withacherryontop
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ORIGINAL: ETOX123 Hi there, I'm new to this board, though I should have posted something here years ago. I decided to come here because...well...no one else is going to understand this predicament I'm in. Let me start at the beginning. I started messaging a domme on Collarme and we seemed to hit it off. She did not present herself as a financial dominatrix, but when we were ready to meet she suddenly informed me that I would be spending money on her. Then she stated that I would be supporting her. I have long been of the belief that you shouldn't have to pay for your dominant, especially not on the first meeting. Something to note is that I'd sent pictures to her of myself wearing women's attire, and while that was stupid of me, it can't be undone, so let's move past that. Now she has the photos, and she informed me that if I do not submit to her immediately, she will release the photos to my friends and family. This is not a bluff, she demonstrated very well that she has the names of my family members. I finally flat out told her that I wouldn't be blackmailed or bullied into submitting, especially since she decided to resort to it before the first meeting. She claims that she will ruin me socially and professionally, and she will do it within the next few days. As to how she got all of her information, I don't know, but all of it is spot on and I know for a fact that she can destroy me. That said, I have a few questions: 1) How exactly do I deal with this? 2) My family is going to find out that I'm a transgender, what do I say to them? 3) Has anyone else dealt with something like this? Let me know what you think, thanks. 1. Personally, I would call the police right away. You should give them copies of the email. They might be able to trace the email address or arrange a sting of this person. If you give this person money, all that will do is cause her/him to continue to ask for money and threaten to release the photos. 2. You are a cross-dresser, not transgender (which means a sex change operation). If your family or friends end up being sent this photos, personally I'd shrug. Dressing in women's clothes is hardly a terrible taboo these days. Myself, I would just joke to my friends, "Hey, I lost a bet -- same as Sean Connery must have when he wore a kilt to the Academy Awards." Or, if I were feeling more daring, "Oh, geez so I put on women's clothes -- if you really think it's that big a deal and you've never done anything worse I pity your sheltered life."
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