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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/3/2011 3:54:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

cook.. I have heard this word...

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/3/2011 4:08:49 PM

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I love to cook. While I am more than willing to learn what my partner likes and how he wants it prepared, if my efforts were continually rebuffed it would be a real problem.

Ditto.

Of course, if he wouldn't eat a vegetable without battering and frying it, we'd also have a problem. Actually, I'd need someone supportive of "In Defense of Food."

When I started this job, after the first employee birthday celebrated with a supermarket cake, I gave myself the responsibility of official birthday baker. The favorite is Molten Lava Cakes, but my apple and carrot cakes are very popular as well. I take requests.

My ex said my cooking was "too complicated" but after his mother gave me a Thai cookbook and I started cooking Thai, he loved that, despite the recipes having lots and lots of ingredients O_o

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/4/2011 8:38:49 AM

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we love food ... we think vegetarians have an eating disorder
if either of us would turn into one we would have a problem

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/5/2011 12:21:45 AM

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we love food ... we think vegetarians have an eating disorder
if either of us would turn into one we would have a problem

That is a classic still laffing

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/5/2011 12:35:11 AM

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I can broil a yummy steak, I make awesome mashed taters, I can throw tgether a decent salad.. I have a few other things that I make (yellow rice, smoked sausage, cream of mushroom soup and a couple of tablespoons of brown sugar = YUM!), but really, if I cant nuke it, most of the time I can't be bothered.

I've been fortunate in that almost every guy I've been involved with has been skilled as a cook...

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/5/2011 12:35:51 AM

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I've never really reflected on this, but on thinking on it, food has had a strong effect on my romantic life.

One guy I had a crush on for the longest time, and half of our best times were in the excellent restauarants he chose to eat at.

I also knew another guy who only, only ever ate at fast food places; he worked on refurbishing homes, and lived in a house without a kitchen ( why bother finishing up something you never use? ) We dated for a while and not that seriously, but honestly I think that was definitely part of what put me off the guy.

I cooked great dinners for my ex each day we were together, but the evening I found out he was cheating on me was the day dinner went spetacularly wrong ( not directly connected; dinner was done before I knew, but I can't help wonder if it was culinary intuition? )

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/5/2011 10:33:18 PM

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I don't like to cook and generally won't. So yes, if I put the effort to make a dinner an serve them an they always had negative things to say I'd be telling them cook your own damned meals.

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/7/2011 2:12:59 PM

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I'm quite a good cook, and yes, I've had relationships end in part because the other person didn't care for or about my cooking. Mind you, I'm talking about both day to day easy meal prep AND about special meals.

My Master enjoys my cooking quite a lot, and tells me so. He tells me if I make something he doesn't care for, and tells me WHAT he doesn't like about it. I appreciate that. If it's a matter of seasoning, I can fix it the next time I prepare the dish. If it's just a general not liking that particular dish, I'll make a note of it and not fix that again. He ALSO tells me when I make something that he particularly enjoys, and that gives me a nice warm fuzzy feeling plus guarantees that I'll make whatever dish it was again.

Master appreciates my cooking to the point where I've expanded into making a good 90% of everything we eat from scratch. Turns out to be lots of fun and pretty easy to make some rather complicated looking dishes.

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RE: Feeding people and submission - 5/9/2011 3:43:37 PM

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Yes I did refuse to eat the years before my divorce. However I always preferred to cook as I could do it better IMO. It was only due to schedules and kids that the ex took on cooking. Now with my slave I still cook more often than she since I like to eat what I cook more that most others...She does the cleaning of course :)

Nice to have an OCD slave...house is really clean and neat!

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