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LillyBoPeep -> RE: A Question for Sadists (11/27/2011 8:09:57 AM)
I get that Terry is fairly unpopular, but I don't really see him as having missed the boat. Personally, I think of con-noncon as a "small measure of consent." You can always withdraw that by leaving, but it's ot at the forefront of anyone's mind... at least that's how I think of it.consent is implied or re-affirmed by me being there, but "is she going to like this?" Isn't totally necessary.

anniezz338 -> RE: A Question for Sadists (11/27/2011 8:18:50 AM)
just IMO, there is a difference between liking something and consenting to it. Sure, subs do what they do not like at times, but the overall has been consented to. I see liking as more of a subset of consent....the liking has to be bigger than it's counter part, dislike, in order for things to work. In most cases, if the dislike gets bigger than the like, then consent is withdrawn and the relationship ends.

nyphylim -> RE: A Question for Sadists (11/27/2011 9:17:18 AM)
I prefer there be some pleasure form the pain. It makes it a challenge to find a pain that they will take as punishment. If they do not enjoy the pain then it becomes too routine. I feel that part of being a good sadist is always evolving my personal methods. If it is too easy it provides me with no challenge and my sadistic ways tend to become more just disiplanary that true sadistic.

MistressRouge -> RE: A Question for Sadists (11/29/2011 3:56:01 AM)
If I am brutally honest, I enjoy those that struggle with My sadism especially. However, I do enjoy My masochists they allow Me to evolve and become creative.

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