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nephandi -> RE: subs and slaves weight? (10/31/2006 11:02:13 PM)
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The problem here is not realy how OP`s Master wiew overweight pepole, he can think what he want, the problem is realy the nuber of pepole thinking like him, that somone that is fat, and especialy a fat woman is a no good, lazy loser that simply dont care aboute their lives and that none can love if they are not given somthing, like sex. That all it takes is a little willpower and not being lazy and poof, slim. And this attitude make many look down on fat pepole. The case is, if it was so easy, not being lazy why do pepole all over the world live in deep depression over their weight issues, why do many pepole comit sueside. i wonder if the OP`s Master have ever had a weight issue he is trying to fix, the case is that yes, in theory for most pepole, less unhealthy food and more exersise will reduce their wieght, the problem is it is seldom that easy. often there are causes for the overeating, causes that are not the induvidual in question wish to stuff themself.
i suffer som depression, and when the world get to dark i end up cheering mself up whit chochoathe or some other candy, then i get more depressed when the sugar go out of the system and i buy another bady bar, now for me to stop overeating i need to deal whit the underlaying cause, becouse i overeat becouse i am depressed, do that make me lazy, not it make me depressed. The forumula seams simple the problem is caused b exsessive intake of unhealthy food and to little exersise, so add exersise and take away unhealthy food, but in reality going by that formula is harder than most that have not tried have ever imagined, not becouse we fat pepole are laz, but becouse there is often underleying cocerns.
In edition some are just chobby by nature and have to starve themself or take medication to get to what sosiety considers thin, some just like a bit of more meat on their bones, who is to say cobby is less beautiful than thin, in many cultures a chobby girl is considerd more beautiful than one that is wery thin, beauty is in the mind of the beholder.
Now when it comes to the OP`s and her Master, they are entiteld to their option to, just as i am to mine, and if that opinion happens to be an unpopular one, they still have a right to it, the only concern i have is what if one of the children in question here get overweight, how will this man then react, will he still be nuturing or will he tell them they are lazy loosers becouse their bodies down look like the fashion creators in paris and Milano have said a beautiful body is to look.
To answer the OPs original question: i have a pretty face, good eyes, thich good hair and while i am overwigh i have a pretty body, i know this, i can inteligently make theese notes aboute the face and shape i see in the mirror, but becouse of constant bullying in school, i can not belive it, and i feel ugly. i wish to lose weight for health reasons and becouse i have gotten interested in goth clothes and they are hard to find in big sizes in Norway, but when i reatch my goal of a size medium, i think i will still look in the mirror and feel the ghosts of past bullying, just the way i do now. What make me see myself as ugly is low self esteem, not the esta kilos on my flesh.
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