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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:39:33 PM

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sounds all over the place. I see some great advices from lots of peeps , and all seem to be ignored. oh well.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:53:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001
i could should marry a domme
then i have my fetishes i want
everyday

Sigh.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 3:59:51 PM

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i respect what you said
but i definetely i am 100 percent
submissive..

i appreciate your not wanting a foot fetish male
but over 98 percent of dommes
that i have seen on here
and i have seen a ton..
love when a man is at her feet.
almost every domme profile
says loves FOOT WORSHIP..
and they are looking for submissive
men..

i appreciate your input. though..
thanks

< Message edited by john1001 -- 4/23/2011 4:01:49 PM >

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 4:03:57 PM

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sounds like ur bored
sorry you dont approve
of what i say..
but its true what i said

have a nice day

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 4:41:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: john1001

your submissive
im not dealing with your submissive
women
thats not why im here
ok?
so why are u talking to me?
only dominant women
should talk to me
thats why im here
with all due respect

Welcome to CollarMe's
message boards, john1001.
I know you would prefer
that only dominant women
answer...but these subs
who have answered your
questions and offered advice
have something you lack.
Real time experience.
You can either choose to
benefit
from their wisdom
or...choose not to.

Growth is sometimes
painful to the ego
and a little embarrassing.
Do not let these feelings
become obstacles
to getting what you want.

quote:

BUT THEY ARE
QUESTIONING
ME ABOUT ME
NOT BEING SUBMISSIVE

I did not detect an attack at YOU as a person or as a submissive, merely pointing out how your profile makes you seem. Good suggestions were offered. (You are reacting like a new writer who is horrified to have an editor expecting changes to be made in their perfect masterpiece.)

When I look at the profiles of submissives, then chat, phone, and meet with them in person, I check to see if they feel a need to be pleasing even in small things. If they are willing to be led toward things that are for their own benefit. If all of their needs are kink related, then we are not compatible.

I am not into Female Supremacy, and the subs are right...how you decided to do your journal does not appeal to me. I prefer to read whole sentences, not one sentence fragment per line. Your journal entries let me know that you are very much into cybering...and I'm not. It is my opinion that your profile and journal will attract others who wish to cyber, and not many women who are like me.

quote:

I REALLY REGRET STARTING THIS THREAD..
IF I KNEW IT WOULD BRING ALL THIS
ANGER ON ME
I NEVER WOULD HAVE..

And yet, I am glad you did. People around here tend to speak plainly and you are not used to us yet. I see nobody angry with you. Mods have explained the rules to you, and many have offered suggestions that have you feeling defensive.

Do you know how to find BDSM munch groups in your area? Others into BDSM meet maybe once per month at a restaurant and...meet and greet...and eat.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 5:00:48 PM

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thank u for your input
it was most interesting

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/23/2011 11:00:08 PM

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John, Cynthia asked you a question. Do you know how to find munches in your area? Honestly, if you desire a play partner, then those are the best places to find one.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 4:56:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Buzzzz

sounds all over the place. I see some great advices from lots of peeps , and all seem to be ignored. oh well.

Yes, he does seem to ignore the advice and the questions. Yet he will be back to apologize to everyone any minute and let us all know how good he is going to be and how well he will listen.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 5:39:41 AM

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i dont know what munches are

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 5:42:42 AM

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i guess there is no pleasing you..
take care
i said i was sorry
but thats not good enough for you..

i cant control that so
take care

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 5:42:59 AM

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a munch is a regular meeting of kinky folk, usually in a bar or restaurant. It's usually vanilla in dress and behaviour and is there to allow kinksters to meet up with other kinksters in a non-threatening environment.

Munch organisers will usually arrange to meet and greet any new people, and introduce them round to the others, if they are contacted beforehand. I've never known a munch organiser who wasn't extremely friendly and approachable, so sending them a polite email is never a problem.

Your best bet, OP, is to google 'munch' and your area. This should give you the info you need.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 5:47:17 AM

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not something i would do
thanks..
im only looking for one domme.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 6:37:47 AM

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How do you propose to find the one Domme if you wont even go out to meet her?

munches are like meetings. no sex, no nudity, all talk... its how you meet people who may like the same things you do.

unless you are willing to pay a stranger to give you what you want, you will have to meet a few women before you find the one who meets your needs.

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11
Duchess of Dissent 1
Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 6:43:21 AM

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im meeting and talking to
dommes on cm..
the internet makes people
not have to go out to meet..
dommes.
i do that right here
thats how..
i do need a domme badly
to dominate me..
more and more everyday..

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 6:59:36 AM

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John -
I looked at your profile, and something confused me a bit.
There are a number of people on CM who have given dozens of workshops, written books, run committees, taught classes who don't have "expert" on their profiles even though they are what others would consider an expert. What have you done that shows you are an expert in these things? (listed below are only the things you put in your profile as "expert)

begging
body worship
breast play
canes and crops
chastity
corner time
crossdressing
foot worship
huliiation
leashes
obedience training
objectification
orgasm control

best,
sunshine

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 7:12:29 AM

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i never said i was an expert
ive never been to a domme
but i have done some of those
things with past girlfriends

but i need badly a domme
to do those things to me..

i never said i was an expert
thank u

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 7:16:08 AM

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Yes, John, you do say it - on your profile. If you are NOT in fact an expert, perhaps you ought to change your profile so that it doesn't look like you are lying to the people who read it.

Why do you need a domme to do things to you? Will you die without it? Will you lose an appendage? Will your life fall apart?

It doesn't seem like it. We have a phrase for fellows like you - Horny Net Geek. Nothing worng with that, but it means that you are a fellow who just wants sex. Nothing wrong with that either.

You will most likely need to find a pro to go to. Have fun!
sunshine

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 7:19:03 AM

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If you're not prepared to change your profile or your desperate 'do me' attitude, and you're not prepared to go out and actually meet the kind of women who might want a fling with you, then I can only echo Sunny and say 'get thee to a pro-Domme'.

Otherwise you're going to have to wait. And wait. And...well, you get the picture.

Good luck. You're going to need it.

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 7:22:26 AM

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i need a domme badly
waiting is tough for me..

ok

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RE: need badly women..mistress domination - 4/24/2011 7:24:53 AM

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You may want to get a book, John. It's going to be a long wait unless you pay. And while you wait, please go fix your profile. Take away all those "expert" notices.

Now, some of us need to go to sleep - it's 11:30 for goodness' sakes! Night everybody!

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 4/24/2011 7:25:49 AM >

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