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Rochsub2009 -> RE: young domme seeks guidance (8/25/2011 2:33:36 PM)
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I know that you asked for the opinions from the ladies, but I'd like to add a thought.
The BDSM community is fairly small. Because of that, your reputation is probably the most important thing that you have. If you have a bad one, word travels fast.
With that in mind, I'd suggest that you go slowly in actually setting up sessions. And if you plan to charge for the sessions, then you should go even slower. Nobody wants to get in the chair of the new hairdresser, or stand in the line of the cashier who's getting trained at the grocery store.
I'd suggest that you read as many books, watch as many videos, and follow as many on-line forums as you possibly can to increase your knowledge base. But more importantly, I'd suggest that you join the local BDSM organization. They will have play parties where you can watch experienced Dommes in action. If you're patient, and seem sincere, many will even be happy to answer your questions. Over time, they may even be comfortable allowing you to join their scene.
Frankly, as a male sub, I'd be reluctant to have a session with someone who would come into an on-line forum like this one and ask questions that are as basic as what you've asked. But everybody has to start somewhere, so take advantage of every opportunity you can find to increase your knowledge base.
And if you plan to charge, don't do so until you have enough knowledge and experience to be worth charging for. Otherwise, you'll ruin your reputation, and reputations are hard to restore.
Good luck!
-Roch
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