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ProlificNeeds -> RE: Would you be less inclined to submit to a man who'd been raped? (9/30/2011 6:17:40 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Sometimes I think women want men to be like rocks to stand on. They'd appreciate their being smoother around the edges, but when all's said and done the last thing they want is for them to move at all. We're supposed to be the devil they know. We shout sometimes, but we don't ever cry.
I had to comment on this, and the other post about the 'protective' element you'd mentioned.
I think it's definitely got merit because on the occasions when I do have a primarily submissive partner, that mirrors closely a dynamic I look for, but I'd honestly say not all women are like that.
Reality also comes into it, even if someone wants the 'unshakable rock' it would be selfish not to realize there may be a day you need to return the favor of being a solid anchor for your partner. Maybe it never happens, but anyone not willing to be that rock in return certainly doesn't deserve one to stand on.
I certainly have never looked down on a male partner who's needed to mope a little and seek some stability, it would be hypocritical of me to deny someone something I myself want.
I also like knowing about a partner's bisexuality up front, it shows me they feel no shame about themselves or their preferences... and it opens the door to some fun ribbing. [:D]
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