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buttersquash2000 -> Ageing (7/8/2011 10:39:15 PM)

To all Masters

what happens to a slave when she is no more no more able to serve u as she used to due being sick or getting old or no more flexible as she used to be. As she being discarded like rubbish or thrown out to wherever?

Your honest answers please, as we all here are not going to be young forever


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NocturnalStalker -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 10:51:33 PM)

Discard and get a hot blonde.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:27:01 PM)

How long have the two of you been together, and was this a relationship where the two of you loved each other with a BDSM dynamic as part of the relationship?

If the answer is yes, especially to the relationship part, then no you don't just kick your slave to the curb as they age.

Not for nothing, but you are in your 50s, I assume he is around the same age. What makes him/you think he would be able to trade you in for a younger model anyway?

So in answer to your question....everyone adjusts. If he become ill and was unable to perform his "masterly" duties, what would YOU do? I don't think he has the right to expect you to stay if he were ill and aging and yet kick you to the curb for you having the same issue.

But again, I am primarily talking about people who have a loving relationship that has a BDSM dynamic. If yours is not encompassing that, then things could obviously be quite different. But I still think it would be a scumbaggy (ok not really a word) thing to do.



buttersquash2000 -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:34:51 PM)

Thank you for your answers. All is appreciated. Very difficult question for most Doms.





NocturnalStalker -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:40:14 PM)

It isn't difficult at all.  It is just an ugly truth.



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:41:42 PM)

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Discard and get a hot blonde.
Pfft! Brunettes are better.

OP, I would sincerely hope that nobody would discard their partner like so much rubbish. I understand that there are people for whom love doesn't play a part in their dynamic (I don't understand how), but even then I would think that a master would still have a responsibility to his slave. Perhaps he should seek a younger more able slave for the bedroom, and have the older slave run the household, after all those years I'm sure she would be quite good at it. She could probably also train the new slave in the ways the master likes to be served in the bedroom.

Just imagine how enjoyable it would be to have the older slave teach her how he likes his cock sucked, what with all the demonstrating and trying and practicing, it could go on for hours.



myotherself -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:45:22 PM)

We're both in our forties. Recently we've both had run-ins with illness, and we were there for each other. Even when I was looking after him, he was Domly. When he was looking after me, still Domly.

But then again, we love each other.



Palliata -> RE: Ageing (7/8/2011 11:59:32 PM)

Forever means forever. It doesn't mean forever until I get bored of her, or forever until I find someone with better tits (though, I do reserve the right to play with/acquire them if the opportunity presents itself ^.^), nor forever until she ceases to be useful. It means forever. That said, I don't enter into forever lightly, and most interactions come with an express 'until it bores me' clause.



buttersquash2000 -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 12:21:37 AM)

thank you for your honest answer



buttersquash2000 -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 12:26:36 AM)

I appreciate all contents of your answers. Thank you



buttersquash2000 -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 12:52:43 AM)

till death do us part . Thank you with your answers



whiteslavebitch -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 7:15:03 AM)

Well, isn't the master also aging at the same rate?

What's a slave to do when the master gets old and decrepit and can no longer swing that flogger or fuck her properly, is she to discard him?

Doesn't that sound a little silly?



newyorknewbie -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 7:48:55 AM)

Easy. The same thing that she would do if the dom became fat, bald, impotent or gray....



LillyBoPeep -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 8:13:33 AM)

hopefully the relationship is built on something besides being hot and young. =p if so, then there's nothing to worry about with aging other than personal insecurities, which everyone has.
of course there are the people who trade in spouses for younger versions/trophies etc -- but those people exist in the vanilla and kinky worlds both.

when you really love a person as a person, none of the other stuff matters to much.





LadyPact -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 8:14:01 AM)

Seriously?  It depends on the Master.

Yes, I know a lot of people aren't going to like that answer, but M/s isn't any different than vanilla land on this one.  Just like some non kinky middle-aged guys will divorce their wife of twenty years and go after a younger gal, so will some Masters once they hit a certain age.  I'm not saying how often it happens or what the percentages are, but it absolutely does happen.

Not the feel good answer, but it is the honest one.



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 10:59:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: whiteslavebitch

What's a slave to do when the master gets old and decrepit and can no longer swing that flogger or fuck her properly...



She lifts his credit card while he's sleeping and orders one of these... [8D][8D][8D][8D][8D]



[image]local://upfiles/687741/EE3608D09D7540CC98367A3ABE2F3F42.jpg[/image]



poise -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 11:01:31 AM)

Lol! I can't tell if that's a toaster, a head rest for a car, or a jack in the box cock in a box. [:-]



MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 11:40:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Lol! I can't tell if that's a toaster, a head rest for a car, or a jack in the box cock in a box. [:-]



It's a Sybian ---> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sybian

[:D]




VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 11:52:31 AM)

Please return to the topic and stop making your posts about another member.

Thank you

Edit: If your post has been removed, it was off topic, personal attack, thread hijack or leading to a thread hijack or quoting/responding to one of these.



leadership527 -> RE: Ageing (7/9/2011 11:55:43 AM)

I suppose I would "discard Carol like rubbish" the moment I came to see her as "rubbish". I find that to be a HIGHLY, HIGHLY unlikely event... ever... under any circumstances... especially the ones you listed here.

I very much hope to grow old together and die with Carol. We hope we die together driving too fast in a convertible on a twisty road on a gorgeous spring day -- 40 years from now.



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