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IamDifferent -> Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 4:59:30 PM)

i have heard that a "hot wife" wears an ankle bracelet, gay men wear an earring in a certain ear and in a certain way, etc.; might there be some accessory or marking that would tastefully identify a male as submissive and available? Thank you all...




KarbonCopy -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 5:12:43 PM)

yea a collar lol.




LadyMorgynn -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 5:17:55 PM)

That might identify him as submissive, but sure not as available!

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

yea a collar lol.




MistressSassy66 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 6:19:49 PM)

The collar will say your submissive and taken.

There is the hanky code 




The Hanky Code

 

Colour/Material
Means

 

black
heavy s&m

leather
leather fetish

gray
bondage

charcoal
latex

navy/dark blue
intimate sex included

medium blue
into "police" games

robin egg blue
69 or "french" (oral sex both)

light blue
oral sex by bottom only

teal blue
genital torture

kelly green
into "hooker" game

khaki/olive
into "military" games

hunter green
daddy

lime green
sex with food

lemon
enema

cream
licking

pale yellow
spitting

doily/yellow
watersports (urine games)

beige
rimming (licking anus)

gold
into threesomes

mustard
big penis (has or wants one)

apricot
wants overweight partner

coral
foot worship

orange
anything, anytime

rust
into "cowboy" games or pony girl

fuchsia
spanking

red
anal fisting

light pink
dildo

dark pink
breast/nipple torture

burgundy
razors/knifing/scarification

red polka dots
menstruating

mauve
navel fetish

magenta
armpit fetish

purple
piercing

lavender
drag

brown
scat (feces games)

brown lace
not circumcised

brown satin
circumcised

grey flannel
"square" (suits, dresses, black tie)

white
whipping, flogging

red/white stripes
shaving

black/white stripes
likes partner of black race

brown/white stripes
likes partner of latino race

yellow/white stripes
likes partner of oriental race

white lace
likes partner of white race

paisley
into boxer shorts

fur
animals included

silver lame
romantic

gold lame
like body builder types

leopard
tattoos

tan
smoking (cigars) a must

kleenex
into smelly games

handy wipe
into oil and grease

chamois
motorcycles

cocktail napkin
bar type 


Edited to add....Hanky's are worn either on the Left=Dom or Right=submissve




thetammyjo -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 6:21:23 PM)

Flag.

Wear your keys on the right to show you lean bottom/sub.

As for being available, collars in general mean owned or in a relationship (especially if they lock), but since they have become popular among certain vanilla populations they mean almost nothing in mundane life.




jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 6:31:28 PM)

OH YES
YOUR TOP BUTTON ON YOUR 501 JEANS SHOULD ALWAYS BE UNBUTTONED ,SO YOU ARE ALWAYS READY
(WHATEVER THAT MEANS) AND YOUR MILITARY BELT SHOULD ,ALSO BE UNDONE OR if buckled, TO ONE INCH ,FOR INSPECTION ,WHEN IN ACTIVE SERVICE;
DRIVING ETC for an aquantance; taken top or tops;
you should discreetly look at the shoes first, not eyeball to eyeball a master or mistress;  like an insolent,
and wear the forever ear-ring on the rite side ;everything on the rite
,that says you are a "slave"
walk behind'dont stalk;and only  ,if it's o.k.
be expertly attentive ;
have a ready lighter;
rolling papers ;
change;
pick up the bags or take the coat or take out the chair without being noticed AT ALL;
see if you are wanted or needed;
be humble and you'll inherit the earth god walks on;
get me?
would'nt hurt to carry a portable mirror; gum ;mints ;and pedicure set ,or instant-shoeshine- wipes with you ;don't offer like a pain in the az ,just be ready for any and all requests ,so you pass the test like an early bird;and look confident and easy;making everyone comfortable ;unable to insult or offend you.dont care what other paramours are there;you are of use or not period;
you snooze ;you lose;
shine your leather-jacket;
or if you wear all black and no leather(turlte-neck and black pants and shoes)it  looks like you're retired ;used up; taken ,or experienced.
The same 501 new-black
jeans ,and a continental-tux jacket ;can fit at v.i.p. parties and, filmed-places.
if you are hard sell :ware a colored hanky in your back- pocket(r.side),and, if you're hard up; desperate; and don't wanna' waste your time,and you end up going to a mixed leather and dance bar....remember all bars are meat markets ;it's there for you,so bring a little- black-book and collect numbers for later ;don't waste everybodys time! 
and, you can simply walk up to someone and say: where have you been all my life;
are you a top? ;
say oh- if they say: no.... and i gotta' get a drink ,or i'll be rite back! byeeeeee ,and ,make sure the bathroom has an escape window ;fans can hang on you.
Otherise....resign yourself and wear a slave- ring(s.l.a.v.e.) ,or some other thing ,that plainly says:  I AM A SLAVE;tattoos have to be planned ,and, not in a place you cant hide it, in the s.o.s. missonary- joe- hick-vanilla- land;one ,s and m, tattoo can gather a crowd; believe me ;so ....plan on being drained, if it shows.
anymore questions?;i'm on a roll,Otto,!....




boy43 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 6:33:36 PM)

i have heared that some kind of tatoo means the status of a slave. Its like a chain around the arm, but dont know wich.
Collars have usually the meaning of owned, but as it is in my case, apersone can use to it for pleasure, and how his/her condition.
i love collars, mine is a standard dog collar, but i am not owned, i bought it strictly for the pleasure of wearing it.

:)




KarbonCopy -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 8:24:42 PM)

There are no marks. If people arnt willing to take 20 seconds out of their life to ask, fuck em.




MistressLorelei -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 8:40:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

There are no marks. If people arnt willing to take 20 seconds out of their life to ask, fuck em.


I don't know...  'care to get on your knees boy' might get some funny looks from vanilla men... then again, it could work.




HouseofBear -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 8:45:06 PM)

There are no particular marks other than the keys or the hanky code.  As to the tat, I personally would prefer that tats on my sub/slave be directed by me as an extension of their collar.




KarbonCopy -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 8:45:20 PM)

Like I said. . Ask.


If someone walked up to me and requested me to get on my knees, I'd probably tell em to get fucked.




MistressLorelei -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 8:49:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy

Like I said. . Ask.


If someone walked up to me and requested me to get on my knees, I'd probably tell em to get fucked.



Yes Karbon, but I wouldn't be surprised if you also said the same thing if someone asked 'how are you'.  Such a brat.




KarbonCopy -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/20/2006 9:29:25 PM)

*sheepish look* [:)]




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 3:14:41 AM)

I don't know about the hankie thing, but the keys thing... I know there are quite a few bikers that would beg to differ there. Most wear their keys on the right side... mainly because they are attached to their wallet... which is also on the right side. Most right handed people wear their wallet on the right side.
 
I just finished reading your profile IamDifferent and I think you have a great attitude and I honestly believe that a dominant would be able to sense you desire to serve after on a few moments of talking to you.
 
Jewel




Oumae -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 11:42:05 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel


I just finished reading your profile IamDifferent and I think you have a great attitude and I honestly believe that a dominant would be able to sense you desire to serve after on a few moments of talking to you.
 
Jewel


I agree with Jewel, your profile reads very well.
Be yourself, get out and about to events if possible and soon you might be asking for signs to say you are taken. [;)]

Oumae




TeeGO -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 12:02:47 PM)

Do the welts on my ass count?  Oh wait, I can't show that in public.




littlesarbonn -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 12:22:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Do the welts on my ass count?  Oh wait, I can't show that in public.


Yeah, but the question was what indicates you are submissive AND available. Welts on your ass might indicate someone is already in charge. Either that, or you need to explore a better HMO. I mean, when my doctor spanks me, she doesn't leave any marks.




Oumae -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 12:45:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Do the welts on my ass count?  Oh wait, I can't show that in public.


Well if done in shape of her initial they might.... and could always show a pic. [;)]

Oumae




MistressLorelei -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 2:56:26 PM)

It just popped into my head... I read that a collar with a lock hanging open indicates that one is submissive and available.




IamDifferent -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 4:48:02 PM)

To Jewel and Oumae: thank YOU very much for the kind words...i have learned much and very badly want to be the best possible slave that i can be for THE ONE to whom i may be lucky enough to dedicate my life.




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