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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 2:55:04 PM   
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For me, it totally depends on the WHO is calling me a slut.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 4:19:22 PM   
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Sometimes I seriously wonder what "kinky" means. Does that actually mean, "I'm pretty much the same as everyone else I just think I'm more sexually evolved?"

That's exactly what it means. What did you think it meant?

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 4:33:58 PM   
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i always thought being kinky meant admitting to doing the shit our grandmothers didn't admit to.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 4:37:38 PM   
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i always thought being kinky meant admitting to doing the shit our grandmothers didn't admit to.


Er, Hannah, didn't that post omit a certain something? Hmmm?

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 4:43:38 PM   
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fuck off

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 4:46:15 PM   
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okay ~smiles agreeably~

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 5:06:00 PM   
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i always thought being kinky meant admitting to doing the shit our grandmothers didn't admit to.

...so if our grandmothers all did it then we're just like everyone else. Which is what I said.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 5:35:28 PM   
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There is nothing new under the sun.................................sigh.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 5:36:43 PM   
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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 5:43:28 PM   
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how empowering for women

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 5:50:53 PM   
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aaaaand then there is the classic "Jane, you ignorant slut!" 

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 6:03:03 PM   
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Oh lighten up, it was funny and you know it!

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 6:04:24 PM   
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oh it's fucking hilarious but i don't think we agree about why.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 6:08:40 PM   
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oh it's fucking hilarious but i don't think we agree about why.
Probably not.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 6:55:18 PM   
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It's very "empowering" if you initiate it. If you want it. Makes me shiver
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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 7:11:47 PM   
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I fail to see what's empowering about being the drunk frat girl who defines herself by how "hot" she is.

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 7:17:46 PM   
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I fail to see what's empowering about being the drunk frat girl who defines herself by how "hot" she is.
And I fail to see what's empowering about being a prudish judgmental busy body who defines herself by how morally superior she deems herself.





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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 7:22:08 PM   
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Except that we've agreed that Slut can and does mean "promiscuous woman", so I'm not sure there's all that much misunderstanding about the meaning of the word?
The next step is to engage in a torrid debate, with much looking-up of online dictionaries, over the definition of promiscuous.

I'm going to stick my neck out, and say that the term is most often used to describe a woman who likes to fuck a lot. It doesn't necesarily imply she'll fuck anything, just that she likes to fuck.

And what the fuck is wrong with that?
So using the word slut is simply a way of saying "I'm a happy, sexually active, horny woman... do you have a problem with that, biatch?"

Now, I doubt you have a problem with women being happy and sexually active, or even "promiscuous", so your problem seems to be one of semantics?


The sub-text in this whole discussion (all 12 pages!) is whether one approves of promiscuity in women or not. The OP's definition is:
quote:

Slut (noun): A woman who can put pride, ego, and shame away as she pursues sexual pleasure.

Generally, men are not expected to put aside pride, ego or shame to enjoy sex. In fact, it is the opposite. While a man can fuck as many and as much as he wants, a woman doing the same will be seen in a much more negative way. Here is the puzzle for me; if there were no “sluts” whatever would the poor guy do for fun?
And, if a woman wants the same thing the man does, why is she reviled rather than appreciated? If he wants me, and I want him, and we have wild monkey sex, shouldn't there be some big, fat, fucking gratitude?

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 7:22:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Arpig

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I fail to see what's empowering about being the drunk frat girl who defines herself by how "hot" she is.
And I fail to see what's empowering about being a prudish judgmental busy body who defines herself by how morally superior she deems herself.



who the fuck said anything about morals

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RE: Meaning of the word "slut" - 7/8/2011 7:25:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

It's very "empowering" if you initiate it. If you want it. Makes me shiver
luci


See, the image I have of a woman who bonks a lot of men is one in which she very much takes them. Forever pushing them on the bed and mounting them - that kind of thing. That's a malesub's fantasy image of a variety of femdom, of course: whether or not it exists in reality, I don't know.

Whatever, 'slut' wouldn't be the word I'd use to describe such a woman. 'Tiger' maybe. God knows. It hasn't occurred to me so far to think up a term. Maybe 'Sexually Voracious Woman', or SVW for short (though the latter does, admittedly, sound like it could be a kind of car for disabled people).

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