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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 6:52:53 PM

HannahLynHeather

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quote:

Ok so I wouldn't really hit you upside the head with a baseball bat even if I knew where to find you which I am so not interested in.

i fucking well would!!

so philslave, you delicious thing you, where do you live?

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 6:53:11 PM

Madame4a

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

I find I migrate to bdsm after vanilla relationships because I desire structure for a while with less emotion. Is this what BDSM is?

Not for me...in fact I find much more depth and emotion in my leather relationships, of all kinds, than I ever did in vanilla relationships. If you're into things because you're vanilla doesn't work, you're probably not going to be all that successful anywhere else. In truth, relationships are still relationships and the skills required to be a human in one are the same.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 7:04:51 PM

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PhilSlave,

Let me attempt to enlighten you.

1. Take everything you know about day to day LIFE (hold those thoughts for a moment).

2. Take everything you think you know about BDSM (hold those thoughts for moment).

3. Now merge these two thoughts together and you will have REALITY. ;^)

< Message edited by Whiplashsmile4 -- 5/26/2011 7:22:52 PM >

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 7:14:30 PM

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Grrrrr

< Message edited by HeatherMcLeather -- 5/26/2011 7:17:17 PM >

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 7:21:04 PM

HeatherMcLeather

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Sunny
Quote of the day
goes to
WinsomeDefiance

for

Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with normal relationships with Vanilla relationships

Yes. Except when the answer is no. Otherwise, maybe.

That should clear up any confusion you may have regarding your question.

WinD
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< Message edited by HeatherMcLeather -- 5/26/2011 7:26:24 PM >

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 7:28:15 PM

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Did i miss something? Only sunshinemiss can designate the Sunny Quote of the Day. That's why it's called Sunny Quote of the Day, after sunshinemiss. You are free to make the suggestion, though. Or start Heather's Quote of the Day.

ETA: Oops, my bad.

pam

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/26/2011 7:38:53 PM

HeatherMcLeather

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quote:

ETA: Oops, my bad.

pam

<Giggle>
Silly Pam, as if I'd dare without being designated as special guest panelist.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 2:57:58 AM

PhilSlave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

PhilSlave,

Let me attempt to enlighten you.

1. Take everything you know about day to day LIFE (hold those thoughts for a moment).

2. Take everything you think you know about BDSM (hold those thoughts for moment).

3. Now merge these two thoughts together and you will have REALITY. ;^)

You see as someone who wonders if we are merely a 3D hologram of 2D Space/time, I have issues with this.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:00:40 AM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
I have issues.

Ummm..... Sweetie. From what I've seen, you don't have issues. You have the whole subscription.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:22:41 AM

PhilSlave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
I have issues.

Ummm..... Sweetie. From what I've seen, you don't have issues. You have the whole subscription.

Haha, the old edit someones post to say what you want. Might as well post a picture of a cat. It means you concede of course and your concession is accepted.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:23:38 AM

LadyPact

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Oh yes. God forbid I trimmed your quote.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:27:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh yes. God forbid I trimmed your quote.

Your concession is accepted. By putting words in my mouth it obviously means you couldn't answer what was actually said. So you chose to have me say something else, something I hadn't said.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:28:56 AM

LadyPact

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I'm not here to fix you, cupcake. All I did was tell a joke.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:34:09 AM

PhilSlave

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm not here to fix you, cupcake. All I did was tell a joke.

No a joke would be something like this:

A woman and two monkeys are sent into space.

"nasa to monkey 1 Perform Spacewalk and do biology experiments"

"nasa to monkey 2 fix space telescopes"

"nasa to woman, feed monkeys- DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING"

Your concession is still accepted:)

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:37:34 AM

LadyPact

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My sense of humor is different........

For instance, if your vanilla girlfriend caught you here, I'd laugh My ass off.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:38:31 AM

LadyConstanze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm not here to fix you, cupcake. All I did was tell a joke.

No a joke would be something like this:

A woman and two monkeys are sent into space.

"nasa to monkey 1 Perform Spacewalk and do biology experiments"

"nasa to monkey 2 fix space telescopes"

"nasa to woman, feed monkeys- DON'T TOUCH ANYTHING"

Your concession is still accepted:)

Nice, a guy telling chauvinistic jokes is trying to label himself as a slave...

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:38:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

My sense of humor is different........

For instance, if your vanilla girlfriend caught you here, I'd laugh My ass off.

She does, hahahaha :-) To us BDSM is just role play as I have stated before. Typical woman, never listens.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:39:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Ahh, but how real is it in reality?

For me, this relationship is the realest thing that I have known.

We don't live together but I don't cease belonging to Him when we are apart.

Your BDSM relationships evidently have been quite different than mine.
My suspicion is that your vanilla ones might be as well.

I met my Master here in Jan 2009, and we met in person in Feb '09.
Becoming His was a process, but as you can see, this is not a brief affair.

I could have easily _just_ been a play partner, but I decided I wanted more than that and I had to prove myself to him.
I am so glad I did.

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:44:23 AM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

She does, hahahaha :-) To us BDSM is just role play as I have stated before. Typical woman, never listens.

When she's got a clue about how to control you, maybe she'll have an account of her own. Doesn't it suck when you secretly want a Domme for your role play and she can't measure up?

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RE: Is BDSM for people who find they can't cope with no... - 5/27/2011 3:47:42 AM

PhilSlave

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

She does, hahahaha :-) To us BDSM is just role play as I have stated before. Typical woman, never listens.

When she's got a clue about how to control you, maybe she'll have an account of her own. Doesn't it suck when you secretly want a Domme for your role play and she can't measure up?

Haha, I certainly would never insult someone by telling them there partner can't measure up or insult the partner in this way. Your true colours show. :/ Mutuality is not about control.

< Message edited by PhilSlave -- 5/27/2011 3:48:37 AM >

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