And, I promise this is my last post on this, I hate to say it, but anyone who listens to or has heard Brittany Spears can tell you half her songs are all about being someone's Bratty Little and being punished.(Hit me baby, one more time... ka duh)
Also Criminal by Fiona Apple sounds alot like someone's Newbie Domme is questioning herself for the right reasons and might be a Switch after all.
I'd also say Garbage- Queerest of the Queer speaks strongly to those who are afraid to participate in D/s but desire to do so, 'You're hungry 'cause you starve while holding back your tears,' um yeah that's about right if you're flexible on the meaning of 'starve' and it talks about incest too, something about 'just like your father did' if I recall.
I have to stop now, I had seventeen lists of D/s music to play by tempo and mood in an old Ipod
I could give you two pages that I put together just for a friend with a vamp fetish and half of those talk about restraining a girl or holding her down for seduction purposes. (not my thing, vamps, but hey, music is music and I love it) The list Starts with Concrete Blonde's Bloodletting... so... yeah, must stop monologue about music... damn you all, it's a favorite topic! ((chuckle))