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mew -> RE: Uncomfortable Topic (5/24/2006 3:56:20 AM)
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Dear Invictus Sir,
Please keep in mind as you read this, that I am not referring to someone who occasionally watches a bit of porn, but rather the person who is addicted and can not stop.
The porn,sex addict uses porn and sex as a drug, just like an alcoholic, cocaine or heroine addict. It is a means to hide from reality, to numb emotions and feelings, and to get into a fantasy world where things don't hurt. The p/s addict will masterbate to porn, sometimes to the point of making themselves sore, thus, using themselves all up sexually, so that they can't perform in reality.
Also, the porn provides them with an easy in, easy out, and the porn ladies are perfect in every way to fulfill that fantasy. When the porn addict is finished with them, he simply shuts down the computer and they are gone. No pillow talk, no hugging, kissing, no intimacy at all. The intimacy is precisely what the porn addict needs to avoid, because they can't deal with reality.
The repeated masterbation to porn images becomes the norm, and it is much easier than getting intimate in reality and making love. By indulging in porn, they can avoid all the things they are not capable of experiencing. They can't get an erection with a real person, they need those perfect porn images to get aroused, and quite often they will need to move to the next level of porn, more hardcore to get the same fix. Ex. they might start out looking at a victoria secret, then on to a playboy, then on to more explicit things, until eventually they begin to act out with real people, ( hookers, escorts, one night stands, etc). This in some cases can progress to beastiality, children, rape etc, which will eventually land them in jail if they are caught.
Hope this helps you understand more. If you need too, you can google "porn addiction" and see what you get. This is not misinformation, I live with it everyday and have done much research on it.
~mew~
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