LadyEnglish
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Joined: 9/9/2005 From: Grand Rapids, MI Status: offline
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My dear, there are so many factors and variables that go into this. For some, it depends on whom you are with at the time. For me personally, I feel I am 80% Dominant and 20% submissive, depending on my mood, my cycle, the moon, who I am with, how much I've had to drink, the list goes on and on, but for the most part, I am Dominant to most. I make my living as a Professional Dominitrix. I do enjoy being sexually submissive with my husband once in a great while, but 90% of the time, he is submissive to me and I like it that way. I have had two clients during my ten year career as a Pro Domme that I simply could not dominate very well. It was a chemistry thing. These men were very, very Dominant types, very worldly, and I became a demure little kitty in their presence as much as I tried to fight it. It was frustrating and humiliating for me. D/s is all about power and control. I believe that most of us have days when we want to be in control all the way, 100%. And then there are days where we desire to submit to someone. Here's some good advise: Just have fun and do whatever you are comfortable with and do it with whoever you are comfortable being with. Have fun!
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"Beat me" said the Masochist. "No" said the Sadist
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