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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:14:43 PM

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many mistress are not into financial domination
but still want to be paid
everyone wants to be paid..
they dont need to do finanacial domination
to be paid..

ok thanks
i appreaciate your interest
i really do

im not an angry
or bad person
im actually very nice

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:18:53 PM

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what u dont understand is
everyone of them want
some sort of tribute before
talking and attention

everyone..
its all about money
im sorry but thats reality..

respectfully yours
im not yelling at u..

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:22:59 PM

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if you read it all
i do tell
about my karaoke career
i even say what artists
i sing..
how long i have been singing

i do say other things about me in
myjournal..
i really do
thank

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:26:15 PM

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at times im a slave to my cock
not always
i have to work and when
i work i dont think
of my cock..
thats why im a session slave
and not a 24/7 one.

but thank u

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:26:25 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001
but im only wanting a domme
for sessions
not 24/7
so why should she care what i do
as long as i pay her?
just asking you

thanks so much

This is exactly why only those who want to be paid are contacting you.

I do happen to play casually, but I do not do scenes for money. I have a few play partners, but the reason that they are My play partners is because I am connected to who they are as people. They are folks that I've met through local munches and events and I absolutely consider them to be friends.

If you want to get involved in business arrangements where you pay someone to play with you and you are nothing but a client, that is completely your affair. If you are trying to find people who will engage in BDSM with you and you aren't paying them, you're going to have to bring something to the table. That might be friendship, common interests, or a number of other positive things. The stuff that you had in the beginning part of this thread, which sounds very fantasy and fetish based, really doesn't go far with many Dominant women. (By the way, you do need to improve your understanding of the word "fetish" a bit more.) That is what a majority of us will just roll our eyes and move on from.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:26:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

im done talking on here
im tired of all the hostility to me
bye

So you are saying when you typed this

"i respect and
read any
advice
women give me on this.
and i will change
to better serve women.."

you were lying through your teeth.

Is that what you are saying.

And I am sorry, I just have to add. Two college degrees and this is how you communicate. What college did you go to?

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:28:30 PM

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sorry
i didnt mean to be rude to you
i was so i apologize..
i meant what i said
i deeply respect what women
have to say to me

i do want to serve women
always
that is very true about me
it really is..

im very sorry

< Message edited by john1001 -- 4/23/2011 2:29:42 PM >

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:32:16 PM

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you mean youll talk
and be friends on here
with men if they dont
give u tribute right away?
or at all?
cuz thats what i was saying..
your the first
congradulations
my kind of mistress
lets be friends then on here

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:34:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

what u dont understand is
everyone of them want
some sort of tribute before
talking and attention

everyone..
its all about money
im sorry but thats reality..

respectfully yours
im not yelling at u..

I do understand that there are a lot of people out there looking to get paid, yes, it's quite common. That is why the women who have reponded so far are seriously trying to help you - because it's hard to find a Domme. You were taking what they say as negative criticism when it was intended to be constructive.

Now....I am confused as you've said several different things so let's clear this up shall we? We know you want a Mistress...you mention paying for one and then here you say it's all about money on their part.
What are you looking for? A lifestyle Domme - that is a woman who Doms you while being in some type of arrangement, be it casual or long term - or a professional Domme - that is a woman who Doms you within the context of a paid (by you) session?

What are you looking for? This is exactly the type of thing you should put in your profile. If I couldn't decipher what you wanted in all of the posts that you have made so far, no one else will likely understand it either. Clear communication when you are using a feature such as a message board will help get you on the road to finding what you want.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:35:14 PM

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thank u heather very much
i really appreaciate
and thank u
hannah
i hope i got your name right

take care

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:37:06 PM

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The metrics and cadence are troubling but the OP's posts read like an atrocious form of poetry.

My response can only be a bad haiku:

Treading water
Not Drowning nor Reaching Shore
In Stasis Alone

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:44:15 PM

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john, let me sum up for you.

If you were to be a slave for a Domme, what do you envision your life to be like. You have stated that it would be "serving her", which is open ended. Remember, these folks are people first, women second, and Dommes third.

Would you cook them dinner and send them flowers? Take them to a NFL game (assuming that the lunkheads resolve the impasse)? Go for a walk? Take them to a classy restaurant? Paint them a picture that they can envision. Make them feel like they're being wooed.

They're women, after all.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:45:14 PM

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That's not what I said. I said I am friends with the people that I play with because they are My friends in My life. It doesn't mean that I'm willing to talk or consider Myself a friend of every person who shows up on the internet. Please note, this is exactly what I said:

quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001
I have a few play partners, but the reason that they are My play partners is because I am connected to who they are as people. They are folks that I've met through local munches and events and I absolutely consider them to be friends.

Frankly, john, you've been rather rude to some of the folks who tried to help you here. Also, the tantrum of "oh you're all so mean so I'm leaving" is not the kind of immaturity that I would want in a friend. If My slave came on these forums and acted the way that you have through this thread, I would be very displeased. A person who can not take friendly advice usually isn't very obedient and that's a big thing with Me.

There are some things that I want you to learn from this thread:

I want you to learn that, if English is not a second language, you need to do a little better in how you communicate. If it is a second language, perhaps you can use the forums to help you improve.

I want you to learn that friendly advice should be accepted with grace no matter the gender or role of the person giving it. Dominant women do not want to see the people that they have respect for have to experience rudeness from folks on the internet.

I want you to learn that you have many things to learn about BDSM and need to do something to begin educating yourself about it.

Do some of those things and Dominant women may be more willing to talk to you.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 2:48:17 PM

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quote:

but im only wanting a domme
for sessions
not 24/7
so why should she care what i do
as long as i pay her?
just asking you

then why are you on here? contact a local escort agency or answer those ads at the back of the local alt weekly. there's a web site (red something-or-other) that lists pro dommes by area. maybe somebody knows the one i mean or something similar.
i'm curious as to why you don't want to marry a domme though, wouldn't it be simpler to do that, then you could have sessions regularly without the added expense of paying for them. also see my other reply, get involved in your local bdsm community, get to know the dommes, that way they may decide they want a session with you.

that's really all i know to tell you, i don't have any experience with pro dommes, so i can't help more. good luck.

hannah lynn

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:11:37 PM

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your right
i should marry a domme
that would be perfect for me
but most dommes arnt looking for that
there looking to make a living..
but your right
i could should marry a domme
then i have my fetishes i want
everyday ok..
your right about marrying
a domme ok

thanks

< Message edited by john1001 -- 4/23/2011 3:12:29 PM >

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:15:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: isoLadyOwner

The metrics and cadence are troubling but the OP's posts read like an atrocious form of poetry.

I agree. Very much so. The first impression I get is that English is *not* his primary language.

Love your haiku as well. Very creative. I am impressed.

Now, on to the issues of our fine submissive boy john.....

As others have stated, your profile is essentially blank. There is not one word in it about you as a "person", or as a "man".

There is not one word about what you can do for a dominant woman -- that is to say, how you can make her life better, easier, more enjoyable, less stressful, etc. And no, this does not mean in a finanical way.

Saying that you will kiss a woman's feet/toes/shoes at any time or in any place does NOT make you a submissive male. It simply means that you have a huge foot fetish. And personally, the thought of a male doing that to My feet squicks Me.

I tried to read your "journal posts", but gave up after a few of them. It made My head hurt. They read like a child's Christmas wish list to Santa. It was all about "gimme, gimme, gimme". "I" want this.... "I" want that..... "I" want a woman to ______ {fill in the blank with your choice of everything that you said you want a woman to do to you}.

To My perception, based on the words that *you* wrote, you are not a submissive male. you are a "do-me sub" perhaps, but more than likely just a fetish-ist.

you asked for guidance and advice from dominant women, and there you have My input. Do with it as you choose.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:22:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

john, let me sum up for you.

If you were to be a slave for a Domme, what do you envision your life to be like. You have stated that it would be "serving her", which is open ended. Remember, these folks are people first, women second, and Dommes third.

Would you cook them dinner and send them flowers? Take them to a NFL game (assuming that the lunkheads resolve the impasse)? Go for a walk? Take them to a classy restaurant? Paint them a picture that they can envision. Make them feel like they're being wooed.

They're women, after all.

AAAAAAAAAA - men to that!!!!!!

You said it perfectly, DarkSteven. Thank you for that.

I have tried to convey that very thought to the sub males that I correspond with -- I am a woman first, and a Domme second. I want to be wooed and pursued. Pursue Me until I capture you. *wink*

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:29:58 PM

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well
i have said that i would only be
a session slave/
cuz i do work for aliving..

now if i married a domme
of course i would do all
those things fro her
and more

thanks for asking miss teazer
by the way i just eliminated
many things in my journal
i realized i was repeating myself lol
so it is shorter and shorter is
always better..

take care
idf u ever want
make any more suggesions
i would welcome them

take care

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:32:38 PM

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yes miss ladypact
i understand and ur
right..
i will try hard
i appreaciate what you said
and to all the women
on here
i apologize for
being rude..
including yourself..\

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:36:00 PM

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its really simple
i just want a domme i can
serve and be submissive to

that really is it in a nutshell..
thats really what im
saying in my journal
on cm

respectfully yours

john

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