LaTigresse
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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather quote:
Maybe she is simply honouring a commitment she made prior to knowing you. Would you want to be in a relationship with someone with whom you could could not trust to give her word, just because of a newer relationship? If whatever promise she made was more important to her than marrying me, then I wouldn't marry her. I wouldn't marry somebody who did not see marrying me to be the most important thing in their life. I wouldn't end the relationship, I just wouldn't get married. And that is certainly your perogative. Personally, if a prospective partner felt as you did.......considering my own morals and sense of personal responsibility......your selfish sense of importance would very likely be the end of our relationship. I will always believe that a person giving their word, making a promise, their accepted responsibiliities are the most important aspect of their character. If they would expect me to set aside my morality and responsibilities as a sign of my love and commitment to them, I would view them as too immature and selfish for me.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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