LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel Yes be careful of identity fraud, do NOT give her the paperwork, redact your personal information such as ss#, address, DOB etc. If he's going to give it to her, I agree he should redact everything. However, then she can say, "how do I even know this is you?" Frankly, as others have said, this is a first meeting. Asking someone you are meeting for the first time for a criminal background check tells me they have trust issues from the start. I have never done a background search on anyone I know, even when I worked for the DOC in Florida and had access to the information. OP, is she also bringing you HER criminal background check? Yea, this is D/s, not always a quid pro quo type of relationship, but you are not in a relationship, just meeting. Tell her you want to see hers as well, and see what she says. If she gives you the "I'm the dominant, I don't have to" line of shit? Walk.
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