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LadyHugs -> RE: New sub starting training... (5/7/2006 11:14:25 AM)
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Dear LeatherCharm, Ladies and Gentlemen;
I am really concerned for you lad. You are a young man who hasn't lived life as a free man all that long as to discover your authentic self.
Doubts crop up as you haven't the experience or means to judge the situation, it might be your gut instinct raising the red flag -- Are you sure you want to hop from one fry pan into another fry pan, not knowing the expectations and or if the dominant is qualified to train you in the first place. Talk is cheap--Life's lessons expensive. So, I would be curious as to what the hurry is in jumping from what you do know (as life is where you live) to a life based on conversation and one meeting with a dominant.
There is what is called a "courtship" to which the "hunt" is more fun than the capture. Have you thought about, should you find yourself in a dire situation, how to get out of it?
My opinion in a similar situation, to which I was interested in a young lad as you, would have many more visits out to the Dominant's residence, be patient, I'd want my slave potential to look at me when I'm sick as well as decked out, as if I was hunting for a victim to ravish and ...err nebbermind (getting to excited at my age might get me frustrated).
How old is the dominant? Is she a young lass wishing to have a boy to be a slave in "keeping her?" What is the training for? What do you plan to make of it when all is said and done in her training. No offense but, one [cough] alleged slave trainer expert's thought on training was sending the lad to get a job and buy her goodies. Her idea of D/s was see how much money she could bleed out of you under the guise of "training."
I do believe most individuals know how to do a place setting at a table. I didn't see the justification to charge a lad $2,000.00 to learn that. I might add, that she didn't know the difference between a coffee cup and tea cup (which is-the tea cup is larger than the coffee cup; especially in pre-1920s services).
What we fear is what we do not understand. So, all these emotions, feelings, thoughts, logic and debates that wrestle inside of you--is a natural instinct of the primal human-
Fight or Flight. You have a right to be human lad. If it is meant to be; patience is a virtue and when the time is correct it will happen.
I personally would not push a lad as sweet as you come across, into a blind situation.
I'd recommend joining the military, where you'll be trained and paid for it; to where I would take up where the military left off. [[Being as old as I am, chasing young lads with a long whip and empty collar like a butterfly net --has long since passed]]
Submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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