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bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 4:23:00 PM

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hi all, I hope this is the place to post this

Tonight myself and my sub went out and experienced our first dogging.

It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

Everything was going well, we had a fantastic time, and when he was done fucking her he left and we drove off home on quite a high.

The problem came when we got home, I had her in the lounge and was about to enter her when I noticed his cum leaving her pussy, and it that kind of ruined it for me.

I seem to find the act exciting and although I would have prefered protection, I was on a bigger high when I knew a stranger was cumming inside her, but it kind of ended when when I saw his cum where I was supposed to put my cock.

I have finally got her to sleep after she was in tears trying to make her understand it was nothing she did wrong.

I really wanna do this, the reason we did bareback is because she can't use condoms, she told me when we first met, and we have never used them ourselves.

So, I guess I'm asing for solutions? Is there a option other than condoms? although I loved the idea of her being filled with stranger cum, I would still rather settle with the experience minus the cum.

RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 4:50:59 PM

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What do you mean, she can't use condoms? If she's allergic to latex, use another material.

You're playing Russian roulette, fella. And with your response to the cum in her, she may have some fears about a repeat performance.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 4:56:47 PM

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You want to have your cake and eat it, too. You could try having her douch, when she gets home...or you could restrict her play to oral sex.

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hi all, I hope this is the place to post this

Tonight myself and my sub went out and experienced our first dogging.

It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

Everything was going well, we had a fantastic time, and when he was done fucking her he left and we drove off home on quite a high.

The problem came when we got home, I had her in the lounge and was about to enter her when I noticed his cum leaving her pussy, and it that kind of ruined it for me.

I seem to find the act exciting and although I would have prefered protection, I was on a bigger high when I knew a stranger was cumming inside her, but it kind of ended when when I saw his cum where I was supposed to put my cock.

I have finally got her to sleep after she was in tears trying to make her understand it was nothing she did wrong.

I really wanna do this, the reason we did bareback is because she can't use condoms, she told me when we first met, and we have never used them ourselves.

So, I guess I'm asing for solutions? Is there a option other than condoms? although I loved the idea of her being filled with stranger cum, I would still rather settle with the experience minus the cum.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 5:10:24 PM

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There should be no reason for her to not be able to use condoms...there are condoms out there not made from latex as DarkSteven said...my friend was allergic to latex and had to use natural ones. So many things could happen...you also have to think, by the time the two of you go get tested it'll be too late. Whats the point in risking diseases and STD's??? If you are going to do something like this then find the person you want to do it with, have them tested first and be sure they aren't sleeping with others too...Otherwise, whatever you choose...if condoms still aren't used then either don't have sex with her, don't let her get fucked by another man, or have her clean herself with a douche, or just get over it and fuck her anyway, that way you'll both be infected just as quickly at the same time.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 5:10:59 PM

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Tonight myself and my sub went out and experienced our first dogging.

Dogging as in randomly meeting strangers outdoors for sex?

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It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

Just what was your selection criteria?

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I really wanna do this, the reason we did bareback is because she can't use condoms, she told me when we first met, and we have never used them ourselves.

Durex, Skyn, and Trojan all make polyisoprene/polyurethane condoms, which are non-latex.

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I was on a bigger high when I knew a stranger was cumming inside her, but it kind of ended when when I saw his cum where I was supposed to put my cock.

I have finally got her to sleep after she was in tears trying to make her understand it was nothing she did wrong.

Good luck making this up to her. I'll bet this was your idea, you were all hot for it, and then made her feel worthless. Way to go, Prince Charming.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 5:33:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: nighthawk3569

have your cake and eat it, too.

I'm not sure you intended this play on words, but it's great advice!

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or just get over it and fuck her anyway, that way you'll both be infected just as quickly
at the same time.

As is this, and said in such a polite manner too.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 8:29:13 PM

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As others have said, you are subjecting her (and you) to a variety of STDs, some of which can be serious (and deadly if undetected/untreated).
If she is allergic to latex, there are non-latex options that make it less risky...barebacking is a completely risky sexual activity, and one that the two of you may regret for the rest of your lives.

Early withdrawal is less risky than coming inside, but any high school health education film will tell you that it's certainly NOT a reliable form of birth/STD control.
Screening your partners carefully? People lie. They lie a lot. Some don't lie...but have an STD and don't even realize it.

It's just not worth the risk-- another option if you are both turned on by the thought of a stranger fucking her.... have her buy her own dildo, one that is hers and hers alone, get a harness and have the third party strap it on and fuck her with that. If it is hers alone, even without a condom, no risk of getting pregnant and as long as she keeps it clean, no to low risk of disease.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 8:50:04 PM

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normally i say this shit is fine as long as you both are into it and have thought the shit through, and that includes weighing the risks of catching the fucking voodoo clap. it also involves you both thinking about shit like that, thinking the whole fucking scenario through and being fucking honest with yourself and each other.

what the fucking fuck man, you went out and got her cunt pumped full of some random fuckers cum, and then freaked out because she had cum in her cunt? did you think it was self cleaning?

if i was her, i would be packed and long fucking gone before you even woke up the next day.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:12:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: nighthawk3569

You want to have your cake and eat it, too. You could try having her douch, when she gets home...or you could restrict her play to oral sex.

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ORIGINAL: AnotherUser

hi all, I hope this is the place to post this

Tonight myself and my sub went out and experienced our first dogging.

It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

Everything was going well, we had a fantastic time, and when he was done fucking her he left and we drove off home on quite a high.

The problem came when we got home, I had her in the lounge and was about to enter her when I noticed his cum leaving her pussy, and it that kind of ruined it for me.

I seem to find the act exciting and although I would have prefered protection, I was on a bigger high when I knew a stranger was cumming inside her, but it kind of ended when when I saw his cum where I was supposed to put my cock.

I have finally got her to sleep after she was in tears trying to make her understand it was nothing she did wrong.

I really wanna do this, the reason we did bareback is because she can't use condoms, she told me when we first met, and we have never used them ourselves.

So, I guess I'm asing for solutions? Is there a option other than condoms? although I loved the idea of her being filled with stranger cum, I would still rather settle with the experience minus the cum.

Until you're ready to act like responsible adults, stop doing adult things that can have dire or fatal consequences.

As DarkSteven said, male and female condoms, dental dams and gloves are available in a variety of materials for those with latex allergies. Use barriers every single time for every single thing involving exchanges of every single bodily fluid other than sweat (even saliva is iffy these days.)

You ask for (safer) options without condoms? Learn to modify play. Your girlfriend could have the outside person use (her own) dildo or a gloved hand in her. She can use her hands, breasts, or any external crook of her body like feet, bend of elbow, knee or armpit to accommodate the guy without a barrier.

There are so many ways to enjoy playing while minimizing or eliminating risk. Why don't the two of you acquaint yourselves with current safe-sex guidelines (which can change frequently), then once you've learned them challenge each other to see who can come up with the most inventive ways to play safely.

Also, good dominants use smoke and mirror techniques to get the effect they want. Learn to make safe magic. There are plenty of harmless tricks out there.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:19:32 PM

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I think the original post showed us all we need to know about the kind of person AnotherUser is. I will assume for the sake of argument that these events actually happened in reality and not just in his sick mind. This person has never posted before, which only decreases the credibility factor. Also, after examining his profile, it appears he joined CM today. Incidentally, he claims to weigh 88 pounds.

Anyway, he took the time to post his grave concern about having had to look at another male's ejaculate in his girl's vajayjay. It was not that he was afraid she might now get pregnant or sick. No, it was just a visual that was uncomfortable for him. What a P.O.S.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:23:00 PM

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It's sad that you let her down this way. Some things are hot in theory and should stay there. I know it's hard to tell when it would be ok to cross the line over from fantasy to reality, but I really can't countenance that you let someone you were supposed to be taking care of go out and willfully expose herself to the shit that's out there in people's bodies. You are her Dominant, not her dry cleaner. Take charge of what is yours to lead and do a good job or get out before you let her get hurt by your stupidity.

How do you select the right guy to screw your gf? Look for someone who doesn't look homeless? Look for someone wearing a red tshirt or yellow socks? If that sounds ridiculous think of how silly it sounds for you to say that you tried to select someone who was disease free based on some odd criteria only known to you that has no basis in reality. Supposedly you're 34, could've fooled me. How is it that you don't know about latex-free condoms or that being a Dominant means taking at least a cursory interest in your sub's well-being?

Go with what the other's have said about taking what it is that excited you and finding a way to replicate it without hanging her out to dry for bodily harm or step aside and let her go. I sincerely hope she dumps your ass for setting her up only to be rejected by you in the end.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:23:12 PM

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what the fucking fuck man, you went out and got her cunt pumped full of some random fuckers cum, and then freaked out because she had cum in her cunt? did you think it was self cleaning?

if i was her, i would be packed and long fucking gone before you even woke up the next day.

This. ^^^^ ALL of it.

WTF!? You take your girl out and have some random jackass fuck her bareback while you watch, because the idea makes you hot. So she did this to make you happy and then you freak out on her because she has his cum in her pussy after you took her out specifically to do it. What did you think, that it would magically disappear?

That's totally fucked up. Not only did you have some random unknown dude fuck her just so you could get your rocks off on the idea, but you exposed her to God only knows WHAT kind of STDs for your own jollies. Then you make her feel worthless and dirty afterward.

Like kalikshama said, Durex, Skyn, and Trojan all make polyisoprene/polyurethane condoms, which are non-latex if she's allergic to latex. I know from experience that Trojan's non-latex condoms are really nice ones.

Way to go fool. Make her do something you want and then make her feel like shit for doing it. Start thinking with the head on your shoulders and not the other one.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:32:02 PM

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It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

Let me see... you know two and only two things about this man:

1) He likes having sex with strangers he knows nothing about
2) He fucks people without a condom without having any evidence they are clean

Really dude, with having nothing but those two pieces of information, I can tell you another thing about him without ever having met him:

He is NOT the right guy to have unprotected sex with....

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:43:46 PM

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How do you select the right guy to screw your gf?

oh fuck, that's easy.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 9:57:01 PM

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Thus ends another episode of "this sounded like a really hot thing to do but when it came right down to it, it totally sucked for me because I really did not think this out clearly and the outcome did not match up to my amped up expectations".

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 10:42:09 PM

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How do you select the right guy to screw your gf?
oh fuck, that's easy.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/22/2011 10:46:06 PM

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hi all, I hope this is the place to post this

Tonight myself and my sub went out and experienced our first dogging.

Does this mean you intend to have future experiences?

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It ended with her doing a guy bareback, I know this may sound dumb, but we discussed it before hand, and did our best to select the right guy, yes I kno, you can never be sure.

It does indeed sound dumb.

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Everything was going well, we had a fantastic time, and when he was done fucking her he left and we drove off home on quite a high.

The problem came when we got home, I had her in the lounge and was about to enter her when I noticed his cum leaving her pussy, and it that kind of ruined it for me.

What did you think was going to happen, you were gonna rub your meat on another guys semen and it was going to give you magic powers? For someone who supposedly thought this through, it seems the only thinking you did was on the fantasy aspect.

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I seem to find the act exciting and although I would have prefered protection, I was on a bigger high when I knew a stranger was cumming inside her, but it kind of ended when when I saw his cum where I was supposed to put my cock.

She has other holes, and besides, you want those magic powers right?

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I have finally got her to sleep after she was in tears trying to make her understand it was nothing she did wrong.

She wasn't crying because she thought she did something wrong. She was crying because you did.

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I really wanna do this, the reason we did bareback is because she can't use condoms, she told me when we first met, and we have never used them ourselves.

Bullshit.

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So, I guess I'm asing for solutions? Is there a option other than condoms? although I loved the idea of her being filled with stranger cum, I would still rather settle with the experience minus the cum.

Get a vasectomy, save the future.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/23/2011 12:45:14 AM

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AnotherUser...I certainly hope you merely wrote this to stroke off to and did not endanger your girlfriend. My nephew has AIDS, my cousin has herpes, and I have had several friends (and I mean FRIENDS, not lovers) who have had genital warts and/or that virus that can give women cancer.

If you have her on the pill, it will not protect her from all this. Years ago I was a dumb ass and had unprotected sex, thank God I was lucky and didn't catch some of the things my friends caught. Unless you want the doctor to be burning or freezing genital warts off your penis (maybe you are a masochist)...

All of this aside...how is she going to trust you enough to do as you tell her...if she cannot trust you to keep her safe? Cannot trust your judgment? Cannot trust you not to reject her afterward and treat her like she is soiled goods...?

If you are not sure how to avoid STDs, go to a free or cheap clinic and ask to be educated. Repair the trust you shattered if you can. See to it that she gets medical care from the STD clinic I mentioned, and deal with any repercussions like a man...even if she also ends up knocked up from this random stranger.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/23/2011 1:36:26 AM

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Agreeing with most of what's been said, though I've seen nothing to suggest this wasn't her fantasy as well.

It takes two to do the act and it seems neither thought it through fully. I know some are allergic to the lubricant on condoms as well, in which case the only real way to go is experimentation with different brands (not an exciting prospect when the risk is of feeling burning senstions for the next day or two) - it does help when you find one though (mates naturals worked for us)

I'd echo the advice of getting tested, and figuring out a safer method of play, reassure your partner any way you can that you still find her desirable.

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RE: bareback dogging - 10/23/2011 1:40:17 AM

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ok, I am actually sitting here with my mouth open wide wondering if you guys read the same post I wrote? I haven't read over all of the replies as I get the jist most of you just jumped on some sort of wagon going in the wrong direction.

I'd think the section of "Health and Safety" would be taken a bit more seriously than the other sections, due to it's purpose, and Id think it was a section people could come for advice.

I say in my original post, we have done it, we know it was the wrong thing to do, yes I know, so why the f^&k are you guys trying to make me realise this? IT'S REALISED!

I also say, I don't want to do it again with the cum, which means, I want an alternative option, yes I may see in hindsight that the title bareback dogging may imply its what I wish to do it like that in further, but I've told you, we chose that option due to the fact she can't use condoms.

Now I've noticed somewhere from your imaginary high throne, you have actually given some useful information, something both of myself and my partner did not know, and are going to look into, is condoms that aren't latex.

This place is supposed to be for advice and help people but with your stupid attitude you could potentially chase away people who you could actually help if you actually just stopped and thought before you typed.

For those of you that's post I didn't read but were infact helpful and to the point, this reply is not directed at you

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