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MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/28/2011 12:49:03 AM)
Do me a favor... while he's sleeping, shove a MONSTER dildo up his ass -- I'm curious if he'll reciprocate here as well... that is, after he finishes digging his fingers out of the mattress, anyway?!! [8D]

LafayetteLady -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/28/2011 9:19:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic it only takes once, you can only die once having a death wish isnt new, you are not being original. or smart, or clever or even very surprising. you just want your yucks and theres nothin wrong with killing yourself, just dont include a partner in your selfishness Domme, you arent....... just a careless thrill seeker. You will learn I hope you make it thru without permanent harm to your mind She's 32, not 22. She isn't going to learn and she will eventually pay the price. It's not even worth the effort to try to teach her some sense. The day I stop learning and "evolving" and changing to the data I find important is the day I shove this mortal coil...Ive changed my ways a great many times since I was 32. That is the kind of childish denseness that people grow out of before they are 25. At 32, still acting like a child, sense is likely never to come. Some people never evolve.

FrostedFlake -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/29/2011 12:15:10 AM)
quote: I asked him to slap me and he flat out refused. So I stunned him by slapping him hard. He didn't dare hitting me back at first but after a series of hard slaps, he was activated. And he totally got it too. Couldn't get enough of it. Made me wince once. Yeah. Well, what everyone said. quote: Is this a good way to lure a guy into slapping? Lure? Did you say lure? Lure? Is lure the right word to use, here? quote: or is it dangerous? I'd be poking a sleeping lion? Clearly, you get it. quote: Do you think I have a domme streak for slapping a guy like this and initiating things? No. I think you were very, very rude. And dumb. quote: Subs wouldn't do this sorta thing? Ah, Ha-ha-ha-ha-Ha, no. quote: How would you gentlemen feel if this happened to you? http://edge.darkgrove.com/photos/876477p05.jpg quote: And ladies, how do you talk someone into slapping you? I am not a lady, but my suggestion is to ask very nicely. Manners often make getting what you want easier, or possible. There is also the idea of asking for something that you CAN have. It is interesting that assault and battery makes more sense to you than, for example, stepping up real close and saying something like, "Well then, how about a real nice spanking?" If you had done that, how do you suppose it would have gone? As an aside. I'm 49. Been to Hell on a tourist visa. Studied Tae Kwon Do under one of the best in the World. Fired a weapon more than 50,000 times. And not shy about breaking the law. In all the time, in all the places, doing all the things, I have never been accused of what you have admitted. But there have been occasions on which I have badly injured people just like you. Just sayin'.

MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/29/2011 4:58:25 AM)
Don´t you just love it when someone throws a hissy fit because they don´t hear what they want to hear. OP, are you capable of introspection? Does it not tell you something that no posters have supported your behaviour? Now, I´ll put your toys back in your pram for you, so you can go away, grow up a bit, learn that respect is every bit as important in the BDSM world as in the vanilla one, and that it´s not ok to risk getting some poor guy arrested for assault or to play silly little manipulative games.

Ninebelowzero -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/29/2011 5:03:33 AM)
What Frosted Flake said. Good call.

Fetters4U -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/29/2011 6:02:15 AM)
Hey, I got out of my car at the local safari park and tried to get one of the lionesses to eat me. She was fat and well fed, so at first she was not interested. Then I slapped her. She was shocked at first, but after I slapped her a few times she got into it. She smacked me with a paw and was soon chewing on my leg. It was marvelous.

MissValerie77 -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 5:20:37 AM)
There are alot of dangerous people in this lifestyle. I don't recommend that way of going about getting slapped like you want. I would wait until you know and trust someone very well....emphasis on....very well. Then...I'd tell the person you like to be slapped. If they don't want to slap you...drop it. If they do want to slap you...make your limits known. Some crazies will take that as an open door to beating you or worse. I'm telling you...this is a very dangerous world we play in. You could have charges pressed on you too at the least. Personally..I don't like being slapped, so I don't talk anyone into slapping me. I do think you have a definite domme streak in you yes...I'm almost sure of it. You should explore that. There's good dommes though and there are bad dommes. No....a good sub should never do that.

Fornica -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 6:03:59 AM)
Really? I'd have to strongly disagree. A Domme firstly has control of herself, which the OP doesn't show a trace of. quote: ORIGINAL: MissValerie77 I do think you have a definite domme streak in you yes...I'm almost sure of it. You should explore that. [/font][/size]

MissValerie77 -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 6:11:05 AM)
Yeah..I do believe she honestly does have a domme streak in her. I think she's just new to this and inexperienced. She doesn't sound like she's really sure about what she's doing entirely or how to get what she wants. I think she tried to provoke him to get what she wanted because she didn't know how to get what she wanted from him. He wasn't into it though, but he may have considered it down the line if a more seasoned sub had approached him in a different manner. Not a sudden "Whap!"

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 6:18:32 AM)
Hitting someone in and of itself does not make you dominant, that is something else entirely. To smack someone full whack to provoke a response is just very foolish. You could have ended up in a far worse situation than you did.

Fornica -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 6:27:03 AM)
I'm genuinely curious how this translates to being dominant? quote: ORIGINAL: MissValerie77 Yeah..I do believe she honestly does have a domme streak in her. I think she's just new to this and inexperienced. She doesn't sound like she's really sure about what she's doing entirely or how to get what she wants. I think she tried to provoke him to get what she wanted because she didn't know how to get what she wanted from him. He wasn't into it though, but he may have considered it down the line if a more seasoned sub had approached him in a different manner. Not a sudden "Whap!"

Delilya -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 6:43:30 AM)
Me too Fornica. I'm not dominant just because I go around slapping people who don't want to slap me. I am however confused how that makes you one.

searching4mysir -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 9:03:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissValerie77 I think she tried to provoke him to get what she wanted because she didn't know how to get what she wanted from him. That is neither domme nor sub. That's being a spoiled bint. The fact is that she didn't respect him or his limits or it never would have happened. He said no when she asked, so that makes it battery (a crime), not rough sex play or BDSM.

drummer687 -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 9:30:46 AM)
quote: Get a life people. I seriously don't get this level of rage and anger on someone else's silly story. I agree and let me be (apparently) the first to say "good for you". You wanted something, took a chance and got it. Not sure how I would have reacted in my vanilla days...can't even relate anymore. But now, I would see that as an invitation to do just about anything to you. I would have given you plenty of abuse back - for a good long time. lol

tazzygirl -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 10:24:05 AM)
So nonconsent is what you are into... good to know drummer [;)]

slaverachel2Him -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 10:39:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lalleee I asked him to slap me and he flat out refused. So I stunned him by slapping him hard. He didn't dare hitting me back at first but after a series of hard slaps, he was activated. And he totally got it too. Couldn't get enough of it. Made me wince once. Is this a good way to lure a guy into slapping? or is it dangerous? I'd be poking a sleeping lion? Do you think I have a domme streak for slapping a guy like this and initiating things? Subs wouldn't do this sorta thing? How would you gentlemen feel if this happened to you? And ladies, how do you talk someone into slapping you? Hmmm perhaps a switch? i guess we are all different but i can't imagine slapping Him to get Him to slap me. He would be PISSED as He is not a masochist and it would be non-consensual and THAT would piss Him off the most. Well, i don't think a sub or slave would do that UNLESS there was a bit on Domme/Mistress in there somewhere. As a slave or sub it seems like the dreaded topping from the bottom kind of thing, but then there is teaching from the bottom too. The nonconsent thing would be the main issue i would think. #1- i wouldn't NEED to because i wouldn't date anyone that is not into M/s because that is me all my life. i would if needed explain masochism, humiliation and submission to Him if it was a vanilla person, but i wouldn't want to get involved with one in the first place. Too many people have problems with it over time. Many like to think BDSM orientation is a choice, and perhaps for some it is, but for many it is an orientation and i often read about frustrated subs or Doms/mes married or dating vanilla and they aren't getting their needs met and thinking of cheating, or trying to see if their spouse BF,GF has any BDSM in them at all. Sometimes they try, even for a few months or a year or so and end up breaking up. Better not to go there. ESPECIALLY risk non-consent

MissValerie77 -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 12:42:31 PM)
I'm with Drummer687..... OP Lallee....pay close attention to what Drummer687 said here.. But now, I would see that as an invitation to do just about anything to you. I would have given you plenty of abuse back - for a good long time. lol That could work against you and for you...depending on the person and situation. I think that is how alot of men would think too is that gives them a completely wide open door for whatever, whenever. With that said....Don't be afraid to discover and go after what you want, no matter how many people don't agree with you. Just don't get hurt or killed in process.

outhere69 -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 3:25:47 PM)
MSLA-- The dildo makes it harder for him to chase you down the street!

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 4:10:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Delilya Me too Fornica. I'm not Dominant just because I go around slapping people who don't want to slap me. I am however confused how that makes you one. I agree. How is slapping someone to force them into slapping you a Dominant trait? I don't see that connection at all. All it says to me is she's a spoiled brat and not in a "good' way if there is such a thing. She had a tantrum because she was not getting what she wanted and totally disregarded boundaries/limits and consent, both undesirable traits in anyone. Slapping someone without their permission is assault and that's what she did...she assaulted him. That's also not a good thing, for anyone. NBMG

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Luring a vanilla into slapping (12/30/2011 8:01:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus when I laugh really hard my tits shake. just thought I'd share. Also YAY for knowing who Walpole is. Video or it didn't happen. Well said. I'm calling her on this one.

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