HisPet21
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Medically speaking, herpes isn't a big deal. It won't shorten your life span, cause any physical impairments, or permanently deform you. Herpes boils down to some small, temporary, painful sores that pop up now and again. The only reason a herpes diagnosis should be troubling is that there is a great deal of social stigma attached to diseases we cannot cure, especially if they crop up "down there." Basic, human, gross out factor and nothing more. There are plenty of people who'll turn you down flat simply because you have herpes. That's life, and you need to be up front about it. Those who'll choose to reject you for this reason will do so whether or not you wait to break the news. But there are TONS of people out there who realize that herpes isn't such a big deal and understand that a few simple precautions are all you need to prevent spreading the disease. I don't have the disease, but I've often wondered how I'd feel if I contracted it. I mean, 80% of the population has oral herpes AND you can contract the disease even if your partner is asymptomatic. Am I going to stop letting my partner eat me out just because he may have oral herpes and I could contract it? No, life is too short to live in fear. You got it, but deal with it like any other unfortunate accident and try not to let it get you down.
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