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angelikaJ -> RE: Question for For submissive females!! (5/31/2011 5:28:12 PM)
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ORIGINAL: aromanholiday
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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
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I believe the profile itself, which has become the focus of this thread, is fairly irrelevant, but I suppose it wouldn't hurt to pay some attention to it. If you really are writing nice emails to submissives that attempt to get to know them, chances are your lack of success is, in part, the bitches' faults, not yours.
I want to highlight that phrase yet again....
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the bitches' faults
So, because we dont fall head over heels for your first, second, 24th attempt to get a woman, then we are "bitches"?
And you wonder why these men are having no success?
[8|] Could it be you are a tad bit confused? I don't lick twat unless my master orders me to.
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I can assure you no one will forget your nastiness.
If this is what you call nastiness, I am honored.
Obviously you weren't reading carefully the first time, but I'll throw to you the same question that I threw to sexyred, because I'm seriously interested in the answer. I was speaking about a general group of people, not all people, quite obviously, and the remarks certainly weren't addressed at you, they were to the OP. Why then did you, personally, identify yourself with that group? (I won't ask why you mistook me for a man; I think the answer to that is quite clear.)
The problem when you speak in generalities is it is rather undefined.
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To address your actual question, a lot of submissive women with ads on Collarme look for any reason or excuse to reject a man who writes them. The majority do this, I personally believe, because they are giddy on the power trip of all these male dominants supplicating them for attention and trying to catch their eye. They love the feeling of rejecting somebody: it makes them feel powerful and special and far more attractive than the probably are in real life. Nowhere in real life does a woman get the quantity of flattering attention that she gets on an online dating site. All that flattery all too frequently goes to a submissive woman's head and she forgets that she's actually on here to find a man to control her. No matter how well-written your email is, a good majority of these women will find a way to reject it because of this intense inflation of ego that's going on. They'll nitpick it until they find one tiny thing: a misspelled word (the guy must be an illiterate idiot), an approach that was too aggressive, that wasn't aggressive enough, that was just right but he didn't mention my favorite fetish right off the bat so we must not be compatible, etc. ad nauseum.
Had you used the word some instead of a lot, I would not have taken offence.
A lot has very different implications; is a much wider sampling.
But I am kind of curious, I never thought of you as a male poster, but (and this is not a hostile question, I am just trying to understand), how is it that you have experience knowing how submissive females respond on the other side?
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