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smackedbyaunti -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/21/2006 10:28:04 AM)

Dave ! mate!.... ive just had the same happen.. although im still holding out hope that im getting the silent treatment. ...! 
I notice little quotations popping up here and there, heres one that has good meaning ,;
it goes something like this; to reach your rainbow, you must first walk through the rain.
                                                                                               dolly parton, best little whore house in texas.




Rumtiger -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/21/2006 2:00:47 PM)

Well if anyone wants an update I got one.

Turns out this girl was a switch, I just learned by seeing her profile that it says she has found someone....but is still replying to mail [yeah right], keep in mind this is all from her profile. I still haven't gotten a thing back. It is not even clear on weather it was a sub, or a daddy dom that she stated she wants...::shrug::.

screw her...

mk, I feel better.

Edited to be a little tamer.




LaTigresse -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/21/2006 2:15:01 PM)

Just reading thru the updates. While I agree that her behaviour was not good at all you may want to rethink that last comment. If I were looking for a male and and interested in you. That last bit of profanity would have instantly changed my mind. Just a thought....LT




BlkTallFullfig -> Nicely done! (5/22/2006 7:24:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rumtiger
A huge thanks to TexasMaam, MistressWolfen and AAkasha for their help...I wont forget it. As well as for everyone else who gave thier support and good feelings for me.

     Though I cannot with any honesty say that I can change who and what I am in writing, I talk as I am talking to a person, not as I am submitting to a mistress, I cannot with any good conscience roll over as if conquered in an email to someone I've never met. I am what I am. All I can be is as polite and friendly as the situation calls for. Please don't take this as disrespectful or ungrateful in any way, I greatly appreciate all your help above and beyond what a forum post can possibly convey, it is simply a statement of myself and what I feel inside.
-Tiger.
Humbly imperfect, polite, friendly, real and with sufficient integrity to be honest are great qualities for a man/person to have, and should land you the right domina for yourself.
Wish you luck,  M




Beatmehrdr -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/22/2006 9:20:56 AM)

I don't see anything all that wrong with your email.  Spelling is not so hot, but the thrust of who you are came through. You gave a little too much info re: your car troubles, but that's a nit.

At this point, you aren't submitting to her, not yet.  You are saying you are willing to.  Frankly, the collar won't be on all the time, so when you talk to her, you'll need to talk to the whole woman, not simply that aspect that holds the leash.  If from the beginning you are unable to communicate your dreams/needs/desires to her, it won't last long anyway. 




TexasMaam -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/25/2006 7:12:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

No offense TexasMaam... but those orchestrated emails of over-the-top submissive tendencies, visuals of the boy on his knees & overt expressions of their desire to please me ..... well those just make me sick. Romanticize fantasy based emails are the first to be dismissed to the black void of the net. 


This response made Me laugh because I've gotten My fair share of "orchestrated emails of over-the-top-submissive-tendencies", and I don't like them, either.

Case in point: I recently received a wordy, circumlocquacious email that was patronizing and dotted throughout with references the author made to himself as 'this girl' this and 'this girl' that.  Annoying, at best.  It didn't merit much of a response, either.

It's a matter of balance.  Politeness and respectfulness in an initial contact online is always key, followed by well thought out, positive self expression.

While RumTiger's initial post was a bit rough, his next post:

Wow. Didn't really expect this level of reply to be honest, but thank you everyone for your support and help. My grammatical and spelling issues definitely need to be addressed [it's like 5th grade English all over again]! As well as my method of communication...gotta remember..not a drinking buddy, heh.

       A huge thanks to TexasMaam, MistressWolfen and AAkasha for their help...I wont forget it. As well as for everyone else who gave thier support and good feelings for me.

      Though I cannot with any honesty say that I can change who and what I am in writing, I talk as I am talking to a person, not as I am submitting to a mistress, I cannot with any good conscience roll over as if conquered in an email to someone I've never met. I am what I am. All I can be is as polite and friendly as the situation calls for. Please don't take this as disrespectful or ungrateful in any way, I greatly appreciate all your help above and beyond what a forum post can possibly convey, it is simply a statement of myself and what I feel inside.


Humbly and with Thanks,
-Tiger.


...was lovely.

Simply lovely.

Written in a context, manner and style that I would respond to in a positive way, with one exception:

...being polite and a bit more formal is not the same as "rolling over as if conquered in an email to someone you've never met"!

After all, in an online introduction when you're trying to break the ice to impress, put at ease, and get to know a stranger all in one fell swoop, one chance is sometimes all you get.

Wouldn't that "one chance" be well worth the time and forethought to at least make the best effort possible?

I think so.

I agree that My standards are probably higher than most.

Perhaps that's why I enjoy the company of an exemplary sub who's a joy to be with.

TexasMaam




LadyAlexa -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/27/2006 3:17:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rumtiger

I need the help of a mistress....or rather any lifestyle woman for this, I dunno if i'm being just a paranoid bastard or if I really did do something wrong. I amanged to talk to a certian someone, just first contact and all, where did we live in the city, then she asked me what sort of things I was into...here is what my reply was: 

"Not as far as most people I've ever talked to lol. As for what i'm into, well i'm pretty open to be honost, and have a good pain threshold i've been told, though I think thats only because I try to resist the pain as much as possible, while the typical submission theme is always fun, the things I absolutly love are primal play [it's tough to find anyone else really into it], queening, but I see it as a bit different then most, and a few misc. things here and there besides a huge leather/latex fetish, it's actually a pretty long list, really the big limits I have are just anything sharp, so no knife or needle play for me. Virtually everything else is fine though.

Of course if you ment what things outside the lifestyle I like, then first let me apologize for being an ass with my previous answer lol. I love martial arts, been practicing for a good 9 years now....umm, ussualy just chilling, maybe put a little rock on, go out to the strip here and there, and i'll be doing some work on my car soon, I had to send it to California for a little bit to get it fixed, I should be getting it back in a month or two...dont worry its not one of those "oh its at the shop" stories lol, right now i'm driving around a stupid Sentra until it gets back within a month or so....hate that car. lol. Lets see...I'm a pretty good cook, particularly italian food [making some sauce as we speak], and thats just about most of what I can think of lol. I'm pretty sure more will come out the more we talk, I scare myself sometimes with what I know about when the time is appropriate, hehe.

As for the phone number dont worry about it, I'm exactly the same way, the phone is a pretty big step for meeting people online.

So how about you _______? what are some of your favorite things?

David. "


I havent heard from her in a long while and a quick second email wasent acknowledged, whereas before we had been practically chatting by mail...so.....did I fuck up? What can I change in my communication that I dont screw up again?




having the time to read many posts today: yeah weather is good but for some reason my head isn't feeling so good so here I am.

My initial reaction: wow, run on sentences and spelling.  Do you breath while you type?  LOL

After reading it again and reading some of the posts in response I have another reaction:   you were honest on your level.  You wrote it like you were chatting with a person instead of being over formal.  [Not that I don't like formal, but If I wanted that I would ask.]  Apparently one of you asked about a phone number.   Your response was good.....cell phones are a great too.    Although personally I think some of it was wordier then I like  LOL   it was friendly.               In your other posting you state how she is a switch and has found someone but still is taking email.  well..she has shown her colors.  Possibly her someone didn't like her responding to you and told her to stop.  Would be nice if she sent you a note saying sorry can't talk with you anymore.    Why do some respond/not respond to us?  Who knows.  All you can do is keep being honest with others, hope they are honest with you and take care of yourself.  Good luck in your search.




TexasMaam -> RE: Did I f**k up? (5/27/2006 4:16:43 PM)

Ditto, LaTigresse.

TM




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