RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males?

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 12:10:23 PM

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 2:39:50 PM

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Truly confident people are not so bothered by the existence of a contrary opinion that they need to go out of their way to denounce it with childish insults..
It is you that has been hurling insults on here...so I guess you're not that confident a person are you, or are you just trying to be the Alpha around here?

No, Arpig. Allow me to once again explain context to you. I am not spending my time on these message boards making unprovoked personal insults against people who make opinions I don't like. I am rebuking an asshat who has decided to attempt to call me a bigot and a coward simply because he is unable to string together sentences into concepts.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 2:51:32 PM

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fuck you're a thin skinned little cunt aren't you?

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 2:53:35 PM

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I am not intolerant or feel contempt or hatred towards them.
I disagree, based on your own words.

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I feel repulsion and disgust

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It also contrary to my own personal idealism of what a "man" is.

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I am as repulsed by the idea of female dominance as much as I am repulsed by the idea of male submission.

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I find female dominants and male submissives to be a demographic that's too insecure to not take personal offense to my personal preferences.

You can squirm and wiggle and try to redefine what you said all you want, but it's right there in black and white. I did read your post, and do know what the word bigot means, and it was your own words that labelled you a bigot, not me.

How pathetic.

Please stop confusing your misrepresentation of my words with what is written. Not only have you made baseless accusations, but have taken things completely out of context to try and prove your false point.

Here is what you quoted...

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I feel repulsion and disgust

Here is what I actually said..

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I'm not homosexual or bisexual and therefore, when I think about a man blowing another man, I feel repulsion and disgust

I was referencing the act of a man giving a man another blowjob as being repulsive and disgusting, not that I found homosexual men to be repulsive and disgusting. If I thought it was hot, erotic, and attractive, I would probably spend my time sucking cock, but I don't...because I am heterosexual...and it turns me off.

There is a whole host of behaviors and actions that I find repulsive and disgusting such as...once again...eating mushrooms.

Perhaps if I were to be in a grocery store and make the statement that "I find eating mushrooms to be disgusting", you would be the first leap out and scream out "Bigot! Hater and intolerant of people who eat mushrooms!"

Or maybe you won't. You might even be smart enough to understand that disliking a particular action does not automatically translate into hatred and intolerance of people who perform the action.

But then again.... if you were that smart, it would beg the question of why the hell are you making the intellectually dishonest jump in logic from "I find male submission to be repulsive and disgusting" to "I find male submissives to be repulsive and disqusting, hate them, and am intolerant of their existence"

We call that "putting words in someone's mouth" down here in the South and usually leads to "putting your own head up your own ass"

Edited To Add: Oh and btw...I have recently come to the conclusion that you hate all African Americans. This is supported by the repeated use of the word "black" in several posts. Clearly, this is a racial slur. I find you to be a horrible racist and the literal scum of the Earth.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 2:55:20 PM

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fuck you're a thin skinned little cunt aren't you?

Nope, I just like having fun with Arpig.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 3:06:29 PM

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Nope, I just like having fun with Arpig.

maybe you should work on your writing skills then bucky, because it reads to me the other way round if anything. he says jump, and you fucking jump.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 3:09:15 PM

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Nope, I just like having fun with Arpig.
maybe you should work on your writing skills then bucky, because it reads to me the other way round if anything. he says jump, and you fucking jump.

You are more then welcome to read it however you want, fluffy.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 3:33:47 PM

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You are more then welcome to read it however you want, fluffy.

oh fuck, somebody posted something relevant to this, what the fuck was it. oh yeah here it is.

"Truly confident people are not so bothered by the existence of a contrary opinion that they need to go out of their way to denounce it with childish insults.. "

just saying.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 3:44:29 PM

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You are more then welcome to read it however you want, fluffy.
oh fuck, somebody posted something relevant to this, what the fuck was it. oh yeah here it is.

"Truly confident people are not so bothered by the existence of a contrary opinion that they need to go out of their way to denounce it with childish insults.. "

just saying.

Oh dear me, I don't want you to feel insulted. I just thought we were just playing off our hot, sexual attraction and using our play names, "fluffy" and "bucky" again. I had no idea you were so thin-skinned and would take my use of the word "fluffy" as an insult!

But seriously...go ahead and try and construe this however you want. I don't care. I'm also willing to go the distance in this particular thread, because I think there is a solid line between disliking the activity and being intolerant of the person. I think it's important to make this distinction. I'm willing to debate Arpig, because he represents the worst kind of intolerance: someone who falsely labels and denounces people simply for having personal opinions and preferences that goes against what is politically correct.

If my action here make me come off as someone who is "dancing Arpig's tune", that's fine. You're throwing me into a game I am not trying to play.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 4:16:24 PM

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fuck man, i was joking - see the smiley? you really are fucking easy to control aren't you, you react practically to order. i can see why he likes poking you.
arpig:

you:

it's really quite a hoot.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 4:26:05 PM

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fuck man, i was joking - see the smiley? you really are fucking easy to control aren't you, you react practically to order. i can see why he likes poking you.
arpig: you:

it's really quite a hoot.

Look, if you are done posturing and want to contribute something to the discussion at hand, feel free to chime in.

This is nothing new. I'm dealt with people who play these power games before. They get to be...annoying and sometimes frustrating to deal with, particularly when you are motivated by the goal of participating in debate, not playing who's the "best Internet sadist". If I respond, no matter what the response is, you'll attempt to make it look like your manipulating me into making the response. If I don't respond, you'll take that as some personal victory, forcing me out of the discussion.

Not very good options. I find to best route is to respond and call them out on what they are doing and just refuse to play the game. Actually, I should have just ignored you like the other threads where you have tried this and saved myself the headache, but I was curious to see where this would go. It's actually kind of fun to watch someone to continue to posture themselves like they are "controlling you over the Internet" when you are not really playing along or buying into their bullshit.

For next time, I recommend not directly proclaiming how easy it is to get reactions out of your supposed opponent. It made you look desperate. Also, the whole use of the "smiley faces" thing to make your intentions look innocent was pretty weak.

But keep at it...I'm sure you will get better.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 5:08:10 PM

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no thanks i already contributed to this fucking thread months ago when it was new. that and i'm having fucking fun playing with you.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/28/2011 11:50:54 PM

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arpig: you:

it's really quite a hoot.

Bravo.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/29/2011 1:34:45 AM

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Amongst many of the responses here there's a stereotype of sub men as being submissive in life as opposed to being submissive to the individual of their choosing. Whilst I can understand that the layman would have that view, to see it on here from some of the regulars is a little disappointing.

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RE: Do you have contempt for submissive males? - 8/29/2011 12:33:30 PM

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I find it contemptible for the contept that comtempiataion of the contempness which only comtemputates males.

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