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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/25/2011 7:14:58 AM   
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I try to maintain the same level of civility here as I would around the dinner table.



The last forum I used, which closed after ten years on Saturday, was like that at first. People spoke to each other as though they were in the same, real life, room. Things were very civil. It broke down, though, and the nastiness came out, bit by bit, as it dawned on people that they could disguise their individualities and even create whole new ones. The forum was unmonitored. It became apparent that some of the worst people around - those people who had no friends in real time and who'd get beaten up if they were to proffer their views in a pub or at a party - were finding a comfy home there. It was like having too many wasps at a picnic. A few of us realised, way too late, that it was a serious mistake to give out private details or impart, even by private messaging, things that were too sensitive or personal. It was shocking to see how much people could, and also shocking to see how few limits they had in what they'd use in order to hurt those they hated.

You get both the best and the worst as a result of the physical distance and the anonymity, I think. The sharpest of ideas, thoughts and feelings - but also the nastiest. Forums can liberate both. People are like that in many cases because, for the first time, they can be like that.

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/25/2011 7:27:46 AM   
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Always so brave when so far away.  Come closer.  We'll see how this all turns out.

Easy for you to say. "Come Closer"??? You're in what... Antarctica nowadays?



Actually, I think it's Azerbaijan. But you're right, she's really, really far away (or as I like to say, "at a nice, safe distance").  

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/25/2011 8:38:54 PM   
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Always so brave when so far away.  Come closer.  We'll see how this all turns out.

Easy for you to say. "Come Closer"??? You're in what... Antarctica nowadays?



Actually, I think it's Azerbaijan. But you're right, she's really, really far away (or as I like to say, "at a nice, safe distance").  


Planes still fly here.  It's not like you've got to take a train, then ride a bus, then rent a mule to get here.


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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/25/2011 10:02:42 PM   
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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/25/2011 11:21:14 PM   
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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/27/2011 9:15:26 AM   
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Did somebody say pig and sage?

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/28/2011 4:12:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		all of us have different views on how things work we may agree on some things to a point but other not to  a point at all it pretty much what is that view is and us as persons we all have different ideas.......

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/28/2011 6:29:00 PM   
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Planes still fly here.  It's not like you've got to take a train, then ride a bus, then rent a mule to get here.

Not everyone considers a reconditioned A-20 landing on a strip of ice in 40 knot cross winds to be civilized means of transportation.


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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/28/2011 8:54:39 PM   
LadyPact


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I didn't say anything about allowing him to fly back.


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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/28/2011 8:56:09 PM   
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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 6:11:26 AM   
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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 7:45:03 AM   
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I think that many of us agree that Roch and Peon are absolutely DOABLE!!


You ladies treat us men like pieces of meat.  You only want us for our bodies.  We want you to respect us for our minds. Men have feelings too. 

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 7:50:34 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		Roch.. you and Peon have repeatedly demonstrated that you both have brilliant minds, and self-recognized feelings.. *grin*

you're both yummy.

TOTAL win!!!

(gawd I hope that made sense..LOL)

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 8:02:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
You only want us for our bodies.

ROFL. I say that ALL the time to Carol in reverse, eg: "You know I'm only using you for your fabulous breasts, right?"

Her response? "That's fine. I'm glad I grew them for you." -- LOL

In this case though Roch, you can take the consolation prize. At least they think you're a highly attractive, highly intelligent, and highly self-aware piece of meat. That's gotta count as some sort of silver lining LOL


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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 8:03:08 AM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		On second thought, we really don't mind if you only want us for our bodies.  Go ahead and use us like pieces of meat!  We're okay with that.  

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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 8:20:05 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: It seems common ground is as common as common sense - 7/29/2011 11:54:21 AM   
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I think that many of us agree that Roch and Peon are absolutely DOABLE!!
Oh yes!

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You only want us for our bodies.
Guilty as charged, now be a good fellow and show us your abs too.


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