hausboy
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Hi LadyC I don't have any expertise in organ transplants, but can at least offer some tips for post-surg that apply to just general living... in no particular order... Follow all directions to the letter...especially dietary ones. So if his/her instructions say...no salt...or no raw greens...or no potassium...whatever.... don't tempt fate! follow them. I was able to eat without any restrictions post-surgery (not an organ transplant, mind you!) but what I found was that toileting after surgery was tedious, painful (every moment, every muscle caused my incision to hurt) and challenging. Not to be graphic, but my first 48 hrs, I needed assistance with certain rather private tasks. (I'll leave it at that) So for me, that meant that I ate foods the first few days that didn't have me going to the bathroom more than normal. I didn't have a lot nausea post-surgery, but I know a lot who did, and so they told me to have jello, ginger ale, crackers--things that were more "agreeable"--nearby in my room. I definitely did a lot of ice chips afterwards--I woke up extremely thirsty and dehydrated. Surgical sutures can take awhile to heal. Abdominal incisions can take a particularly long time, so remind your friend to take it easy and be patient. Avoid stretching/bending. Sneezing and coughing were a BIG problem, I'm sure his/her doc will show them, but I had to have a pillow near me ALL the time in case I sneezed/coughed, and had to place it against my chest. Ahead of time, I bought one of those "grabbing hooks" where you squeeze the handle and it picks things up for you. Fantastic--I used it to tie my shoes, pick up dropped items (light ones), grab my cup for drinking, etc. Prevented any stretching. Along those same lines.... I made sure anything up high was moved down low BEFORE the surgery, I made sure my home was "surgery" ready so that when I got home, I wouldn't have to navigate any clutter, my shoes/clothes were ready and places low so I could get them, and any items that I would need regularly, I had out and ready. (toothpaste, toothbrush, cups, dish etc.) I bought food, water, comfort items, medications from the pharmacy...ALL ahead of time, so that post-surg I could just focus on getting better, and not have to run errands or ask others to run them for me. Bendy straws. Little thing, big difference. I had a box of bendable straws near the bed, this allowed me to drink from a cup, can, bottle etc. without having to raise my arms, bend, stretch etc. a true lifesaver! Comfy pants like pj's and sweats were also a godsend...nothing tight or constricting, and I only wore shirts that buttoned and were loose fitting. Trying to put a t-shirt on after a major surgery is no picnic. last: support! having friends and acquaintances who went through a similar surgery was incredible helpful and reassuring. I still called my surgeon if there was any medical issue, but just talking to others who had been there was a huge help. good luck and I hope your friend is recovering soon!
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