LillyBoPeep
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ORIGINAL: ClassIsInSession I think some may feel that if you love someone, you lose the "dominant" perspective, and it makes you a push over, but I've found that really loving someone deeply does the opposite, it makes you push the submissive/slave to be even more an expression of their highest potential, knowing that in doing so, they become more self-actualized and better at serving ALL needs, not just the sexual or sadistic ones. The difference I guess is that while some take on subs/slaves purely for selfish ego gratification or the frequent indulgence of their sexual kinks or perversions, some take them on to form a very intimate, deep relationship. I find that love heightens the intensity of the experience and enough so that lacking it, I lose interest in the prospect. i couldn't agree with you more; you do hear a lot that love somehow dulls the dynamic, but in my limited experience, it just made it stronger. because love makes you want what's best for the person, and perhaps what's best for the person you love is to be a slave, to be owned. and that person wants what's best for you; perhaps her way of showing that is by serving as completely as she can. that's the way it works for me.
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