) why come to this site you ask. well if your a sub .(a true sub) it's about self fullfilmen. grown as a person, learning about your self and doing what makes you fell good about your self makeing you a better person. example. servitude(sorry always have ben a bad speller) is plaesing yourouner,master,mistress or what every you call them. is about makeing them happy that makes them want to make you happy. is a two way street at every secound you are with them. it is never about me and it never should be. like..whats her name said it should always be about us as a pair. with out one the other finds no fullfilment. what is a sevint with out a master. what is a master with out a servint. NOTHING you can not have one with out the other.(did i go off topic?)

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/19/2006 11:14:07 PM

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Personally, if i wanted to find a woman to have sex with, i would look in places other than collarme. But i'm not looking for that; i'm looking for a woman who wants to use me (essentially for slave labor, i guess), to do things such as no strings housework, car maintenance, yard work, ect. The experience of spending my own time and energy for absolutely no other purpose than for a dominant female's personal gain and to make her life easier is more gratifying than any sex ever could be, IMO. And from my point of view, it seems there are a lot more females here just looking for the sexual side of things as opposed to the housework side of things, so i don't really see where your complaint is.

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/19/2006 11:38:02 PM

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Personally, if i wanted to find a woman to have sex with, i would look in places other than collarme. But i'm not looking for that; i'm looking for a woman who wants to use me (essentially for slave labor, i guess), to do things such as no strings housework, car maintenance, yard work, ect. The experience of spending my own time and energy for absolutely no other purpose than for a dominant female's personal gain and to make her life easier

And for these reasons alone you'll have no difficulty finding a woman to serve and/or phuck if you so desire... M

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/20/2006 1:04:41 AM

Dollbecky

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Nick I feel sorry for you ..you know what you want but do seem to have worked out how to get it ...
Yes yes you are pretty but alas pretty really isnt enough to get most women to trust/like you enough to dom you .
Now I love to fuck and be a sadist and violent bitch...having a guys so scared he is going to cum blood is great ....but I have to trust and like someone to go to that dark space...and being pretty with a huge chip on one shoulder is not interesting at all, being bitter and outright unpleasent is a real turn off and the sweeping genralisations about Dommes here are just childish and make you look like a fool.
"Never lie down with just anyone as stupid, ugly and mean breed true" given intercourse is a huge part of your kink it's a shame you have two out of three ....might want to work on that huh?

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/20/2006 7:26:40 AM

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I thought BDSM was all about sex.

BDSM is about a lifestyle not about sex even though sex can be involved if the Dom/Domme so chooses.

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RE: When it comes to sex - 5/31/2006 5:09:37 PM

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I thought BDSM was all about sex.

BDSM is about a lifestyle not about sex even though sex can be involved if the Dom/Domme so chooses.

First off BDSM is about sex. As a lesbian I love the physical connection with a slave girl at my mercy. Taking personal gratification as I desire from her submission. Men slaves are for beating the crap out of which I have to admit does excite me also, especially if he's a boy toy.

To separate the two only deprives yourselves of a greater experience of total power and control. The power to control another person to cause your sexual pleasure even when they know that their only reward will be more pain and humiliation for their effort. To have a person helplessly at your mercy, motivated to obediance on such a level that their participation in itself isn't sexual to them at all. Merly out of obedience.

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RE: When it comes to sex - 2/3/2008 6:22:17 PM

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I love to see my wife do the house work naked. She is a cleaner by trade & I am hoping to find her a single gentalman who would like to employ her once a week or so to clean for him while naked.

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