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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 3:49:39 PM   
WingedMedusa


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OMG...this is HYSTERICAL!  Thanks genvieve for sharing this.  It made my day!
 
If a dom handed this to me, I would just look at him, roll my eyes and say, "Yeah, right, big boy.  Now lick my feet."  Really...if he has to have that many rules for you to follow, he really can't be a dom.  Just maybe someone with OCD and a good fantasy.

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 3:53:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

I'm scrubbing the toilet. I mean, generally, I'm already bent over.. so is that good enough or should I be wiggling or something?

Celeste


LMAO, Bita.. I was just going to post the same thing.
I have about a hundred questions on how to be seductive and enticing while doing mundane chores.

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 3:53:49 PM   
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70. My life is empty without a Master to please.


So the first 45 years of my life were a total waste.....who knew????

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:03:09 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alixandria

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I've seen this list of 128 rules of submission of a female slave floating around. 

Oh damn, I really thought it was a mere 126 rules.

OK, genvieve, your task for the evening is to find the missing *three* rules.  I'd do it, but I have a serious database project for work (or alternatively, to lie down and listen to a mystery audiobook sooth me out of a sinus thing).

Alix



I might be able to help.  On the list I received, a few of the missing ones seem to be included.  Unfortunately, I don't think I can stomach combing through them to try to figure out which ones are duplicated.  *shrugs*  Sorry.

1) i submit to the will of my Master and am bound to Him.  i accept his authority over me for my purpose is to serve, obey and please my Master.  my submission is complete and i will have only one Master.  i am His property to be managed and controlled in any manner He wishes or that is beneficial to my training.  After a period of training i will continue to advance and desire to become more useful to Him.

2) i am responsible for answering each and every e-mail sent to me by my Master and when not in his presence,  i will send Him at least one e-mail or contact Him each and every day.

3) To receive pleasure i must earn it.  i must always give thanks to my Master for all i am given immediately after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him this includes punishment and discipline that i may receive.

4) i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Master and will respond quickly to all orders given if they require an immediate response.

5) i trust my Master and know His concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health.

6)  i must be both specific and explicit in my speech. i will give complete and accurate answers to each and every question that my Master asks of me.

7) i will work hard to give my Master control and turn my will over to Him. i know this is my duty as His slave and i desire to serve and please Him by doing so.  During training, my Master will establish goals for me and I am responsible for the completion of these goals.  i will inform my Master if i am not motivated to accomplish the goals.  i am responsible for insuring that i understand the goals and may ask questions to insure i understand them.

8) i am always in submission to my Master whether He is present or not, ready to please Him at anytime, in any place, under any circumstances, regardless of who may be present.  His pleasure is more important than my discomfort.

9) When i am not in the presence of my Master and i have choices to make - i will perform them to the best of my abilities and within the boundaries and guidance He has allowed me.  If someone speaks ill of my master, i will defend Him and report this to my Master immediately.

10) The opportunity to please my Master is very important to me and i will take every chance to seek out such opportunities to do so.  my greatest felt satisfaction is realized when i know i have pleased my Master.  There can be no greater pain or suffering i can feel than When my Master is not pleased with me.  i will accept the guidance i will need to be put back on track so that i will be forgiven and once again be pleasing to Him.

11) i will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me to the  best of my abilities and will take such positions When required and display myself through them .
12) i must never reach orgasm without explicit permission from my Master.  My failure to receive permission before cumming will cause me to endure the punishment Master will put upon me.  Such pleasure must be seen as a privilege so that i do not take advantage of it.  i am to undergo intense pussy training so that my pussy will better serve the needs of my Master.

13) i will never touch my breasts, nipples, pussy or clit with my hands or sex toys in any manner where i could experience sexual or sensual pleasure without permission from my Master.

14) When i have been given permission to play with myself i shall do so in the following manner: working my clit almost to an orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, then working it again to almost at orgasm and then stopping for a few minutes, and then finally working it again to a full orgasm.  Then and only then shall i enjoy an orgasm on my own.  Should i cum before the third tier – I will tell my Master so i may be punished.  i will play with myself in this manner even in His presence.

15) I am fully owned and have no limts but i have been given at least one safeword only to be used under the conditions provided by my Master. Misuses of me safeword or words is considered profanity as it would be to question the knowledge, ability or desire of my Master and might cause Him to be displeased. i trust my Master completely and He alone controls my mind, body and spirit.

16) i fully give myself to punishment when deemed necessary by my Master.  i must remember that punishment could never be very effective if i were able to control it and i must take punishment in full measure so that i will focus on the correction of  my behavior for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what i will want again.  i should know better.

17) i must confess to my Master when i have been naughty so that He may decide if such violations require me to be disciplined or to be punished.  i  must accept whatever decisions He makes by thanking Him for His choice.  If i am disciplined or punished.  i must focus upon how sorry I am for not  behaving in the way that i have been taught - for i have displayed an unacceptable act which is displeasing to Him.  i must remember to thank my Master for my punishment.

18) my Master is in complete charge of my sexual desires and i wish that He mold them in a way that is most pleasing to Him.   i am a sexual and sensual being and my entire body is to be available for my Master to use in any way that pleases Him at all times.

19) i will endure whatever discipline or punishment my Master gives me so i can become a better slave for Him. i will work on building up my tolerances to the level my Master needs me to have, so that i may be able to increase my value to Him.

20) i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Master.  i must remember that how well i behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am - a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Master who truly understands my needs in relationship to His own.

21) The needs of my Master must always come first before mine own for they offer an opportunity to please Him.   i must be attentive to the needs of my Master and always be ready to respond to them to the best of my abilities and in the way He has shown me.

22) i am allowed and expected to suggest ways to further my training or use of me, verbally or through my journal, as long as i address my Master properly first.  i know that i can make no demands or place limits on my Master's authority.   i can give Him no orders. i know that attempts, by me, to limit His power, control or status as a Master would lead to punishment.   i know that my Master has the right to do with me as He chooses.

23) i must always respond fully both physically and verbally to whatever my Master does with me.  The expressions of my emotions and my physical responses are important to Him.  i must never hold back any part of their display, regardless of how intense they may be, unless instructed to do so.

24) my health is important to my Master.  i will eat properly.  i want to be healthy and of sound mind and body, and always pleasing my Master.  i can not refuse my Master's decision that i seek medical attention, if so ordered.  If placed on a diet by my Master,  i will obey His decisions as to my method of weight loss and make routine reports to His as to my progress.  After losing the weight my Master requires i will maintain the weight that pleases Him.

25) i will always listen with a strong interest in whatever my Master has to say during my training.  i want to learn all that i can from Him.   i expect my Master to pull me deeper into this service for his pleasure

26) i will not date others, have any form of sexual relations with others or form a relationship with others without permission from or at the direction of my Master.  I will not communicate with other Masters without my Master's permission.  This includes in person, telephone, or e-mail. I will report all contact or forward all e-mails no matter the content directly and quickly to my Master.

27)  Punishment Rules:
i know my Master has the right to discipline or punish me any time He wishes for any violation.  i will submit to any discipline or punishment my Master sees fit.  i know that i will be punished or disciplined for violations of the rule, both written and oral, in order to correct my behavior and to insure He finds me pleasing.  The punishment will fit the violation that i have committed.  my Master shall determine how and when and where i am to receive this punishment.  i know that as a standard i will be punished for the following reason:
1) cumming without permission,
2) taking a Master, boyfriend or slave without permission,
3) talking back to my Master in a way that shows rebellion,
4) willful failure to serve, obey and please,
5) attempting to force my dominant side upon my Master
6) attempting to get out of and contract,
7) major violations involving - safety of a serious and or dangerous nature, and violations of law.

i have the right to plead for a lesser punishment, but my Master is under no obligation to grant a lesser punishment.

28) When told to perform a duty for my Master, i will do so without delay or question unless i do not understand the meaning of the order. i may seek clarification of any order from my Master.  This is not to be interpreted as a means of arguing are disagreeing with my orders.

29) i have no right to control a scene but instead work to transfer my pain unto His pleasure.

30) i will always show respect for my Master.  i will find ways to serve and please Him and show my worth as a slave.  If i displease my Master i desire that He inform me so that i can correct my actions.  i am responsible for all words that I speak.  i will not question my Master's authority over this slave.

31) i know that being stubborn could be displeasing to my Master if incorrectly used.  i will not displease Him by being stubborn.

32) Any feeling of anger, mistrust, or other counter productive emotions will be expressed to my Master in order that He may find a way to correct these feelings.  It is my duty to do so.

33)  i worship my Master.  i worship my Master's whip, respect my Master's right to use it for His pleasure and my punishment.

34) my mouth is for my Masters pleasure.  i will learn that:
a) my mouth will be used as my Master wishes for His pleasure.
b) i will work hard to provide complete pleasure with my mouth. When my Masters dick is put into my mouth and i am directed to suck it - i will do so  as long as i am required to do so.  When told to, my hands shall be placed on the tops of my thighs, behind my neck or Held at the base of my back so that during the sucking i can use my whole body to display my hunger to my Master.  i will not restrict my Master view of me.
c) i worship my Master's dick, its head and its shaft, especially when it is hard or when i am given the opportunity to make it hard for Him
d) my Master's cum must never go to waste - i will swallow His cum as it is a gift and honor to receive it.

35) i must always wear revealing and sexy clothing selected by my Master unless given permission to do otherwise.  The clothing i wear will allow easy access to my pussy, ass and breasts. my basic attire in the presence of my Master shall consist of a collar and my highest Heels.  i must never be concerned when I feel too much of my flesh is showing, however I can ask my Master for direction as to how to handle my discomfort. i am to wear a dress or skirt without panties in most cases around my Master.  i must remove all of my clothing in the way i have been taught when my Master commands of me to do so.  I must sleep in clothing of His choosing and wear His collar at all times.

36) my legs, underarms and pussy must be kept completely shaved smooth and clean so that nothing of me is hidden from view.   my hair must be kept in a manner that is pleasing to my Master.

37) Whenever Master speaks, even when i am speaking, i am to immediately become silent.   i must never interrupt Him unless He has shown me how to communicate with Him. This rule does not apply in an emergency.   i will listen each and every time my Master speaks so i can learn or receive His  orders.

38) Only through submission can i find my true self.  my life becomes complete pleasing and serving  my Master.  Only in complete submission to my Master shall i realize the depth of the love i have within and i will learn to freely express it.

39) i may, at times, offer various parts of my body to my Master in hopes He will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways He wishes.  my only hope will be that my offering will please Him.  If not, i want Him to punish me.

40) i must always remember how pleased my Master is when i think of myself as sexy and showing off my assets.  my behavior must always display a sexual content however subtle.  i am expected to learn how to feel and be happy.  When i walk, run, sit, stand, kneel, reach out, speak, or listen – I will do so in a  manner pleasing to my Master

41) my Master may use me as He wishes.  I know that my Master is training me so that i may be of long-term service to Him. my Master wishes that I learn completely how to serve Him so that i will bring more joy to Him.  my Master receives joy from my devotion and my letting myself go and feeling close to Him.  my Master has not accepted me for short term training.   i am to accept my training as training for continuous and long term service.   my training will involve behavioral modification, cognitive changes, improvements in self-image and emotions.   my Master may hypnotize me when and where he desires as part of my training.

42) if and When sent to serve others, i will do so in a way that is pleasing to my Master in complete obedience of the orders i receive using only the guidelines, limitations or restrictions He imposes and not my own.  i will always provide my Master with a full report of my service of others and beg that they also report of my service in the hope it is pleasing to my Master.

43) i am to focus on my service and obedience and accept the fact that i am being trained for continued and lasting pleasure to my Master.  The more i learn and strive to please my Master the more pleased He is with me.  i am not expected to misbehave to get attention.  i am expected to learn how to serve and obey.

44) If i am wearing a dress or skirt and no panties and i am going to sit down - i must sit on my bare skin in private or in a vehicle unless told otherwise

45) i will learn how i am to act in the "slave", "service" and "at ease" modes.  These modes are given to me by my Master to show me how i will act at all times and I will please Him by obeying His modes.

46) When possible i will place myself on my Masters right side while sitting at His feet or walking in public or private.  i will not walk in front of my Master, unless directed to do so. When walking,  i will heel to my Masters right side.

47) No rule can be disobeyed or delayed without risk of discipline or punishment regardless how it impacts my natural family or friends, as i serve only to please my Master..   If for any reason i can't comply with certain rules, i will report all details as soon as possible to my Master.  my Master expects me to obey all His orders and rules at all times, and i realize that i am only relieved of punishment if my disobeying or delaying is found by my Master to be justified. His decision is final.

48) i am responsible for maintaining a current list of these rules and all other material provided for my training.  i know that after training i am to still maintain and study these rules that will be used as a basis to govern me over a long term period.  i am not expected to memorize these rules, however i am expected to study them and know them and abide by them.   Each rule may have more than one meaning, depending on the topic and i will know all meanings as provided by my Master.  The final determination as to the meaning of each and every rule, regulation, and/or guideline, punishment, and the contract will be determined by my Master.  my Master is the supreme authority as to their meaning.  i will yield to and obey this authority.

49)  my purpose is to serve, obey , please and to submit to the will of my master,   i fully know that i am owned by my Master but i have no ownership of him.   He may freely own and train other slaves for his pleasure and may if he wishes use me with them.   i have absolutely no right of refusal to my Master at any time or place or for any reason.

Edited to add:

*snorts*  A couple of items jump out at me...

Regarding #20... how does ones strive to become something that they already are?

And #29?   I'd like to see a medical or scientific explanation on just how this is done...



< Message edited by losttreasure -- 5/28/2006 4:11:28 PM >

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:25:05 PM   
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Female Slave Rules
1. Assume the kneeling position, 
... to
125. I will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me.

WHAT A LOAD OF CRAP!  Totally the product of a masturbatory frenzy by someone who probably has a reading list limited to John Norman & the social skills that would be backwards compared to the Jr High School chess club. 

Hey ... but what do I know ... I've only been doing this for 38 yrs.



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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:36:20 PM   
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-rolls on the floor laughing muh ass off-  i'm glad Y/ya'll enjoyed them

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:40:13 PM   
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1. We do not talk about slave club.
2. we do not talk about slave club.

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:40:53 PM   
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Ya know, I wish a Mistress would hand me this list.  I would LOVE it!

Sorry, Mistress, I don't know the rules.  OW!

Sorry, Mistress, I forgot to obey Your modes (#45)  OW!

Sorry, Mistress, I didn't repeat them in the car.  OW!

Sorry, Mistress, I don't have my audio recorder.  OW!

Sorry, Mistress.....

If I find the right sadistic Mistress, I may just have to suggest this thing!

Yours,


benji

Edited to add:  If someone finds the 128 list, i would love that one.  3 more beatings a day without repeating crimes.

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:44:40 PM   
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Dear BitaTruble, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Dear lass, as beautiful as you appear in your photograph icon, you are beautiful in any position I'm sure.
 
I have found those in doing tasks of service beautiful...
 
I cannot speak for the author of these many rules though.  Hollywood has made "Lucy" look sexy in many ways doing the most mundane of things.
Perhaps this is the assumption of the rule #109.  Perhaps the man thinks a bent over woman is enticing the use of her.  Hopefully the stilettos don't poke him in the manhood without a 'nut bra' to lift them out of harms way.
I'd be sure the slave was equipped with a velvet or satin kneeling cushion to spare the lass' knees as she scrubs.  Perhaps her stilettos have protection from scuffing across the tile floors and such.  [Tally the expense of replacement of all the expensive additions to "molly maids."]
 
Respectfully submitted with a tad of humor,
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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:49:22 PM   
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-giggles softly as i read this-

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 4:52:14 PM   
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LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL

I didn't even make it to the rules...

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 5:03:01 PM   
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ROFLMAO!!!
 
I've seen this list a few times, now, and I always want to email the guy posting them and say, "Yeah... OK... and how's that workin' for ya skippy?"
 
#87 still cracks me up! 

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 5:10:44 PM   
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#87... Ewwwewewewwww!

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 5:19:57 PM   
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* I'm going to play devil's advocate here. *
I'm betting that I could sit down and come up with 126 rules of my household. I'm pretty sure I could think of at least 126 different things I've taught, I disallow, I insist upon, etc... It would start something like this:
1. No drugs.
2. No alcohol.
3. Put the damn seat back down after you pee.
and on and on until I got to 126.
Although it's hard to believe that I could hand this list to someone and they could memorize it in 3 days flat, it's not impossible. When I was taking Constitutional Law, I had a stack of over 400 index cards with court cases, and shocked the hell out of myself that I had them memorized within a week. (I could probably even still quote at least 3, lol) We can generally do what we set our minds to accomplish. It's not unrealistic to expect that those in someone's home will learn and comply with their rules. Someone enthused about doing so, will do so more quickly.

Do I think some of those rules were unrealistic? Absolutely. I also found some of them redundant to the point that the list is probably really only about 80 rules just worded several times in different ways. I thought some of the rules were pretty stupid, shallow, superficial, and laughable.
But...
they aren't my rules and it's not my household, and it's not my relationship.

I've been to the best slave training site and like anything else, I took what I liked and discarded the rest. I don't know really that anything from that site sticks out in my mind. But if there was something I hadn't thought of, that would have applied well for me and mine to try, I probably tried it, and scrolled over the 126 rules without even reading them. Maybe someone wandering around out there saw these rules and said "Hot damn! I can apply 18 of those to my relationship and really spice things up!"

I do not know the person or people who came up with the rules. Maybe those rules work real well for them. Maybe they have a hell of a fun time trying to implement them. Maybe it really turned the gal on and made her smile to lay there naked, ass in the air, reading them each day. Maybe it's a hoot for her to shake her tail feathers while she scrubs his toilet.
If they like what they are doing, and it works for them, and in the process gives other people a few ideas to try, I think its fantastic.


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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 5:20:16 PM   
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I always want to email the guy posting them and say, "Yeah... OK... and how's that workin' for ya skippy?"

:-)  Perfectly put!



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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 5:43:06 PM   
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Oh another one of those things that makes one shake their head and go hummmm.  

 

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 6:19:09 PM   
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I was reading over these (excessive) rules aloud to my slave boy and shaking my head in total consternation about the massive amount of time that Master Eno (who is origionally supposedly credited for the 126 rules) must have had on his hands (in his hands?) that he came up with this . . ..

when my little slave boy commented that he rather agreed with benji and that the list seemed rather hot to him.  I suggested that a few interested parties could always help me revise them for boys and see how long he could ACTUALLY live with them, expecting him to fall to his knees and tell me he was kidding.  He laughed in what I could only qualify as hope and joy.   Anyone want to lay odds on how long he'll last???? Anyone wanna lay odds on how long I'll last? Then again, he's a greedy, masochistic little slut so after about a week I'll probably be screaming "enough, I can't remember all this shit!!!!"  and he'll be sitting at my feet with that mischieveous smile on his face saying "mistress, I broke rule # _____ again" LOL 

Although in complete seriousness I have to agree with Proprietrix.  I do have a number of preferences and rules in my household.  If I sat down and actually wrote down the ones that I teach to my boys a little at a time I could probably come up with quite a good list. 

Miz Tigger





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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 7:12:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

#87... Ewwwewewewwww!



i'm with You on this one Loki, for sure...
 
However... i agree with Proprietrix... *if they like what they are doing, and it works for them, and in the process gives other people a few ideas to try, I think its fantastic* 
 
i dont think i could remember a list of rules to such an exagerated extent, no matter how keen i was or how hard i tried... maybe whoever this *master* is who wrote them, has done so with the aim of his slave failing? Maybe, he wants to have to punish her for failing... not a nice thing, i know... but entirely possible.
 
some of these rules i like, i mean REALLY like ... but i think fantasy aside... we have to be realistic what will actually work in everyday life for the relationship we are in... no matter what it is we may fantasize about...
 
tali

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 7:54:03 PM   
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::reads the first 5 and starts laughing hands the Dom a mirror:: any"Dom" who gave me that has far to much time on His hands and way to full of Himself to even concider...

Sorry i live in the real world and as much as i am a nympho there are times when i dont really feel like being sexual..

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RE: Laundry List Rules - 5/28/2006 8:31:49 PM   
Padriag


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Ah... these again.  I think the first time I saw this set of rules was 8 or 9 years ago, they've been floating around quite awhile (a reminder that once something is on the net, its there forever).  Funny part is, in all that time I've never read the whole thing!  I imagine most submissives have a similar reaction.

Having rules is, in my opinion, a good thing... so are protocols.  I think most who live this lifestyle as part of their day to day relationship probably have more rules than they realize, particularly if they have been doing it for a few years.  But lists of rules like this presented to a submissive rarely work, its overwhelming.

Setting aside what I think of some of the rules on the list... for a dominant to come up with and write down the rules they want to use is a good idea.  Maybe a list like this can serve as a springboard (with a large dash of common sense thrown in).  But, group them into sets and keep each set a manageable number.  Try memorizing them yourself first, if you can't do it, don't expect the submissive to do so.  Set up some training sessions with each set of rules, in which the submissive must actually practice them by doing.  Most people learn far better by doing than by simply reading.  Besides which, there is a difference between knowing a list of rules, and actually being able to perform them... memorization isn't enough.

So to sum up, what do I think of the list... bad presentation of a good idea, with some poorly thought out rules included.  As for using rules and protocols themselves, I think they're a useful tool for establishing expectations and boundaries, which in turn is useful in creating structure in a relationship.  Just keep it manageable, sensible and realistic.

An that's my two bit on it.

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A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

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