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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/17/2011 3:41:56 PM

Endivius

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I can see now...the op is a Duminant. Or perhaps even a Duminate.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/19/2011 9:01:33 PM

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Hey dom6666....

I can tell as one who has been dating (as a forty-something), I never...and I mean, NEVER, even bring up or ask about the woman's address or where she lives, beyond general neighborhood, and usually it's in the context of: I live in [my neighborhood]....is there something closer to you or in-between where we live where we can meet? Personally, I like going for coffee because if the date goes south or she is just whacked, I can easily get out of there in an hour or less. If she is a good date, then I'd suggest something a lot more fun and interesting, but if we can't fill an hour with interesting conversation, then a much cooler, fun date is out.

Now... that said... there have been plenty of women that have emailed with me endlessly, weeks on end, and finally, I'll say (if they don't suggest it first), say, would you like to meet over coffee? (or waffles. If I think we will hit it off, meeting for breakfast is my 2nd fave. quick meal but it can last longer if we have a good date). Most say yes... but I do get a few that say, "no thanks" it's been fun emailing but I'm not ready to meet someone face to face yet.

put on your big boy britches, chalk it up, and move along. If this is happening to you all the time, take a good long look at yourself...or at least how you are coming off. I go by this rule: If one or two people are assholes, it's probably them. If suddenly EVERYONE is an asshole.... it's probably me.

I don't know what tech device you are using, but I also have to admit that the lack of spaces, punctuation and capitalization would scare me off, too. (and it's rough to read)
good luck to you.

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/19/2011 9:32:18 PM

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I kmow you know.as I said,im not an idiot.let me ask you,do you feel better with that last statement?i guess my degree's are mean nothing.yes,degree's as in more than one.what have you got?i could say some things about you as well but,im not pathetic like some others.i dont need to post insults to make myself feel better like you do.if you feel good about it,then im happy to be a part of your joke.i asked a friend about people like you who come on chat,she said they do it so they can be judgemental without fear of anyone knowing who they are.she said the people are very opinionated and most are pathetic.someone of you are good people who offered good and sound advise.you,hisprettybaby arenot one of them.you are one of the pahetic ones who do nothing but critisize.everything you have said has been nothing but nonsense having nothing to do with what my question was.i showed my friend my post and even she said that all but a couple of you said anything remotely close to an answer to my question.you got hung up on bullshit instead of seeing the big picture.she has a few choice words for you but im not letting her say it.im not going to lower my standards to such a childish level as your are.when I left,i said good luck to all.you felt a need to put me down.is that who you are?you like the one that when someone says goodbye,your response is fuckoff.you have to make fun of people to make yourself feel better and to be honest,i feel sorry for you.still good luck.im sure you will have some other comment about what ive written.thats just who you are and im glad I dont know you.ive got a true and caring heart.i dobnt want to hurt anyone,but you go out of your way to hurt people

Oh Shit ... I think its time I call the:

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RE: subs and slaves shed some light - 10/19/2011 9:45:06 PM

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my degree's are mean nothing.

Apparently.

Hush, maybe he's an lolcat!

Ailey who usually doesn't pick on others' grammar and now feels guilty.

Edited for grammar-pfftt go figure!

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