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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 1:13:24 PM

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So if you go to a bar to meet women and only the bimbos or girls who are looking for guys to buy them free drinks come up to you, it will also damage men and makes them think all women are like that? Sorry, but I give men a bit more credit than that, if that puts them off and they aren't able to figure out the reality of the internet, good riddance, they're possibly also afraid to move out of mom's basement.

Well, I'm not stupid, I'm not afraid of the world and I don't live in my mum's basement. As you know, Lady C.

On the other hand, when I came to CM, I *was* innocent of most things to do with femdom/malesub. And, till I spoke to some of the femdoms here, I had more than a suspicion that femdoms didn't actually exist - there were just women around who'd do it for money, and nothing else.

Well, what else can I say? That was my experience. I was never going to get scammed because financial transactions have always killed the vibe for me. I guess I should also say that the gannets weren't just young bimbos, they were quite a sizeable percentage of apparently older women, too.

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Come on, most of us here find rather off-putting mails and graphic pics in our CMail, the guys might not ask for money, they just ask for our bodies, for graphic pictures, they ask us to do stuff that most of us have stated as hard limits, but I guess that's alright because they're not asking us for money...

Right - men can be shits as well as women. Perhaps I should have said that before making my point. I thought it went without saying.

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Do you realize how chauvinistic that is? If it's about a guy who *might* get scammed everybody is up in arms and we women should help to prevent it as it damages us too?

Nup. Most threads on that subject go pretty much like this one. 'Boring, boring, boring' etc. I should also add, the OP, like me, never mentioned being scammed, either.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 1:50:37 PM

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It's just so effing boring, it *might* disillusion a bloke = SERIOUS ISSUE, women being objectified by wankers - Business as usual, what's the problem?

Honestly, if guys get scared by the predators and run away: YAY! Good riddance, because they wouldn't be guys for most of us. Most of us have the bar a bit higher and want a guy who doesn't whinge and complain.

You know what those threads are good for? Avoiding the males that start them, and I tell you, most of the guys that start those threads see women as fetish delivery systems and get up in arms about fakes or what they perceive as fakes.

We met in person, I think you can attest to the fact that I am quite real and not a figment of my imagination, you know how often I get told that I am fake? At least twice a week, usually when I tell a guy that I am not interested. I gave up telling guys to read my profile first before asking me for something that I said I explicitly have no interest in, as the usual answer is "Who cares what you want!"

I'm only interested in guys with balls, if they don't have balls enough to deal with the hazards, I seriously don't think it will be a great loss. A bit like the people who declare we are all fakes as they have been on the site for 4 days, weeks or months and still haven't gotten a kinky supermodel who cooks and cleans with special delivery...

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:14:46 PM

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It's just so effing boring, it *might* disillusion a bloke = SERIOUS ISSUE, women being objectified by wankers - Business as usual, what's the problem?

See, that's not been my experience here. If memory serves, the matter of women being objectified by wankers is generally taken seriously and treated with sympathy on these forums. Certainly by myself. I know something about those wanker-mails as a result of taking over LadyNTrainer's secondary profile for a while.

Both are bad things and I've said so often. Buti it's as though you assume that if a man complains about certain women who are acting badly, that must mean he's somehow saying '*all* women are acting badly. Perhaps precisely because they're women'. Therefore, the answer is 'Aha! But men are much worse in other ways"?

Or is it just that to complain of one problem somehow automatically lessens the value of a complaint by someone else about another problem?

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We met in person, I think you can attest to the fact that I am quite real and not a figment of my imagination, you know how often I get told that I am fake? At least twice a week, usually when I tell a guy that I am not interested. I gave up telling guys to read my profile first before asking me for something that I said I explicitly have no interest in, as the usual answer is "Who cares what you want!"

I'm only interested in guys with balls, if they don't have balls enough to deal with the hazards, I seriously don't think it will be a great loss. A bit like the people who declare we are all fakes as they have been on the site for 4 days, weeks or months and still haven't gotten a kinky supermodel who cooks and cleans with special delivery...

Yes, I know that you're not a fake, just as you know that I'm not stupid or 'lack the balls to deal with the hazards'. Unless you're now implying otherwise . . .?

But, to repeat, this hasn't been about 'hazards' - neither I, nor the OP, mentioned being hoodwinked successfully by any of these women (assuming, of course, that they *are* all women).

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:37:56 PM

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I am annoyed by the many girls with their hands out, yes. But if all it takes to scare a man off is a twentysomething gannet, then I don't need that man anyway.

It takes serious cojones to serve me. Someone really interested is going to have the fortitude to wase theough the muck.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:39:12 PM

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Look, I'm just fucking bored with idiots who can't deal with life and who whinge about "fakes" or not getting laid, and all the the rest. If I'm honest, I just think "WANKER" when I read those threads. Something that happens to women daily, we deal with it, guys make a big issue about it, I thought you lot had the balls.

If somebody doesn't have enough common sense, well, tough shit, would I be interested in a guy who needs to be taken by the hand and lead? Hell no, if I want to play nurse maid, I'll volunteer at the local old people home, when it comes to men, I prefer somebody with balls and able to deal with life, a charity case might be nice, but all my pets are rescues so I've done my deal, don't need a guy who's that.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:40:50 PM

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I am annoyed by the many girls with their hands out, yes. But if all it takes to scare a man off is a twentysomething gannet, then I don't need that man anyway.

Yes, but this hasn't been about men being 'scared off', Lady Hib, as I've just pointed out to Lady C.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:42:28 PM

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Look, I'm just fucking bored with idiots who can't deal with life and who whinge about "fakes" or not getting laid, and all the the rest. If I'm honest, I just think "WANKER" when I read those threads. Something that happens to women daily, we deal with it, guys make a big issue about it, I thought you lot had the balls.

If somebody doesn't have enough common sense, well, tough shit, would I be interested in a guy who needs to be taken by the hand and lead? Hell no, if I want to play nurse maid, I'll volunteer at the local old people home, when it comes to men, I prefer somebody with balls and able to deal with life, a charity case might be nice, but all my pets are rescues so I've done my deal, don't need a guy who's that.

Yes, but this hasn't been about a lack of balls, Lady C. It's been about how a certain group of women make themselves look bad.

As for common sense - well, even the best of us can be innocent about some things, and some sorts of people.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:54:10 PM

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Look, I'm just fucking bored with idiots who can't deal with life and who whinge about "fakes" or not getting laid, and all the the rest. If I'm honest, I just think "WANKER" when I read those threads. Something that happens to women daily, we deal with it, guys make a big issue about it, I thought you lot had the balls.

If somebody doesn't have enough common sense, well, tough shit, would I be interested in a guy who needs to be taken by the hand and lead? Hell no, if I want to play nurse maid, I'll volunteer at the local old people home, when it comes to men, I prefer somebody with balls and able to deal with life, a charity case might be nice, but all my pets are rescues so I've done my deal, don't need a guy who's that.

Yes, but this hasn't been about a lack of balls, Lady C. It's been about how a certain group of women make themselves look bad.

As for common sense - well, even the best of us can be innocent about some things, and some sorts of people.

So this group makes themselves look bad, is it my problem or yours? Or is it the problem of some guys lacking cojones? Then as Lady H said, good riddance.

How many threads do you see with guys complaining about fakes/women wanting money/not getting what they want ASAP - you think we fucking care or you think we just laugh and think "Tosser, you're off the list"....

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:55:39 PM

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I thought that was your objection? Because I consider the OP to be another whiner who doesn't know the hide function works.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 3:59:55 PM

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Look, I'm just fucking bored with idiots who can't deal with life and who whinge about "fakes" or not getting laid, and all the the rest. If I'm honest, I just think "WANKER" when I read those threads. Something that happens to women daily, we deal with it, guys make a big issue about it, I thought you lot had the balls.

If somebody doesn't have enough common sense, well, tough shit, would I be interested in a guy who needs to be taken by the hand and lead? Hell no, if I want to play nurse maid, I'll volunteer at the local old people home, when it comes to men, I prefer somebody with balls and able to deal with life, a charity case might be nice, but all my pets are rescues so I've done my deal, don't need a guy who's that.

Yes, but this hasn't been about a lack of balls, Lady C. It's been about how a certain group of women make themselves look bad.

As for common sense - well, even the best of us can be innocent about some things, and some sorts of people.

So this group makes themselves look bad, is it my problem or yours? Or is it the problem of some guys lacking cojones? Then as Lady H said, good riddance.

Nope, it wasn't about this OP lacking cojones. He was complaining about hands-out gannets and about how bad they look, just as you've complained about wankers and how bad they look. Pretty much dead equal on both sides, regarding cojones, or lack thereof.

I think you're chronically miscasting the issue here, Lady C. I'm not sure why.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 4:02:45 PM

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I thought that was your objection? Because I consider the OP to be another whiner who doesn't know the hide function works.

*My* objection has been mostly about it being a depressing thing. Like I said, I'd often suspected that femdoms didn't really exist, that there were only women prepared to act it, in order to get a bob or two.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 4:20:45 PM

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Nope, it wasn't about this OP lacking cojones. He was complaining about hands-out gannets and about how bad they look, just as you've complained about wankers and how bad they look. Pretty much dead equal on both sides, regarding cojones, or lack thereof.

I think you're chronically miscasting the issue here, Lady C. I'm not sure why.

Really? Do I start a threat about it every other week? Most of us don't but guys do complain regularly and constantly about what they consider fakes, it almost makes me wish for more fakes if it gets rid of some spineless guys.

I'm not miscasting, I am simply sick and tired of complaining wankers who think because they signed up they can complain about everything and should get a fetish delivery system within days, especially one that cooks and cleans as well.

No, sorry, no sympathy for guys who can't stand the heat, they should just get the fuck out of the kitchen, or actually go to a munch and meet people!

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 4:23:57 PM

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Lady C - to yourself and Lady Hib - I don't think we're communicating here. I'm going to take myself off this thread at this point.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 4:51:55 PM

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I just hope all the "fake" and "I can't get laid, not even on a kink site, so the site must be shite/all of you are fake" posts will disappear, not likely but I can hope.

If the fakes and what not discourage the lily livered boys in mom's basement or the steady complainers who thought about BDSM a lot but never tried it from posting here, I might actually send them some money myself as they would be doing a good deed.

Amazing how guys can't deal with using common sense on this site try to tell everybody how the site should be run, DUHHHHH....

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 5:03:12 PM

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Right. There are a million guys, several of whom show up every single day wanting free wank material. (or looking for girls who just wanna be fucked by any guy with a dick!)
We don't make threads about it because well, it wouldn't change anything.
Heck, we make fun of them over, and over, and over, and they still keep coming. (wishing they were cumming)
Yes, they look bad. Yes, women who think all men are their personal piggy banks look bad. (though since I make my living as a fin-dom...I can't say too too much...)
But complaining about it helps nothing.
The wankers gonna wank, the money girls are gonna have their hands out.
If you're not interested, either ignore it, or laugh about it.

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 5:06:08 PM

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RE: Wannabe Dommes - 12/2/2011 9:10:17 PM

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How sad to see so many profiles from women who claim to be dominant calling submissive men "losers", "worthless pigs" and the like, taking photos of themselves flipping off the camera or posing with an array of twenty dollar bills. Most of these posts are by young girls barely in their twenties. Ladies, if you have any sense of decency, think hard about how you portray yourself in your profile. A true submissive male thinks less than zero about the "women" who post profiles like these.

Bud, the reason there are 12 and a half kabillion nekkid wimmens magazines to every one for nekkid mens magazines ought to give you a clue.

They (clues) are nominally inexpensive.

I recommend you purchase one.

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