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LillyBoPeep -> What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 1:17:29 PM)

Inspired by Peon's thread  -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_3747031/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3747735 -- which is inspired by ANOTHER thread -- http://www.collarchat.com/m_138353/tm.htm -- from 6 years ago, i figured i'd start a satellite over here since i've seen MDoms say "i don't go over there" in regards to "ask a Mistress." it's a nice topic for lots of musing, if you're into musing, that is. =p

What motivates you? To quote the original 6 year old post:
quote:

ORIGINAL: saret
What do you think, what is the cause behind your love of being on top?


(if the mods decide this is a dupe thread and delete it, that's totally fine. maybe people will go over to "Ask a Mistress" and join in on the discussion. ^_^)




GreedyTop -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 1:24:28 PM)

as a top, I love the power/moans & groans/ability to do all kinds of sadistic things to the bottom.  I also love the aftercare.. cuddles, whispered words of praise, etc.

if that makes sense...




DecadentDesire -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 1:25:14 PM)

I wanted to contribute to this thread and provide some kind of deep insight into the nature of dominants, but I am afraid I don't do very well anymore with the "why" questions.

The only answer I have is that it just feels right and natural. When I am with a girl who is submissive to me, I get to be my "true self" with nothing held back.

I try not think much beyond that. I might ruin a good thing [;)]




crazyml -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 2:20:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

as a top, I love the power/moans & groans/ability to do all kinds of sadistic things to the bottom.  I also love the aftercare.. cuddles, whispered words of praise, etc.

if that makes sense...


Same here. Also, I enjoy the responsibility and the trust




sunshinemiss -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 3:18:24 PM)

I think there should be a whole lot more details here... intimate, whipping one into a frenzy details....

Here's the video I mentioned in my reply to Peon:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNVguvNE7qc




PeonForHer -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 3:47:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

I think there should be a whole lot more details here... intimate, whipping one into a frenzy details....

Here's the video I mentioned in my reply to Peon:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNVguvNE7qc



Oh, ta! I missed that on my thread. Raunchy. Nice!




sunshinemiss -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 4:06:25 PM)

<<<< aims to please....




DesFIP -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 6:10:15 PM)

I can tell you what The Man's told me. Controlwise, it drives him crazy to stand by while other people are less competent at a task than he is. He just takes over and people do as they're told because everyone recognizes he knows what he's doing. Beyond that, he steamrolls you before you realize it.

Topping, he gets energy from my reactions. He feeds off it. A good energy vampire if you will. He also sees bondage as an artistic expression - him as the artist and the rope and my body his paints and canvas.

And of course, it gets him hard.




leadership527 -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (6/30/2011 9:34:49 PM)

Dominant: Because I don't know any other way to be.
Top: I'm just exploring this now but it seems to fit well with the whole primal sex thing. Granted, what we do is not currently very elaborate in terms of widgets, geegaws, and high technology, but when it's my beast mating her bitch then top energy is what fits.




DeviantlyD -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 1:21:36 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

as a top, I love the power/moans & groans/ability to do all kinds of sadistic things to the bottom.  I also love the aftercare.. cuddles, whispered words of praise, etc.

if that makes sense...


I'm a straight female. Why can't you be a straight male? *sigh* ;)




GreedyTop -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:40:37 AM)

awww... sorry ;)




DeviantlyD -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:44:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

awww... sorry ;)


Why is it I don't quite...believe you? Why do I envision you sitting there having a bit of a giggle to yourself? ;)




GreedyTop -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:44:42 AM)

would I do that??  *innocent face*




crazyml -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:48:56 AM)

I think you're right to be suspicious.

Just sayin.

Oh and btw... have you noticed how much GT and I agree... I could be the male counterpart you're looking for ;-)




DeviantlyD -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:56:00 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

would I do that??  *innocent face*


A self described sadist? *ahem* *raised eyebrow* I don't think a response is necessary here. *feigns a sad look*




DeviantlyD -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 2:57:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

I think you're right to be suspicious.

Just sayin.

Oh and btw... have you noticed how much GT and I agree... I could be the male counterpart you're looking for ;-)


Yes, that would make sense 'cause you're literally 1/2 a world away from where I live, so of course you would be the perfect one, living that far away. Ack!




myotherself -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 4:09:08 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

as a top, I love the power/moans & groans/ability to do all kinds of sadistic things to the bottom.  I also love the aftercare.. cuddles, whispered words of praise, etc.

if that makes sense...


Oh man...yet another reason to love Greedy [:D]




GreedyTop -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 4:09:43 AM)

love you too, Bunnykins!!  *smooch*




crazyml -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 5:55:25 AM)

Ah, geography. Curses!




GreedyTop -> RE: What's Your Motivation #3 (7/1/2011 6:27:47 AM)

ML.. we could co top, yanno.. but of course, I'd have to be THERE, or you'd have to be HERE.. *grins*





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