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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 10:22:17 PM

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Why thank you, handome man.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 10:48:20 PM

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the place is teeming with douchebags.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 11:27:09 PM

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Is this something you just recently noticed?

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 11:40:57 PM

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My narcissism would exist without my dominant personality. I'm just that damn good.

Seriously though, I would be surprised if there were a distinct connection.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 11:42:43 PM

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the place is teeming with douchebags.

Well lookie who finally caught up smirkle

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 11:43:47 PM

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Damnit RS! I had a long and shitty day at work! My brain is dead! No creating dichotomies please... at least not tonight. ;)

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/21/2011 11:48:59 PM

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I think there way are more narcissistic submissives than dominants.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 4:58:42 AM

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I am absolutely inclined to agree with that. With the do me male subs, the precious princess and little girl female subs and the sheer ratio of males to females here, I think that is a correct assessment.

For the sake of clarity, not all categories are entirely made up of the above. Merely noting I do see a large amount of bratty spoiled "precious" little subs roaming the halls here.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 5:31:12 AM

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I don't see narcissism as a defining character trait of either dominants or submissives, and would imagine the incident rate of those who would be clinically diagnosed as narcissists in the D/s - BDSM community is likely the same as that in the general population.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 5:39:56 AM

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There is probably a slightly higher rate in the community because people of submissive character fill the need for a narcissists "supply source".

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 6:14:39 AM

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What if my answer is No, I'm not perfect(but) Yes I am a lot closer to perfect then you are. Which side does that put me on?

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 6:47:54 AM

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You need to get out more... your view sounds like you read it on a website... the TRUE one...

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 6:48:56 AM

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yep... I've met a lot of slaves like that...

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I think there way are more narcissistic submissives than dominants.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 7:31:19 AM

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Been reading a lot about narcissm lately and it seems to fit in with a lot of dominant people, what do you all think?

In my time on CM I have read some stuff I would consider fairly anti-social. These dominants wouldn't appeal to me, and I wouldn't appeal to them, period. The word "narcissist" sometimes occurs to me when I have read certain profiles and emails... but in the end it might not be that at all. Perhaps there are some men that think that sort of talk appeals to their target audience, you know "uber doms".

I am not professionally trained to diagnose anyone, much less those on the internet. I can say that certain types of profiles raise a red flag for me personally.

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 11:38:45 AM

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Im truly amazed at the number of folks who are taking this question seriously. Really??/ In general all generalities are wrong. ie Blondes have more fun..Blacks are smarter than whites ect..

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 11:48:27 AM

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I don't really know if they are or not, but I just gotta get a picture of me standin next to that word......

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 12:09:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: a1111

Been reading a lot about narcissm lately and it seems to fit in with a lot of dominant people, what do you all think?

Greetings,

As with most vices you'll find narcissism is well represented in dominant and submissive persons. No one has a monopoly in my opinion. What differs is how each elects to display their vanity.

Namaste,

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 12:13:59 PM

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People are individuals till we put them in little catagories.

im not seeing any difference between this question and "are male subs all closet homosexuals".

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 12:25:54 PM

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I'm not the least bit narcissistic.
That's enough about me.
Let's talk about you.
What do you think of me?

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RE: Are doms/dommes just narcisstic? - 4/22/2011 2:17:17 PM

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I think there way are more narcissistic submissives than dominants.

this.

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