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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:11:33 AM

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There's one profile I look at often to see if there have been new pictures added because the like the pics that have previously been posted. I only check out the pics so I don't know if that registers as a profile viewing.It's certainly not stalking. If you post a profile on a site like this and you're bothered that people actually look at it (gasp!) you need to go hang out on Facebook instead.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:12:13 AM

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Was your reply instructive but anatomically impossible?

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 9:40:26 AM

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i get a whole cross section of people viewing mine. i do state i'm not looking for anything at all and whatever they want the answer is no. however, people will look for a whole host of reasons and i do get repeat lookers so can only think they are looking at my pic. whatever really, i don't mind. i've only got offy with a couple of guys who were persistant in mailing and asking me to do things. one said i was very rude when i refused and advised him to have a little more respect for what people say in their profile and aim his wants at someone who wanted the same.

i like how they do that. make out you are the one in the wrong for not wanting them and what they want. it amuses me lol

i've come to the conclusion over the different sites i'm a member of that it doesn't matter what you put in a profile someone who doesn't fit will always contact you. also you will always get the repeated visitors.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 9:47:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I've said this a few times over the years. It completely amazes Me that anyone can actually keep up with how many people are viewing them, much less allow it to bother someone. I'm just an average chick and that dang thing is constantly lit up.

To be fair, females on the internet get universally more attention due to the numerical imbalance. male profiles will generally get less views and are more able to keep up with it. Unfortunately, some people get so few that they obsess over every one.

Personally, I don't find the feature useful. I get a bit too many views, but more importantly it's a poorly designed feature. If I want to remove someone from the list for ease of reading, I have to click the cross, click ok again, and wait 5 seconds for the page to refresh .Try doing this repeatedly to clear the 30 or so people who have looked since last night and it becomes pointless drudgework.

Also the vast majority of my views are from people in the USA. Owing no doubt to the majority of site members being from there, I think. I have no interest in someone outside of the uk for feasibility reasons, so it just becomes clutter.

It'd be really nice if the feature could be overhauled, to see only people who are relevant to what I'm seeking, that have viewed me.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 9:48:32 AM

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The bar for these threads is a lot higher than what I'm seeing here folks

Why is a mod viewing my profile?
Let's get the hysteria cranked up at least another 5 or 6 notches!

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 10:06:23 AM

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FR

The bar for these threads is a lot higher than what I'm seeing here folks

Why is a mod viewing my profile?
Let's get the hysteria cranked up at least another 5 or 6 notches!

That is a CM classic.....

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 10:20:49 AM

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I don't get many people viewing me, probably due to my advanced age, so keeping that page free of clutter is quite easy for me. And I keep the ones who are exceedingly odd or who have a fun profile pic I like to see when I go to that page. Sometimes someone will change their profile pic to one I'm not so fond of, so I'll delete them then.

After reading this whole thread, I am tempted to open a bogus male dom profile just for the purposes of viewing the ones who get their pannies in a twist over that. *snickersnort* There's one guy over on Fet who has DO NOT SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST in huge red letters so of course I had to send him several. Sometimes the imp won't stay hidden. *sigh*

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 10:39:35 AM

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I just perved you cos I wanted to see your pussy pics....

Adorable!

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 10:50:23 AM

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Woot!!! I now have a bunny with a pizza on her head on my page!!! Thank you, lil bunny.

The pussy was Miles Davis. I had shredded a whole lot of paper & had emptied the shredder into paper bags to take to the recycling bin. Before I could get it there, Mr. Davis had tipped them over & spread the shreds everywhere. He was having so much fun that I couldn't get mad at him & I took the pic, then let him continue to play in it for several days. Cleaning it all up wasn't much fun for me, I'll tell ya. I was finding bits of paper for weeks!

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 1:18:31 PM

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I don't understand getting upset because people are viewing, too. Profiles are for viewing. If you don't want to be viewed, hide your profile.

That said, someone with a profile picture I hated kept viewing me. I didn't like constantly seeing that picture at the top of my "viewed" page so I blocked them. Problem solved.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 3:01:46 PM

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Doesn't bother me to have my profile viewed. That is it's purpose, for me anyway.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:38:45 PM

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Why do people fuss about something they can't do much about? And who really gives a damn about someone viewing your profile? I've had the same guy view my profile everyday for the last 4 months or so. Never any contact. So I just delete the viewing and get on with my life. It's his choice to view, mine to erase it, there ya go, problem solved.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:46:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: yours4u2use
Every now and then, someone journals about Dommes viewing a Dom....and why are they looking at me....etc.
Why does that upset someone? i am a sub, looking for a Dom male, but when others look at my profile, i don't get bent out of shape.

Let me get this straight. This is a complaint thread about other complaint threads? (And now, this post is a complaint post about a complaint thread about complaint threads...)

But yeah, I agree, it's silly to put up a public profile and then get upset when people look at it.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:49:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear
I've had the same guy view my profile everyday for the last 4 months or so. Never any contact. So I just delete the viewing and get on with my life. It's his choice to view, mine to erase it, there ya go, problem solved.

1) "erasing it" does nothing except get rid of the viewer's thumbnail in your "who is viewing me" list. It doesn't undo the fact that they viewed your profile (obviously), nor does it do anything else whatsoever.
2) It's a glitch. He only viewed it once. When you "erase it", it will reappear under certain conditions because of a glitch in CM's software.
3) If you add a member to your blocked list, they won't show up in your "who's viewing me" list anymore. Nor can they contact you, add you to their friends/favourites/admirers, and if they're on your friends/favourites/admirers list or you're on theirs, it will disappear permanently.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:54:42 PM

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Don't care. Can't be bothered to bring up their profile and block it since they're not bothering me. Rude messages get blocked, viewers can view my profile since it's not hidden. Easy peasy for me. Like I said, I don't worry about it. I have better things to do than worry about who's looking at my profile.

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:57:11 PM

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I post a lot here and I figure that most of the views My profile gets are folks that want to know "what kinda fucking idiot would post that crap?"

Glad I'm not alone

Definitely not alone!

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/29/2011 7:59:42 PM

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no it is a comment on some of the rants i have read in journals along the lines of "How dare you look at my profile"

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/30/2011 2:30:01 AM

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i like to look who is looking, but i hate that they don't put any info for people with out pics, just their screen name

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RE: Who's viewing me - 5/30/2011 2:39:25 AM

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If you put your cursor over the name, info comes up (or it does on my computer)

and thanks to whoever posted the link earlier to the "Mod 11 perved me" thread. I got a giggle out of it this morning.
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