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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 9:04:45 AM   
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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 9:07:30 AM   
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Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages and vandalizing your property. I personally if it wasn't dangerous would finger them and say "Go fuck yourselves you so called normal people." but if it got to dangerous I would probably leave.


Why did this thought occur to you?



I was wondering the same thing.


Add me to the list as well.  Seems like a rather ridiculous scenario.  I wonder what drugs the OP was smoking when he thought of it? 

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 9:16:38 AM   
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no worries, i get that, too. i grew up outside a small town where everyone knew my relatives and thought that meant they knew me. a guy made up a rumor about my grandpa dying because they were business competitors. if people saw you doing something they thought you shouldn't, they'd tell everyone they knew. =p but i have found that it's not really any different in the city. the difference in the country is that your neighbor has to stare over a mile to see into your window, while in the city, they can glance into your bedroom from their dinner table. =p

i guess that's what i don't like; the proximity. people are people, and people are everywhere. there will be silliness and snoopery and other types of gooniness, but at least, in the country, your yard is pretty much your yard. =p haha


lol thats funny cuz when i lived on the farm i always felt naked and exposed if there were no drapes on the windows. Not logical that anyone could look in since the road was quite a distance but i still felt that way.

I like a decent sized yard (& tall fences lol) but have never felt the proximity in the city was a real problem, its more that most people in the city dont know who you know and dont really care much what you do, so I guess for me, its more of a different attitude than in a small town where everyone knows who you are and have nothing better to do with their time but gossip. I did like the space living on the farm but that was about it, you had to drive a long way for decent shopping!

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 9:39:51 AM   
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ideally, i want to live somewhere that's not too far from a good-sized city, but far enough away where i can "get away." =p


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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 9:48:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		From personal experience, I know that if you call the police about something like this, they will just say that it's a civil matter and you need to get a restraining order.  So I would bypass 911, and just go to straight to anti harassment court for an order.  But the neighbors' behavior would have to be really outrageous, because it would take a lot to make me want to deal with that court.  It is like the professional wrestling of the legal world.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 10:12:02 AM   
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Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages and vandalizing your property. I personally if it wasn't dangerous would finger them and say "Go fuck yourselves you so called normal people." but if it got to dangerous I would probably leave.


Why did this thought occur to you?


I often go to the worst case scenario.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 10:33:41 AM   
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I often go to the worst case scenario.



Worst case? worst case? This is nothing.

If your OP had been "What if kink-hating aliens landed on earth and came knocking at your door with a mix of chainsaws and firearms in their tentacles..."

Now, that would be worst case scenario.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 11:03:26 AM   
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I'd get my hands on an ak-47 and kill all of the muthafuckas that were annoying me.



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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 11:20:50 AM   
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Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages


My mother used to let her dog run free and an elderly woman left a message complaining that Reba was eating her birdseed and threatening to poison her

My mother brought her a box of chocolates and bag of birdseed and asked her not to hurt Reba.

If I had been in the right legally, I would have wanted to hire Aileen but would have called the police. (Mom was of course violating the leash law/dog ordinance.)

Other neighbors called the dog officer and Mom was forced to stop letting Reba range freely.

My point? Where neighbors are involved, obey the law and afford yourself of its remedies.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 11:24:04 AM   
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I often go to the worst case scenario.



Worst case? worst case? This is nothing.

If your OP had been "What if kink-hating aliens landed on earth and came knocking at your door with a mix of chainsaws and firearms in their tentacles..."

Now, that would be worst case scenario.


True, because if they were kink-hating, there would be no way I could seduce them out of killing me!!

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 6:13:10 PM   
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Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages and vandalizing your property. I personally if it wasn't dangerous would finger them and say "Go fuck yourselves you so called normal people." but if it got to dangerous I would probably leave.


I'd leave out the "you so called normal people" part (they aren't....they're assholes).

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 7:06:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's not really a 'worse case scenario'. Having you home show up on prime time news while having news reporters parked out on your lawn, religious zealots threatening to picket your property and a map to your home printed in the city paper - is really more of a worser case scenario. Oh yes, forgot about the emergency townhall meeting to change the zoning laws so that they could give you a citation that you have to appear in court to fight.

What do you do? As much damage control as possible, and then deal with the consequences as gracefully and pragmatically as possible. Move on, live smarter, see things from the other perspective and chalk it up to a learning experience? Oh yeah, cut out the news clippings for your scrap book...gotta leave the grandkids stories to tell when you're gone you know.


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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/23/2011 7:10:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages and vandalizing your property. I personally if it wasn't dangerous would finger them and say "Go fuck yourselves you so called normal people." but if it got to dangerous I would probably leave.


Why did this thought occur to you?


I often go to the worst case scenario.



Why are you preoccupied with this?

If you are a reasonable person who conducts his life in a reasonable fashion then this is very unlikely to occur.
If something does happen and you weren't breaking any laws or doing anything stupid like discussing your BDSM activities at work or on a work computer, then you file the necessary complaints with your local law enforcement agencies.



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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/26/2011 1:11:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

Okay say the people in your life be it neighbors or complete strangers found out about your lifestyle and treated you like a freak even leaving threatening messages and vandalizing your property. I personally if it wasn't dangerous would finger them and say "Go fuck yourselves you so called normal people." but if it got to dangerous I would probably leave.


Why did this thought occur to you?


I often go to the worst case scenario.



Why are you preoccupied with this?

If you are a reasonable person who conducts his life in a reasonable fashion then this is very unlikely to occur.
If something does happen and you weren't breaking any laws or doing anything stupid like discussing your BDSM activities at work or on a work computer, then you file the necessary complaints with your local law enforcement agencies.


I have TOOOOOO much free time on my hands.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/26/2011 2:46:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have been a lifestyle and Pro-Domme for approx thirteen years now, always living and working in very nice but definitely residential neighbourhoods. I have been worried about if the neighbours would find out what was going on, even though I am always exceptionally discreet.

I would be worried for myself if they found out what I was and do. However, I would be worried for them if they were ever stupid enough to threaten me or damage my property. I would go to the Police and request they be charged. If the police were unhelpful, I would have to sort the problem out myself. I have no idea how far I might go to stop threats, vandalism and general criminal behaviour but in my mind, I feel I might be so angry that I would do something I might regret.

I suppose I feel that I have never hurt, upset or inconvenienced my neighbours and so would feel very angry if small minded idiots were to treat me badly on the basis of what goes on privately within my own four walls.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/26/2011 3:01:50 PM   
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True, because if they were kink-hating, there would be no way I could seduce them out of killing me!!
a waste of fucking good tentacles wouldn't you say?

if the neighbours were actually endangering me or mine i'd put a fucking stop to whatever they were doing. i'd start verbally, but would go to physically stopping them if i had to. pretty fucking quick actually.


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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/27/2011 3:05:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		In such a case I would summon the police without hesitation, and prosecute in a court. The law is enacted to protect, and I will use all my resources to ensure it is applied forcefully. The wrongdoers will know they have erred to have crossed me.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/27/2011 7:18:36 AM   
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if you call the police about something like this, they will just say that it's a civil matter and you need to get a restraining order. So I would bypass 911, and just go to straight to anti harassment court for an order. But the neighbors' behavior would have to be really outrageous, because it would take a lot to m
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I often go to the worst case scenario.



Worst case? worst case? This is nothing.

If your OP had been "What if kink-hating aliens landed on earth and came knocking at your door with a mix of chainsaws and firearms in their tentacles..."

Now, that would be worst case scenario.




Haven't you seen the dirty comics and videos.    ALL tentacled aliens are into multiple orifice sex, they're kinky even if they don't realize it.

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/27/2011 7:23:05 AM   
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ALL tentacled aliens are into multiple orifice sex, they're kinky even if they don't realize it.
well thanks be to god!!

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RE: What would do in this situation? - 6/27/2011 7:37:31 AM   
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