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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/16/2011 5:23:21 PM   
Hisprettybaby


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He's still up there watching too, I don't think he's figured out how we can tell.


Like you just said.....
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He wasn't the brightest bulb in the box.


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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 8:41:01 AM   
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I kmow you know.as I said,im not an idiot.let me ask you,do you feel better with that last statement?i guess my degree's are mean nothing.yes,degree's as in more than one.what have you got?i could say some things about you as well but,im not pathetic like some others.i dont need to post insults to make myself feel better like you do.if you feel good about it,then im happy to be a part of your joke.i asked a friend about people like you who come on chat,she said they do it so they can be judgemental without fear of anyone knowing who they are.she said the people are very opinionated and most are pathetic.someone of you are good people who offered good and sound advise.you,hisprettybaby arenot one of them.you are one of the pahetic ones who do nothing but critisize.everything you have said has been nothing but nonsense having nothing to do with what my question was.i showed my friend my post and even she said that all but a couple of you said anything remotely close to an answer to my question.you got hung up on bullshit instead of seeing the big picture.she has a few choice words for you but im not letting her say it.im not going to lower my standards to such a childish level as your are.when I left,i said good luck to all.you felt a need to put me down.is that who you are?you like the one that when someone says goodbye,your response is fuckoff.you have to make fun of people to make yourself feel better and to be honest,i feel sorry for you.still good luck.im sure you will have some other comment about what ive written.thats just who you are and im glad I dont know you.ive got a true and caring heart.i dobnt want to hurt anyone,but you go out of your way to hurt people

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 9:09:02 AM   
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Many, many people on here have more than one degree. Myself included. Having bits of paper does not make you smart or different. It just means you chose to go the university-based education route rather than the work-based education route. In the end, the certificate is only so much paper.

You have invited the sarcastic responses by your increasingly irate responses to your question.

You said a few posts ago that you were out of here. Actually you said that a few times during this thread, but I digress...

This thread is not going to disappear. It's up to you now to either walk away and let it die a natural death in a day or so, or continue to post and fan the flames.

Your choice.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 9:15:57 AM   
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my degree's are mean nothing.


Apparently.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 9:21:07 AM   
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Yet again you write as if your emotions are out of control. IF this is how you communicated to those women, then they probably didn't feel safe with you and that's why they backed out.

Until you started throwing temper tantrums and whining around here, you actually got some real answers to your questions. No one was mean to you or attacked you. It was when your BEHAVIOR showed that you don't listen to anything that you don't like that the daggers started coming out and made you seem like a joke.

Many subs don't like confrontation and will avoid it as much as they can. If they didn't feel that their concerns would be listened to, then there was no point in bringing them up. It was just much easier to block and ignore you.

Remember, you might be a dom, but you weren't THEIR dom and you held NO authority over them, and acting as if you did might have been the final trigger that caused them to bail.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 9:31:43 AM   
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why do I get the funny feeling this is kev in disguise? The text suuuure looks similar.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 10:22:37 AM   
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Nope, SSDD

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 10:55:28 AM   
Hisprettybaby


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?i guess my degree's are mean nothing.yes,degree's as in more than one.what have you got?
Since you asked, a Nursing Degree.

i could say some things about you as well
Believe me, I've heard it all before. Nothing you say will ever shock me.

but,im not pathetic like some others.i dont need to post insults to make myself feel better like you do.
It doesn't make me feel better at all and, for that matter, how would you know what I am feeling? Last I heard, you did NOT have access to what I am thinking.

if you feel good about it,then im happy to be a part of your joke.i asked a friend about people like you who come on chat,she said they do it so they can be judgemental without fear of anyone knowing who they are.
I'm not keeping secrets and hiding behind a profile with no picture.

she said the people are very opinionated and most are pathetic.
Like you're not opinionated or pathetic?? Look who's criticizing now, just because he's not hearing only what he wants to.

someone of you are good people who offered good and sound advise.you,hisprettybaby arenot one of them.you are one of the pahetic ones who do nothing but critisize.
You mean pathetic and criticizing like you yourself just did?

everything you have said has been nothing but nonsense having nothing to do with what my question was.i showed my friend my post and even she said that all but a couple of you said anything remotely close to an answer to my question.you got hung up on bullshit instead of seeing the big picture.
No, I did not miss seeing the big picture. The "big picture" as you put it is, you wanted to know why women first said they wanted to meet you and then blocked you. I told you what I thought. Isn't that what you asked, what the reason could be? You don't get to pick what kinds of answers you get when you post on an open message board on the internet. You get them ALL, like it or not.

she has a few choice words for you but im not letting her say it.
That's fine w/ me, since I don't give one flying rat's ass what she thinks. Also, it sure doesn't look very Domly to (1)come on here and whine and (2)hide behind your friend.

im not going to lower my standards to such a childish level as your are.
You're just pissed because not everyone agrees with you.

when I left,i said good luck to all.you felt a need to put me down.is that who you are?you like the one that when someone says goodbye,your response is fuckoff.
Show me the quote.

you have to make fun of people to make yourself feel better and to be honest,i feel sorry for you.still good luck.im sure you will have some other comment about what ive written.thats just who you are and im glad I dont know you.
Not as glad as I am to not know you. I'm sure I would have blocked you too, just like those other women did.

ive got a true and caring heart.i dobnt want to hurt anyone,but you go out of your way to hurt people
If you're going to post on message boards, mister, you'd better develop a thicker skin.

For claiming to be a Dom, you are very out of control of yourself and your emotions. How can you expect anyone to let you control THEM if you can't even control YOURSELF?? YOU are the common denominator in each of the blocking situations you mentioned in your OP, so maybe YOU had something to do with the reason(s) they blocked you. Maybe - just maybe - it had to do with you pushing to see them at a private residence for a first meet, rather than in public, and that scared them away. After all, if you worded it the same way you've related to us, you only mentioned the coffee shop as an afterthought, as though it might be better than no meeting at all. You need to realize, you may be A Dom but you are NOT THEIR Dom. You have no control over a sub unless she says you do.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 11:24:50 AM   
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.i asked a friend about people like you who come on chat,she said they do it so they can be judgemental without fear of anyone knowing who they are
Nah, I'm not afraid of knowing you knowing who I am. I live in the same county...and would have no problem saying the exact same things to your face if I ran into you a social or event.

I'm sure our group will have a good long discussion about this thread.


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i guess my degree's are mean nothing.yes,degree's as in more than one.what have you got?
Psychology specializing in relationship counseling. By the way, I got my BA in 2.5 years.

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ORIGINAL: dom66666
you got hung up on bullshit instead of seeing the big picture
No, we saw the big picture. You wanted it to be about how you were wronged by mean little submissives. We let you know it wasn't about that, it's about your behavior. (Which just continues to grow more charming by the minute)

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she has a few choice words for you
Don't really care.

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im sure you will have some other comment about what ive written
Yes, I will. That comment is: so, you weren't really leaving.

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i dobnt want to hurt anyone,but you go out of your way to hurt people
No, we don't. We're blunt, honest and don't candy coat things. You threw temper tantrum when you didn't get the answers you wanted. You made things about you when they weren't about you. If you behave like an idiot you're going to get treated like an idiot.

So, you know what? Just keep doing what you're doing, but don't get upset when you get the same results.




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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 11:31:44 AM   
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why do I get the funny feeling this is kev in disguise? The text suuuure looks similar.


nah.. theres something totally different.. syntax maybe? or maybe that there ARE actual sentences, even as poorly spaced as they are..

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 11:43:56 AM   
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Wow, you are something, I'll give you that. Ese loco. Whoever your 'friend' is, she's probably telling you whatever you want so you don't go all batshit crazy on her like you have on this thread. Here's a couple of pertinent things you're forgetting...ahem.

1. If you have multiple degrees then you must have got them from sending in boxtops, because your grammar, spelling, punctuation, any freaking thing to do with the written English language, sucks balls. Yes, I know, you're using your phone.
You also have zero reading comprehension and communication skills- you kind of need that to get through school.
Do you get that you come across as being uneducated in the extreme? If you'd like to make a different impression on people then start working on it.

2. People weren't mean to you, or opinionated, or pathetic, they very nicely spent their time on you and your question. The few posts after you huffed off weren't so helpful but hey, you were acting like a two year old, nothing wrong with people calling you on it.

3. You have continually falsified what people's responses to you were. In other words, you are a proven and substantiated liar. Interestingly enough, since this is a written medium we can all go back and look at what was said originally. Yup, you lied in multiple cases and exaggerated things to suit you and your itty bitty hurt feelings. That's not what mature people do, if they make mistakes they suck it up and deal, but you just go around twisting things to suit what you want them to be in order to soothe your ego.

4. You got answers galore to your OP, you just didn't like them. It's interesting when 27 people join up and say the same thing over and over and you seem to feel that ALL of them got caught up in 'bullshit' instead of seeing the big picture.

Now, I'll be perfectly clear here. The big picture is that you act like an infant and you seem crazy to boot. You've constantly come back with tantrums and more whining. No sane woman in this world will accept that as being Dominant to her. I wouldn't put you in charge of changing my cat box. I guess there might be hope if you do some heavy work on yourself. As it is I'd spend time with Justin Bieber before I'd sit down for a chat with you. I don't think he'd hurt me, you I'm not so sure of, and he's pretty to look at too

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 11:56:23 AM   
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As it is I'd spend time with Justin Bieber before I'd sit down for a chat with you. I don't think he'd hurt me, you I'm not so sure of, and he's pretty to look at too




wow!! that is HARSH!! LMAO!!

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 12:07:05 PM   
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As it is I'd spend time with Justin Bieber before I'd sit down for a chat with you. I don't think he'd hurt me, you I'm not so sure of, and he's pretty to look at too




wow!! that is HARSH!! LMAO!!


Lol! Well hey, JB strikes me as being innocuous and non-threatening and perhaps he'd have a thing or two of interest to say. You know, all the places he's been and what hairspray he uses, that type of thing. The OP is an explosive nutjob and I'd fear for my own personal safety. Case closed 

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 12:18:50 PM   
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lol

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 12:27:45 PM   
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Okay, so now I'm curious.

So, he asks, "Where do you what to meet? My house? Your House? Starbucks?" And the girls just vaporize? "Poof" instantly into the ozone?

Or did the girls hem and haw because now they're concerned and he responded like he did here, then they blocked him?

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 1:04:57 PM   
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I can see either scenario.

I think he and the women had chats, they weren't too sold on him, and when he asked for the meet with the private residences included it creeped them out, as everyone told him, and they ran because he wasn't all that solid with them to begin with. I can also see them running into the stone wall that is his mind over the course of the conversations and while it was ok to chat here and there, when they were faced with the prospect of taking things further it was a no go.

Honestly, he's kind of scary. I dont think it would take much for them to pick up on it. If he did manage to mask it for a while I think it showed in the end. His insistence here that everyone had it wrong and he seemed to want a blamefest on the women was weird. He was misleading, he didn't want answers, he wanted to point fingers. Ewwww....

Edited to add: I can see one other thing, like him asking for the meeting and including the residences and having that kind of heavy emphasis on being all alone and private and perhaps he threw in an inappropriate comment or two. It had to be bad, it just had to be because they all did the same thing at the same point. I'll bet he totally came across as a horndog and it was the gross kind of horny, not sexy.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 1:18:40 PM   
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This is my view. I haven't read the whole thread so excuse any repetition.

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I've asked them all, due** to fakes on here, if they wanted to go to the next step, which is meeting in person.They all say "yes". However, all of them, when asked personal info of where they live or I've even offered my address, all of them block me....
unquote

(I fixed the scan as it was too excruciating for me)......but to continue...

I just think that adding *home* into any sort of *meeting up* conversation after WEEKS, puts people off when it comes to folk they've only bantered and chatted to online.

They don't know you, and you don't know them after *weeks*. YOU wouldn't mind if a girl you've chatted to online for a matter of weeks had your home address...... but not many men I know would be ok with that. It's not just girls :-) People are cautious.

Chatting for a few weeks online means you are virtual strangers. These days *chatting* is oh so cheap. You can get a best friend in a few weeks online....and they can *love youuuuuu*. That's simply not how real life works as a rule though.

agirl

edited to fix a fuck up with boxes























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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 2:15:56 PM   
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my degree's are mean nothing.


Apparently.


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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 2:21:42 PM   
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1. If you have multiple degrees then you must have got them from sending in boxtops, because your grammar, spelling, punctuation, any freaking thing to do with the written English language, sucks balls. Yes, I know, you're using your phone.


ACTUALLY sadly that isn't necessarily true. I work for doctors whose grammar, syntax etc are appalling. If it weren't for me noone would understand their letters.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 3:17:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TheFireWithinMe


quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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my degree's are mean nothing.


Apparently.


That and all your base are belong to us.




Great vid!


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