0ldhen
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Joined: 12/27/2010 From: Henhouse in Trolltopia, Harleyville USA Status: offline
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Manipulation? Now to begin I realize that the word manipulation has bad connotations for some of you, so I am going to ask that for the moment you temporarily let go of the knee jerk reaction the word may cause in you, at least until I explain where I am going with this one. Thank you in advance for hanging in here for this. Definition of MANIPULATE (as defined for this discussion) : to manage or utilize skillfully b: to control or play upon by artful means : to change by artful means so as to serve one's purpose A very good friend of mine trains slaves, not submissives, slaves. Damn, there I go again, another one of those knee jerk reaction words, I am on a roll, once again, I ask your indulgence here. He trains them for THEMSELVES, he trains them to be strong, to be proud of their worth, to educate themselves for a career if possible/necessary, he trains them to keep up with the world around them, he trains them in service, in surrender, how to pay CLOSE attention to those around them, in time management, as well as teaching them what to look for in an exceptional match for themselves. But, hang on here comes that word again, he trains them to be master manipulators. Here is the how; The D type comes home from a bad day, the trained manipulative s type sees this and begins to ply her/his training. Using the eyes they glance at the D’s face, giving a hint of a smile. Coaxing with words and posture they draw the D type into a chair, remove his/her shoes, pulling the sock away from the bottom of their foot, rubbing lightly while softly and gently asking about their day. Manipulating their D they begin to direct the conversation away from the subject that caused the irritation towards a subject that they, the s type, knows the D type finds relaxing/amusing. Shortly the D goes from stressed and irritated to relaxed and comfy, ready for the evenings activities. Are you with me so far? I see this as a good thing. Did the s do it for the D? Perhaps, to some degree. Did the s do it from a selfish (see FT’s definition of selfish) point of view? Oh, yeah. Why? Is the s types evening going to be pleasant if their D is cranky? Probably not. Do they both benefit? Again, oh yeah. Back to the training; A successful human being is one who manipulates both their environment and those in their environment until by dint of their hard work and dedication, it is an environment that they are happy living in. This trainer teaches the slaves to manipulate everything they must to secure their own, and not incidentally, their partners happy. Now to take it further and give you a better perspective to view from; any of you have a sprog you’ve set to college? If so chances are you manipulated their minds so that said sprog believed with all their being that an education was the key to becoming a successful adult. We all manipulate the environment around us, the slaves my friend trains become manipulators extraordnaire. Hmmm….I think I’m going to let this be, expounding further as folks respond. (Note1: ” so as to serve one's purpose” what is a slaves purpose/ To see to their D’s happy, thereby seeing to their own) (Note2: we are NOT talking about manipulating somebody into signing away the family farm here.) Wanders off hoping FT will hide me under his bridge for a bit………..
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