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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/19/2011 10:06:11 PM

graceadieu

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Okay, fella. For all your claimed experience, you seem to be making a very simple, basic mistake. You are equating BDSM activities with sex. Dominatrices will flog, whip, and spank for money, but I've never heard of one who will do any kind of sex for money. That is plain illegal. It's called prostitution.

For what's it worth, the few pros I've personally known either were willing to have sexual contact with clients or felt pressure to do so.

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/21/2011 12:34:31 PM

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Pro Dom/mes and subs provide a service. They get paid for the service they provide. Lifestyle Dom/mes and sub are in it for the lifestyle and what they give each other. That one has nothing to do with money, unless one is a sugar momma or daddy and that's how they define their relationship. There's as many ways of defining relationships as there are ways of describing the sun, moon, stars and the planet. To each their own, again, if you don't like the profile you've run across then hide or block it so it won't come up again.

And OP, if you're going to insult people, then don't wonder at the reception you're getting from your posts. Someone can have 20,000 posts, still act like the behindular person they are and get the same reception. Some change their stripes to spots, others don't. It's basic interaction skills.

'Nuff said.

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/21/2011 2:51:46 PM

LadyConstanze

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ORIGINAL: graceadieu

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, fella. For all your claimed experience, you seem to be making a very simple, basic mistake. You are equating BDSM activities with sex. Dominatrices will flog, whip, and spank for money, but I've never heard of one who will do any kind of sex for money. That is plain illegal. It's called prostitution.

For what's it worth, the few pros I've personally known either were willing to have sexual contact with clients or felt pressure to do so.

For what it's worth, the lots of pros I've personally known, the overwhelming majority were not willing to have sexual contact with clients, no matter which pressure, and that was even in countries where they could have done so without any legal problems. That is of course unless you count CBT as sexual contact...

Think about it locigally, a domme needs to learn certain skills, she needs equipment and fetish clothes, not cheap, and they charge between 200 and 300 an hour (roughly), have to be quite attractive as men are visual creatures, how much time would that money buy you with an escort? I doubt a whole hour, not counting the talk before and after, wouldn't dommes be damned stupid to give it up so cheap?

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/22/2011 7:19:29 AM

txurinal

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When i was a young man first seeking BDSM (late 70's), there were no such thing as male doms. my 1st experience with a pro was female who had a male slave. my 1st time with a male dom was actually through a Mistress whose boyfriend worked with her and had no issue with male subs.

It is rare that these sessions involve sex although they are very sexual. When i book a sessinwith a pro, it is for BDSM, not sex. As someone said, they provide a service. With the internet it is a lot easier these days finding professional services, although male doms who see males subs are still in rather short supply. As for professional subs, my experiences have been they have worked under the supervision of a Domme

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RE: pro subs/dommes - 5/22/2011 7:32:50 AM

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Fucking a bunch of strangers and bolstering their egos about their jobs and listening to their troubles about their wives is . . . well, probably as much fun as dressing strangers up in diapers and acting out the abandonment issues they had with their mommies.

well said

not to forget the ones who keep trying for a discount, who try to get you into phone sex when they call you as they believe to be so smart to get such a chat pretty cheap, the ones who try to get around protection, etc...pp...the list of annoyances is endless...

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actually my impressions of collarme is its full dictators

well, that's then up to all your own domliness to let yourself dictate from pixels on the screen...

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