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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/12/2011 8:00:17 AM   
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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/12/2011 8:01:30 AM   
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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/12/2011 8:08:19 AM   
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or do I need to polish up n the blow job bit (no pun intended)?

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/12/2011 11:21:39 AM   
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I have always found it amazing that 90% of the financial Dommes seem to be between 18-25 years old.  I guess financial domination is a young woman's game.

Frankly, I completely understand why someone would want to be a financial Domme.  If the person on the other end of the transaction is going to get his jollies, well why not make him pay for it?  As strange as it sounds, there really are men who find it very erotic to have their bank account sucked dry by a financial Domme.  There are others who enjoy being blackmailed by these same Dommes.

What's disheartening to me is that I can't find any Dommes who are equally gullible.  If you look at my profile, you'll notice that I'm a "financial sub".  As far as i know, I'm the only one of my kind.  Yet despite my marketing campaigns, I haven't been able to get a single Domme to send me any money.  Maybe if I posted fake pictures of a 25 year old hard body, the money would start rolling in.   Hmmmmmm, time to start searching for muscle pics. 


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/12/2011 9:14:35 PM   
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What's disheartening to me is that I can't find any Dommes who are equally gullible.  If you look at my profile, you'll notice that I'm a "financial sub".  As far as i know, I'm the only one of my kind.  Yet despite my marketing campaigns, I haven't been able to get a single Domme to send me any money.  Maybe if I posted fake pictures of a 25 year old hard body, the money would start rolling in.   Hmmmmmm, time to start searching for muscle pics. 
If you want to tell people what to do, you'd have a better chance telling them to someone who at least in words, agrees to obey/submit. Why does one have to be gullible to submit?

I don't know if 90% of the financial dommes are 18-25. It may very well be, that dominas in relationships who control their men in all ways, aren't here... And if they were, they'd know that asking for tribute is for the people who actually want to do the digging themselves. M


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 9:58:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		For the most part, it is all FANTASY.
It is just a game.

I have never known a Domme who got rich off of this FANTASY.

The Domme either provides phone sex or panties to the guy in exchange for a small amount of money.

(If anyone wants to prove me wrong I am all ears...LOL♥)

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 12:10:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
What's disheartening to me is that I can't find any Dommes who are equally gullible.  If you look at my profile, you'll notice that I'm a "financial sub".  As far as i know, I'm the only one of my kind.  Yet despite my marketing campaigns, I haven't been able to get a single Domme to send me any money.  Maybe if I posted fake pictures of a 25 year old hard body, the money would start rolling in.   Hmmmmmm, time to start searching for muscle pics. 
If you want to tell people what to do, you'd have a better chance telling them to someone who at least in words, agrees to obey/submit. Why does one have to be gullible to submit?



SexyBossyBBW,
My comment was completely tongue in cheek.  I did not mean for it to be taken seriously.  Those who know me know that I tend to joke a lot.  I keep forgetting that I've been away for quite some time, and that there are some here who don't know that they shouldn't take some of my comments seriously.

I apologize for the misunderstanding.

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 12:13:37 PM   
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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 12:34:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		95% of the finaical dommes of any age are not actually dominating they are just taking money. Financial dominantion would be controling who, what, when and how they spend their money. that would include getting your car washed, eating lunch, grocery shopping...anything you would want to spend your money on, would need permission from said domme. the differnce is the ones your seeing are saying "give and spend your money on ME" not the real sence of it "you will beg permission to spend any money" even if its a pack of gum at the corner store. in short a Finacial domme is a D/s version on a finaial planner. I dont have to worry about it cuz I aint gots no muney honey!

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 12:58:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have seen those a lot too. It always makes me wonder if anybody actually falls for that line. I would say that I am pretty old fashioned and when it comes to money I enjoy being the one paying for things. This idea of going dutch on a date or having a woman paying for me in a restaurant makes me a bit uncomfortable.
The sad fact about these dating sites is that there are countless people trying to make money out of them. If I receive a letter from a drop dead gorgeous female 10 years younger than my son I automatically put it in that category and just delete. Long time ago I answered a few. They never have webcams or phones but after 2 minutes of conversation they start the usual crap about money. Funny enough, they were very common from Ghana and Nigeria. But now they suddenly all seem to come from other places. But like one from Cape Hagen, region South Denmark. It is Copenhagen (København) and region Syddanmark is in the other end of the country. I suspect it is the same African scammers who have realized that anything coming from central Africa is dumped in the scrapheap without a second thought and now pretend to come from wherever comes to their mind. They don´t seem to be too bright either, as often they can´t even spell the town or state they are from. Lots of other things give them away, but then of course I have travelled extensively all over the world for nearly half my life.

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 3:28:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		yea, I have noticed an upswing myself. I blame the bad economy. I can't believe they actually make anything, but they are there, so they must be. Maybe I should give it a shot. How hard can it be to tell someone they are a worthless worm in a email?

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 3:30:29 PM   
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The past few days I have seen MULTIPLE profiles of people claiming their fetish to be "financial domination." All the profiles I've seen are woman my age (18-25), all of them calling everyone that looks at their profile to be "worthless" unless they give them money.

I know financial domination is not a new thing, but is this becoming a new fad for young woman? Another way to become gold-diggers? A get rich quick using their sex appeal sort of thing?

You could always write to THEM and ask them their reasons.


I wrote one who was going to "dommee me" (her words not mine) online for a price. I wrote and asked just what she was going to do for my money and she blocked me.


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 3:34:47 PM   
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The facts:
# One partner is giving money to the other.
# The other partner is providing sexual gratification (possibly among other things)

Beyond that you have no way of knowing what the motives are. My suspicion is that they are unique to everyone. There are undoubtedly some who are using it as a synonym for "prostitution" but I suspect the real answer goes way further than that.


That would be my definition of financial domination, but if she is referring to the same ones I have seen popping up, that is not what they are looking for. I especially like the ones who want you to send a payment before they will even start an online conversation. How is that a relationship?


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 3:43:04 PM   
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I know financial domination is not a new thing, but is this becoming a new fad for young woman? Another way to become gold-diggers? A get rich quick using their sex appeal sort of thing?

If it's not your kink just laugh at the profile (honestly some of the young $Domme profiles are funny as Hell, many I suspect deliberately so) and move on. Why waste time whining about it. Who cares why they do it, clearly there are some men who will go along with it, or they wouldn't be here. Let them and their playmates have their fun, they aren't hurting anybody. I mean what's next...complaining about the masochists who are on about the abuse and torture they crave? Live and let live.

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 7:55:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I could write a book on my opinions on this topic! lolol

I once belonged to a Domme/sub site that quickly became filled with financial Dommes.  I have nothing against people and their kinks, whatever floats your boat.  I do however have a problem with the ideal that you can get a submissive so far into space that you deplete all his finances, then disappear.  If its consensual on both sides, I have no arguments.  If it's used in an abusive way, I totally disagree. 

I've seen the good and bad sides of it, financial domination is not always about a woman trying to make a quick buck.  In fact you will find Dommes that are very responsible in what they do, making certain their sub/slaves pay their bills, take care of their financial responsibilities, put money aside in a savings account, etc... A woman who wants to take all the money for herself, without assuring the slave's financial responsibilities are taken care of, in my opinion is not a domme at all. 

I watched as a woman told a boy she didn't care if his baby had milk to drink, when he told her he could not be a financial sub, because he had a new baby that he needed to take care of, and that her needs came before any kink he was into.  She told him he was a worthless and that he had better never speak to her again. I think everyone in the chatroom applauded when he told her she'd not have to worry about that, because any woman that thought she was more important than a child, was not worthy of his time or his submission!

The sub/slave is just as responsible for knowing who he's dealing with, who he's giving that control over to.  If he willingly gives it to someone who has no control over her own finances, what in the world makes him think she won't lose control with his? 


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 9:12:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I wrote one who was going to "dommee me" (her words not mine) online for a price. I wrote and asked just what she was going to do for my money and she blocked me.



And so did she bill you for the block? 


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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/13/2011 9:33:31 PM   
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I'm sorry if I came at you, at little too intensely. There is absolutely no need for you to apologize.
*I'm trying to prove I'm not too nice to be mean, and humiliating, as I keep getting accused of that.* M

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/14/2011 2:55:22 AM   
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yea, I have noticed an upswing myself. I blame the bad economy. I can't believe they actually make anything, but they are there, so they must be. Maybe I should give it a shot. How hard can it be to tell someone they are a worthless worm in a email?


lol everything you write seems to read in my head as if thishereboi is talking like stewie from family guy..... i'm probably the only one arn't i

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/15/2011 8:09:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hello, I am new to this forum and fairly new to the site.

At the risk of being judged and "beat up" on this forum I just wanted to add my two cents.

I am a Domme who does pro sessions, financial domination, and I have subs that just come to serve me with no payments at all. For me this is not my job nor a huge source of income. There are submissives who wish to be financially dominated or blackmailed just like any of the other kinks and fetishes. I don't see a problem with it as long as you are willing to put the work in. In my situation there are conversations about what the sub is actually wishing to get out of the experience (if that makes sense). I do a lot of work to make sure they get what they are looking for.

I'm not sure about the Dommes who say "give me your money" with nothing in return, but I give the sub a lot in return and I will never get rich off of this nor do I want to. With me there is an agreed upon amount and duration prior to anything even starting.

I love the lifestyle. Everything from the paid Pro sessions to the subs who come to rub my feet just to enjoy my presence. Actually I can honestly say that the subs who do not pay me are the most devoted.

And just in case you wondered.....There is never any type of sex involved in any of my paid sessions or financial domination. Lots of phone calls, cam time, IM, and visits in person.

Just My experience.

I'm sorry, I did not mean to reply to anyone in particular. I was just commenting on this thread.

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RE: Financial Domination? - 4/15/2011 10:59:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LoveSparkie
The past few days I have seen MULTIPLE profiles of people claiming their fetish to be "financial domination." All the profiles I've seen are woman my age (18-25), all of them calling everyone that looks at their profile to be "worthless" unless they give them money.


Probably some spammer trolling for suckers. More and more of the profiles on CollarMe are fake.

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