sexyred1 -> RE: bootycall ? (4/29/2011 3:50:23 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BeautifulSufforing How can you tell if your dom only considers you a booty call ? not a bad thing at all i just want more than he does unfortunately I am completely honored by his presence, However I want more i quess i can chalk it up too lack of communication . i wouldn't have to search for answers like this here if our communication was what it should be . thanks for your input .its greatly appreciated well i chose my username on my own misspelled on purpose . my dom an i are new so at this point in time .ill take what he offers .however, i know this won't appease me for long . Top 3 reasons women participate in a mismatched relationship He can be fixed. He pursued me. He’s so exciting. Someone always loves the other person more. No two people ever loved each other to the exact same degree. The same is true with relationship goals and desires. Someone always wants more or different things than the other person. I do believe it is normal. If you are a bootycall but wish for more . . . then enjoy the sex while it lasts. Your major goals aren't in alignment and unless one of you has a major paradigm shift, no matter how long the relationship, it won't become more satisfying for you. You should love it (and him) for what it is now, not for what you wish it would become. Uh...you know I love ya RS, but I have to disagree with this last thing. It is really easy to say that, rather than to live it. While the above comments about love may be true in some cases, normally the beginning of something does determine how things go. In every serious relationship I have had, the guy indicated that at the beginning as well. If I meet someone and he said he only wanted a booty call and I did not, I back off. While having great sex is wonderful, sometimes, you have to hold out for what you want, even at the expense of not having the great sex. Because for some women, the great sex is also emotional, and when they feel connected, it will just be harder to break when and if it does become apparent that it is, only a booty call. Being true to what you know you need in life is an admirable thing; settling is not.
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