MistressSnow
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From: Santa Monica, CA
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Yourprincess... okay, let me get this straight... you let a guy talk you into something you aren't normally into, let him ply you with begging, talk and manipulation and he finally convinces you to do what he wants. Okay... what part of that is dominant?
As a dominant woman, no man talks me into anything. I question a dominant that allows herself to be drawn into something she doesn't like, thinks is illegal, whatever and then bitches about it because he didn't honor his word... when she didn't honor her self positioning of dominant and being true to self.
I would have cut all ties with him the moment he pushed or sent me any information and would have taken the information and tossed it out and stood my ground rather than servicing, even for money, love or anything else... a guy calling the shots.
Now to dishonor yourself, justify your ability to ruin the guy and forgetting it is still unlawful... just shows a character flaw in my opinion. Add all this together and I must ask... what makes you think you are a dominant?
I 100% percent agree with the posting above. But what first stands out, is the lack of proof of anything. So you have a debit card number, BFD- as you admit you have never tried to use it, how do you know it is active? BTW- do you know how easy it would be for him to claim bank fraud if you did use it? Military ID's can be expired or created. Even photos or camming with "him" in uniform. You can get those at any thrift shop.
This reminds of a story I heard years ago from a psychologist:::::::: Had a patient for several years. Every week we would see each other. During our sessions (nearly all of them) the patient would go on about his girl friend. I will call her Ninny. Patient would exclaim how Ninny was terrible, a bitch, a VERY bad person and so forth. After many years the patient said he was going to break up with Ninny. On to which he asked my opinion of said action. He was very worked up and excited, becoming even difficult to sit in the chair. He finally asked----- 'doctor isn't she a bitch, don't you think I should break up with her. Isn't she the worse person you have ever heard about?' --- response.... I do not know if "ninny" really exists.
OK I butchered that story to hell, but it is one I live with daily. I do not believe any ones BS with having hard facts. And frankly kids, this applies to the OP as well as her "sub pay pig".
I am all about fin-domme. {A relatively new phrase}. Although mine comes from personal interaction. I guess I am just too damn old guard or old skool, to actually want or expect money for sitting on my ass in front of a cam. I will not go on about laziness, and BMI indexes ---- but overall in the larger (pun intended) picture, if the posting is real, you have to just "go with it"- if he sends you the money fine- if not, be gone with your desperate ass. Apply some energy to finding another pay pig. You are spending a lot of time and energy on a wanker I think. I am sure he has spent "your" 1000.00 PLUS many more, on other dommes' $500.00 camming sessions. Do not ever think YOU are the ONLY ONE. Just something to chew on there.
DIRECTLY TO THE OP----- As a an ex pro I can tell you- the wisest set of words you will ever hear: YOU WANT THE MONEY UPFRONT.
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In Leather Dominance,
Mistress Snow
aka
Mistress Snowmonkey
"I used to be snow white, but I drifted."- Mae West
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