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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 6:16:26 AM   
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I'm not at all surprised to discover that you find using others for your own purpose is entirely ethical. After all, your profile boasts about how you believe it's great doing just that.

Thankfully, I hold myself to a higher standard.


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 7:30:02 AM   
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Fuck me, OSMOND BROTHERS!!!!


There, fixed that for ya


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 7:38:20 AM   
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Fuck me, I forgot - ALL THE OSMOND BROTHERS!!!!


That was a nasty, nasty overshare. Don't ever do it again. Ever.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 7:41:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Fuck me, I forgot - ALL THE OSMOND BROTHERS!!!!


That was a nasty, nasty overshare. Don't ever do it again. Ever.


There has not been enough mind bleach produced since the dawn of time to cleanse me of that motherfucker there, boy....I am forever damaged goods now.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:05:08 AM   
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For you, Sunny :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8_11HGArKU

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:21:24 AM   
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Fuck me
Don't mind if I do, Sunny...thanks for the offer.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:33:55 AM   
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I am all a-flush with power here.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:48:24 AM   
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And this is why I think it's wrong. Not that you imagining something about an actress will make her be attacked as in your imagination. No, I think the people we hurt when we do this is ourselves. By objectifying others, we get in the habit of doing so and this separates us from humanity.

And men who do a lot of this, like men who watch a lot of porn, are men who become less socially competent and less likely of ever getting to happen in reality what they dream of. Karma comes back to bite us all on the ass, sooner or later.

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Men are more visual than women, so men are more likely to do this.

Whether you believe in karma or a balance or just reaping what you sow is unimportant. We're talking about reducing other people to things, to denying their humanity. If it's okay to do so sexually, then why isn't it okay to do so because of their religion or skin color? Why isn't it okay to murder them? After all, they're not people really, they're sub-human things. It's a slippery slope and not one I propose to go down. YMMV.
OK, You've posted a lot of crap in your time here, but this just about takes the cake. How the fuck you go from appreciating a good looking woman to murder is beyond me. What's next you going to pull a Godwin's on us?

First of all, fantasizing about somebody is NOT objectifying them. Got it? Its NOT. So your whole premise falls apart right there. You are not reducing a person to a thing when you fantasize about them, well maybe you do...I don't know what your fantasies are like.

Second, Fantasizing and enjoying porn is part of what makes us human, it makes you more human, not less. People have been making dirty drawings since the dawn of time for fuck's sake. If you are so repressed that you feel guilty about your fantasies, I'm really truly sorry for you, but to try rationalize it this way is simply stupid.

Third, watching porn does not lead to social ineptitude. Its harmless, do you understand, its harmless. It causes no karmic backlash, or inability to get laid, or even to interact with people.

And fourth, there is simply no logical connection between imagining somebody naked and committing murder. There is no slope, slippery or sticky, between the two. No connection, no slope. The idea is so ridiculous I can't believe somebody actually posted it.




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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:51:02 AM   
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I am all a-flush with power here.
Excuse me while I objectify you a few times........

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 8:52:25 AM   
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Just don't mess up my petals...


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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 9:00:25 AM   
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Just don't mess up my petals...
But messing up petals is my thing, baby, it's what I do....

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 9:21:58 AM   
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What Arpig says is true...

I definitely objectify a ton of guys but those are NOT the same guys I think of murdering.

I mean, that would be SO wrong to murder them after I have objectified them.

It might make me seem like a Black Widow.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 9:23:23 AM   
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... or a praying mantis...



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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 9:28:34 AM   
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true, I look as good in green as I do in black. :)

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 11:50:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Fuck me, I forgot - ALL THE OSMOND BROTHERS!!!!


eeewwwww eeeeeeeewwwwwwww eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

sunshine go wash your mind out, you is one sick puppy! lol

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 11:57:32 AM   
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If picturing Sam Elliot while masturbating is wrong, I don't wanna be right.

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 12:20:08 PM   
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Without Objectification there would be no; Sales of Cosmetics, Fashion Designers, Sexy Clothing, Beauticians, Hair Stylist and much much more (Sex would not sell Ads).



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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 3:44:55 PM   
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I'm not at all surprised to discover that you find using others for your own purpose is entirely ethical. After all, your profile boasts about how you believe it's great doing just that.

Thankfully, I hold myself to a higher standard.


Yes, I'm sure you think you do.  What's it like to never have a fun or interesting thought?  

< Message edited by TheCabal -- 5/20/2011 4:16:54 PM >

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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 3:50:47 PM   
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Sunny
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If picturing Sam Elliot while masturbating is wrong,
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RE: Is it unethical to sexually objectify someone witho... - 5/20/2011 3:54:14 PM   
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oh that man has been the target of many fantasies,
yummity yum yum yum


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