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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 2:39:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Palliata

I'm highly confused as to why this thread is earning such rancor. 50% of the threads on this board are "How do you feel about X practice at a personal and ethical level" and yet this one is somehow horribly judgmental and an affront to all that is good in the world? Did the OP rape a puppy at some point and I didn't notice?

Prolly cuz he runs around saying moronic shit like this but we all know his innate asshole nature would triumph in the end. He has been here a couple of months and acts like A He know how "we" as a group feel about another member, which may or may not be true. B He denigrates other cuz they dont agree with his point.
I could go on but you get the point.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 2:48:59 PM

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I disagree with SB about the Op but that's neither here nor there. Assuming I was sadistic, which I'm not, I still would not do this. It's like sending naked pics out to people who I don't know. Wiitwd is private for me, it's done between us and deepens the emotional bond. I don't do it with people I am not bonded to.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 2:51:19 PM

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Prolly cuz he runs around saying moronic shit like this but we all know his innate asshole nature would triumph in the end. He has been here a couple of months and acts like A He know how "we" as a group feel about another member, which may or may not be true. B He denigrates other cuz they dont agree with his point.
I could go on but you get the point.

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Fair enough. How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker? I've always wondered...

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 2:54:27 PM

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I think I'm a pretty awesome fella'.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 2:58:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Palliata

Fair enough. How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker? I've always wondered...

I enjoy torturing the resident chewtoy. It amuses me when I have time to kill.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 3:02:45 PM

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I'm not in the habit of hurling abuses at random strangers. I only do it to people I like.

There ya go butterfly...that's when it is a real pleasure.

But I take the OP to mean online which doesn't add up to much in my view. I do think much of what some seek online is taken as a new scene idea or to just gather ideas.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 3:03:30 PM

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Oh, so that's what it is? No wonder you never cuddle after. =(

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 3:10:54 PM

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Would I degrade or humiliate a strange woman...?

A lot would depend on how strange she was

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 3:11:41 PM

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You bitches always want to cuddle. Why can't you just let me roll over and go to sleep?

On topic: Humiliation/degredation isn't my thing and I'm not in the habit of engaging in kinky activities with random strangers. If someone else wants to put up unflattering pictures and profile to solicit others do so, I have no moral objection to it. I'm not required to participate, ergo I don't care.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 3:17:06 PM

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Because some of us like to feel wanted!

*Runs off crying*

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 4:39:35 PM

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I wouldn't be interested for a start, but secondly I'd have severe ethical issues with doing so.

When humiliation is a kink and the receiving mind is healthy, I don't see a problem. When the humiliation is merely feeding the dark parts of a mind that's turned on itself, I see a severe problem.

Essentially my approach is "do no harm" - which doesn't imply I won't inflict pain, but the fundamental concept is "do no damage".

If you beat a sub who's already physically broken, it's likely damage will be done. If you hurl abuse at a sub who's mentally broken, you'll also do damage. Such subs are victims - often willing victims - and I have no desire to play a part in their ongoing self-destruction.

That's why I look for psychologically healthy partners. Plus, I'm not fond of drama and the broken are usually magnets for it.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 5:03:09 PM

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Fair enough. How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker? I've always wondered...

I am but newly here but I find him amusing at times. I will admit that most often I do not understand his posts, but I suspect that is partly a language issue, and partly simply it going above my head. I am not known for having a quick wit.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 5:30:47 PM

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We should stop the opinions there. Clearly we have come to conclusion that all women love me. Thank you ladies. Thank you.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 5:48:24 PM

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I would find it a waste of my time. What would I get from it? Absolutely nothing and completely moronic and childish imo.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/28/2011 10:02:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: Palliata

I'm highly confused as to why this thread is earning such rancor. 50% of the threads on this board are "How do you feel about X practice at a personal and ethical level" and yet this one is somehow horribly judgmental and an affront to all that is good in the world? Did the OP rape a puppy at some point and I didn't notice?

Prolly cuz he runs around saying moronic shit like this but we all know his innate asshole nature would triumph in the end. He has been here a couple of months and acts like A He know how "we" as a group feel about another member, which may or may not be true. B He denigrates other cuz they dont agree with his point.
I could go on but you get the point.

BadOne

The comment about NS was directed more toward him than anyone else, and was intended as a good-natured jab at a guy who seems to take pride in being something of an arrogant asshole. Of course I don't really claim to know what his innate nature is, or what anyone else thinks of him.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/29/2011 8:07:01 AM

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I called the photos "brazenly unflattering" mainly because it's usually obvious from the text accompanying them that that's exactly how they're intended to be perceived. It's less an aesthetic judgment on my part than an acknowledgment of the women's own apparent intentions. I do freely admit, though, that I would call a photo of a grossly overweight, mud-caked, snout-wearing woman unflattering even if I were not fervently urged to do so by the woman's own words. If you find that excessively judgmental, so be it.

i do not find it judgemental at all
have you sent the woman this opinion too? it might be just what she is longing to hear, you could make her day...
also... are you sure it was mud?

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/29/2011 2:40:58 PM

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I occasionally come across profiles created by submissive or slave women who upload brazenly unflattering photos of themselves and invite demeaning comments from anyone inclined to send them. Do you see any moral problem with serving up their requested dish, no questions asked? Do you think it's incumbent on you to learn something about the motives of such an individual before giving her what she says she wants?

My greatest worry would be that the profile was created not by her, but by a vindictive ex-partner or some other malicious person. Assuming that possibility could be ruled out (and I don't see how it could be in most cases), would you have any qualms?

No. I assume such profiles are written by attention-seeking men.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/29/2011 3:39:35 PM

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Fair enough. How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker? I've always wondered...

I think his off the wall comments are funny, as is when some of the Dommes chew on him.

What blows my mind is when people new or returned to the site don't realize he's jesting and get all upset at him.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/29/2011 3:56:14 PM

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Fair enough. How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker? I've always wondered...

He has good hair, used to be super sarcastic, but recently has started giving some good advice.

I am concerned for him.

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RE: Would you degrade or humiliate a strange woman who ... - 4/29/2011 4:02:47 PM

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How do we as a group feel about NocturnalStalker?

Well, I always get "Dude Looks Like a Lady" stuck in my head, which is fairly annoying. Not sure that's his fault, though.

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