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needlesandpins -> RE: Looks (11/14/2011 4:17:17 PM)
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i haven't read the thread i'm affraid, but i'm only answering from my own point of view.
for myself, i look in the mirror and see nothing special. i guess i have nice shaped lips, my eyes are ok, i've got good hair, i'm more comfortable with my body now than i ever have been, although i'd still like to lose more weight. i look ok with my clothes on i suppose but still, i see nothing special. i've had some wonderful compliments from others, especially from my current playmate. i'm told i get plenty of attention when i'm out-and-about by others, but i don't really take much notice and i've certainly no idea what they are looking at. no matter how i think of myself i still worry what he thinks of me. we went to an adult spa where i got naked in front of loads of people. that is something i would never have done, but i figured that no-one else's opinion of me really mattered because i was there with him and his opinion is all that matters. however, if i were to have to go through the whole 'get naked for a new lover' thing again i'd be just as worried as i've ever been.
as a younger girl i was very shallow about looks and liked the pretty boys. however, i soon found them boring. my friends were shocked with i introduced them to my ex husband as he wasn't my type at all apart from build and height. but there was more about him that i liked and we really got along well. i have found that guys can become more attractive, or repellent depending on what they act like and whether i can talk to them. the prettiest guy will soon lose my interest as far as looks go, but will become exceptionally ugly if he can't string two words together. also i hate vanity and that often goes hand-in-hand with the real pretties.
as for my playmate; i think he's incredably sexy and gorgeous. but then i was being very shallow when looking as i knew i'd have to really fancy someone looks wise to be able to do what we do. it just so happens that he's also intelligent and we like alot of the same things so we can have great conversations. that makes him even more attractive to me.
i think i've answered the questions......i think lol
needles
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