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Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:03:02 PM   
matt25UK


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Status: offline 		can you help me or advise me. pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. i got to the point where i ended up starting to try talking to them as there seemed nobody with a different attitude. but now i have, and i gave this woman 30 pounds, now she wants 50 on payday, and she said if i take her shopping and spend 200 on her then she will allow me to worship her feet which is what i want. but now i get really aroused by handing my money to her, and i dont have the willpower to say no to her. i dont know what to do for the best. is there anything you could recommend??? or should i just admit that i can't stop myself doing what i love so just deal with it and be quite hard up for cash??
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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:09:59 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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can you help me or advise me. pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. i got to the point where i ended up starting to try talking to them as there seemed nobody with a different attitude. but now i have, and i gave this woman 30 pounds, now she wants 50 on payday, and she said if i take her shopping and spend 200 on her then she will allow me to worship her feet which is what i want. but now i get really aroused by handing my money to her, and i dont have the willpower to say no to her. i dont know what to do for the best. is there anything you could recommend??? or should i just admit that i can't stop myself doing what i love so just deal with it and be quite hard up for cash??


Of course you know what to do for the best. Are you asking us whether we should save you from yourself? Because, personally, I'm not that altruistic.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:16:48 PM   
matt25UK


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Status: offline 		i am stuck in 2 minds. i think that i will never find a way that i am so under control and helpless like i am in this situation, but i am giving my money to her, and its mine. :)

i dont think i will find another domme if i dont become a money slave do u know what i mean?

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:21:15 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I think you are getting a great deal of enjoyment out of telling us this. Have fun with your fetish.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:23:34 PM   
matt25UK


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what do u mean by that exactly

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:42:19 PM   
Kajmir101


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Status: offline 		Which matters more, your penis or your bills.
Your penis won't charge interest, won't ruin your credit rating...

I mean really...


And not all mistresses want money.
It's really your choice boy.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:44:16 PM   
hangemhigh1953


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ORIGINAL: matt25UK

i am stuck in 2 minds. i think that i will never find a way that i am so under control and helpless like i am in this situation, but i am giving my money to her, and its mine. :)

i dont think i will find another domme if i dont become a money slave do u know what i mean?

On the contrary, I think you will never find a fulfilling relationship if you give in to the findommes.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:51:02 PM   
DarkSteven


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Your penis won't charge interest, won't ruin your credit rating...



No, but sometimes it makes decisions that will!


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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 9:54:50 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux


quote:

ORIGINAL: matt25UK

can you help me or advise me. pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. i got to the point where i ended up starting to try talking to them as there seemed nobody with a different attitude. but now i have, and i gave this woman 30 pounds, now she wants 50 on payday, and she said if i take her shopping and spend 200 on her then she will allow me to worship her feet which is what i want. but now i get really aroused by handing my money to her, and i dont have the willpower to say no to her. i dont know what to do for the best. is there anything you could recommend??? or should i just admit that i can't stop myself doing what i love so just deal with it and be quite hard up for cash??


Of course you know what to do for the best. Are you asking us whether we should save you from yourself? Because, personally, I'm not that altruistic.


Hahahahahahahahaha....classic :)

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/27/2011 11:08:51 PM   
LanceHughes


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Status: offline 		matt:

Your profile tells us:

Just a genuine guy looking to find a genuine dominant female. it seems very hard to find anyone genuine in here. but if you are then please contact me and i would happily love to chat to you and tell you all you need to know about me.

And you correctly (in your OP) state: "pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. "

Do you see the disconnect?  You want to find a "genuine" dominant female,  but I'll wager that the "shopping" is done on-line.  I'll wager that she isn't EVER available for that foot-worship.  My point is that this FinDom is not genuine - probably not even a female.

You have FALLEN into a TRAP!  Now, how to get out of it?  You have become addicted to the feeling of "so under control."  That is a fetish.... you can't be sexually satisfied without that sense.

You (twice) ask for recommendations...... If you had posted before this all happened, asking how to find a "genuine" woman to dominate you, I assure you the recommendation wouls have been to get to a munch.  Not knowing Norwich, I'm going to direct peonForHer to this string and get him involved.... maybe that good lad will contact you in CMail.  DO WHAT HE SAYS!

The easiest and quickest solution is spend the 50 on getting to meet real people.  "She" will be pissed, make a demand, and tell you what a loser you are.  Meanwhile, you will be expanding your circle of friends and acquaitenses to include folks you can actually SEE and HEAR.  And guess what?  You will NEVER hear from her again! ! ! !

Yes, the sense of loss of control is heady and addictive.  NO DOUBT.  But look at the direction this path takes you..... Most financial bottoms end up "ruined."  Actually, I think they all do.  And the worst part of that is that once ruined, the Dom DISAPPEARS to suck the blood of the next victim.  They kill the goose that lays the golden egg since they KNOW there is always another goose to be had.

It is a GAME!

There is nothing in it for you except that sense of loss of control.

You say you've lost the will to resist, but yet you want help in overcoming these desires..... OOPS!  Nobody can help you there, now can they?

I'll make you this offer.  Send ME the 50 and I'll return it once you see how "she" reacts to the fact that you "had to send the 50 to my friend in America, Mistress.  He had a car accident and he didn't have insurance."

When you see what the reaction is, you'll see just what a game is being played.

HEY!  I just thought of something that PROVES "she" is a gamester.  Why the 50?  Why not just "Take me shopping, and I'll let you worship my feet?"  "She" is trying to make sure you are .... what idiom to use that our British friend will understand?....  in America "set the hook."  peon will translate by understanding the situation and giving you what for!  LOL!

Hope this long message helps.

Do NOT send her the 50 and see what happens!

Regards, Lance (who is really trying to figure how this finacial dominance thing can work in the gay BDSM world. LOL!)





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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 2:43:53 AM   
SuperHappyTime


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ORIGINAL: matt25UK

can you help me or advise me. pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. i got to the point where i ended up starting to try talking to them as there seemed nobody with a different attitude. but now i have, and i gave this woman 30 pounds, now she wants 50 on payday, and she said if i take her shopping and spend 200 on her then she will allow me to worship her feet which is what i want. but now i get really aroused by handing my money to her, and i dont have the willpower to say no to her. i dont know what to do for the best. is there anything you could recommend??? or should i just admit that i can't stop myself doing what i love so just deal with it and be quite hard up for cash??


Great, not only are you one of the few people who actually fall for this scam..you go and post on the forums about it. That won't encourage them at all

Do what wossname suggests and set a trap for her..or even better, just take the advice of many of the people here and ignore her. You've lost 30 quid..its no big deal. Do us all a favour and don't encourage the scammers anymore.

Oh and you know those emails offering your \/1agra for low low prices? Don't reply to those either.

< Message edited by SuperHappyTime -- 8/28/2011 2:45:33 AM >

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 4:05:15 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		oh you will mate. There are plenty . Trust me. Plenty that wont take you for your money. The question is do you want to be a money slave? only you can answer that. sounds like from your post that you dont unless you get a kick of giving money and then complaining about it
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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 4:08:46 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		oh and remember this advice on collarme itself
PLEASE DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANYONE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES
you wont go wrong following that
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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 4:27:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
oh and remember this advice on collarme itself
PLEASE DO NOT SEND MONEY TO ANYONE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES
you wont go wrong following that


Wow!  I can't believe I'm going to say this, but do what Kevin said.  He's absolutely right.

Despite how difficult it may seem to find a "real Domme", it IS possible.  And you don't have to pay her for the privilege.  Just go to a local munch.  Even if it's a bit of a drive, it will probably prove to be cheaper than paying a financial Domme.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 4:58:25 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		You all do know that findom is an actual fetish practiced by real people right? Now the OP might not enjoy the repercussions or be able to afford it, but many can and do. Just a thought.

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 5:07:51 AM   
SuperHappyTime


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

You all do know that findom is an actual fetish practiced by real people right? Now the OP might not enjoy the repercussions or be able to afford it, but many can and do. Just a thought.


Sure, but set your search for the OPs age range and be a sub male looking for a Domme..and guess what, suddenly a good proportion of the results are supposed findommes who often (a) don't seem to show much experience, (b) seem to be mainly interested in the cash side, (c) often want online only (d) have an amazon wishlist link in their profile etc etc etc. I get that some Dommes may be interested in financial domination, but its a little more than 'SEND ME UR CASH, PIGGIES' and its a little suspicious that CM is plagued by them...

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 5:13:31 AM   
LadyPact


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Go to a munch.  Go straight to a munch.  Do not pass up the real world (go) and no one will ask you for two hundred dollars.


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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 5:28:08 AM   
xxblushesxx


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ORIGINAL: SuperHappyTime


quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

You all do know that findom is an actual fetish practiced by real people right? Now the OP might not enjoy the repercussions or be able to afford it, but many can and do. Just a thought.


Sure, but set your search for the OPs age range and be a sub male looking for a Domme..and guess what, suddenly a good proportion of the results are supposed findommes who often (a) don't seem to show much experience, (b) seem to be mainly interested in the cash side, (c) often want online only (d) have an amazon wishlist link in their profile etc etc etc. I get that some Dommes may be interested in financial domination, but its a little more than 'SEND ME UR CASH, PIGGIES' and its a little suspicious that CM is plagued by them...


I would say that findoms by definition are mainly interested in the cash side. Hence the name. : )

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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 5:40:59 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		well its great that people can appreciate that i actually do have constructive things to say. i actually do have a brain and im not as deranged and messed up as some people might make out
thanks rochsub
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RE: Hooked on financial slavery - 8/28/2011 5:45:53 AM   
SuperHappyTime


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

quote:

ORIGINAL: SuperHappyTime


quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

You all do know that findom is an actual fetish practiced by real people right? Now the OP might not enjoy the repercussions or be able to afford it, but many can and do. Just a thought.


Sure, but set your search for the OPs age range and be a sub male looking for a Domme..and guess what, suddenly a good proportion of the results are supposed findommes who often (a) don't seem to show much experience, (b) seem to be mainly interested in the cash side, (c) often want online only (d) have an amazon wishlist link in their profile etc etc etc. I get that some Dommes may be interested in financial domination, but its a little more than 'SEND ME UR CASH, PIGGIES' and its a little suspicious that CM is plagued by them...


I would say that findoms by definition are mainly interested in the cash side. Hence the name. : )


I mean in the sense that many of them are only interested in getting cash to them asap. ;o)

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