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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 2:22:00 AM

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wow! holy wow! that's all i can say. i have no idea who any of these people are, but what an amazing chance to glimpse into insanity.

even if he's lying about them being alters he's still nuts, and i for one find the whole thing just fascinating.

i'm going to start going back and reading the other threads and things and looking up all their posts.

just totally amazing.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 2:28:09 AM

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A word here......

Folks, don't take your anger out on each other or on Me.

When we get down to brass tacks, we have to look at the situation that we are left with. There are a number of us who feel that we have been wronged. I understand that. I am trying to reconcile that Myself.

At the same time, this board, this community, must move forward. If we pass this opportunity, we have no one but ourselves to blame. YES! Many of us have been hurt. We have to move past that.

I know that it's hard to get passed being lied to and played for a fool. At the same time, I have the greatest respect for some people here. I want to thank you for your messages and those who sent lines of support.

The question is, shall we, as members here, get past this? No, it's not fucking easy. Part of it fucking sucks, and we all have to deal with that. However, a new day is dawning and we have the option to embrace that.

Yes, we are hurt, but we must make the choice to move forward. We do have the option. We are better than this.

If I'm wrong... hey, I'm cool with that too. I'm more than happy with doing what is right in My own small way. If anything, we will express ourselves more, and in the end, that's a good thing.

Shit, Bob. You taught Me a lesson. I guess I kind of have to thank you for that.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 2:29:54 AM

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*hugs and love to LadyP*

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 3:00:16 AM

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What you don't seem to understand, is the fact that I'm trying to point out that you are doing what you blame and make fun of OTHER people for doing....
and that is taking things that are said or written online as being serious.

The eating humble pie comment is the same as the expression "eating your own words" or "calling the kettle black," or even better "the truth hurts."

And that's all my post was about....

Yes Click, who exactly are you laughing about here? (name them) You come across as mean-spirited and passive-aggressive, but then when you're called on it, you do a 180.
So, just out of curiousity...who here deserved the bullshit we were given?
Who deserved to be called names, and to be slandered and told to kill themselves because they had the nerve to argue with the fab six? (it's how many I've counted that I know are alters)
I was attacked, LP was attacked, Tazzy was attacked, SemiSweet was attacked. And that's not even to mention all the people who thought they were "friends" with these..."people" who felt the need to stand up for them, and hurt those of us who just knew something was off.
Friendships have been strained to the breaking point.
I am sure some people are questioning their ability to discern truth from fiction, good from evil, and right from wrong.
But enjoy that popcorn.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 3:10:07 AM

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Shit, Bob. You taught Me a lesson. I guess I kind of have to thank you for that.

I have to second that. This has been a real wake up call. Probably, in the end, a positive thing, though it doesn't feel like it. To anyone I may have hurt: I'm sorry. I can't say how sorry.

pam

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 3:14:34 AM

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What irks me the most is falling for the Haytch house. Think about it 4 young attractive lesbians & one bathroom, just aint ever going to work in real life.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 3:27:44 AM

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*fast reply*
I personally don't believe a word that Bob posts.
Everything he writes is viewed as a complete lie to me.
I doubt there's a therapist or a son.

I will continue to believe that he is still pulling the wool over as many eyes as he can so he can stay in the limelight.
I think everything he has done and continues to do is completely planned and calculated, including this "epiphany" he has had.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:11:18 AM

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I also wonder how many more people that we interact with on the boards are going to be figments of someone's imagination instead of "real" people....both now and in the future. That bothers me. Instead of relaxing and having a good time in here, I'm suspicious of everyone.

Ive been suspicious of about anyone online for years until I actually meet or at least talk to them. Maybe that's why I was affected less by this fiasco than some others.

I don't trust much. Generally, to be hurt, you have to trust first.

This.

And Bob....if you read this shit at all. I do appreciate your emails to me about this.

I guess I have a slightly different point of view. I never really cared whether each identity had a separate body. I got sick of the attacks not because who they were generated towards but who they were generated BY.

If I am going to attack someone, the attack says more about ME than the person/identity, I am attacking.

So yeah. I have no personal investment in who on here is real or not. Too many years reading too much online crazy to believe in anyone. When I meet you face to face, that's when it matters.

But what WE put out here towards what/whomever. Bob, his alters, whatever.......that says less about that specific situation and the smoke and mirrors the vitrol is being directed towards, but more about the person we are in doing the directing.

While there are a lot of people feeling vindicated because of 'facts' I will continue to think (not that it matters to a bunch of nasty cunts what I think) an awful lot less of some people's sterling reputations. Not because of right or wrong in fact of what they believed about others, but how they conducted themselves in that disbelief.

So yes, please proceed with your mutual masturbatory back patting. It looks good on you.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:20:01 AM

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A bunch of nasty cunts?

I'm glad this will be closed this morning.
There's been too much damage done.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:25:41 AM

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FR I havent been as affected by this as some others I deeply respect and call friends have been.
Looking back, hindsight is always 20/20 and many things are clearer now. I am angry for those who are hurt and pissed. They have every right to be.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:26:13 AM

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I agree.

Sucks when people's true colours show doesn't it?

Sucks when you see how really self centered and selfish most of us really are. How much compassion we really lack for our fellow man when something that man does, due to circumstances we simply cannot imagine, hurt US. How nasty we get when our own wittle feelings get all butt hurt. When we've made fools of ourselves and get called on it.

And then we had better hope like fucking hell that, there but by the grace of....whatever entity we pray to.....it is never us, or someone we love....suffering.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:31:15 AM

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I've shown nothing but compassion for the man, La Tigresse, and have always respected (and liked) you, for what that's worth.
Calling people a bunch of nasty cunts is beneath you, and hurtful to the said cunts. (at least it is to me)
People who haven't shown compassion have their own reasons, and I can't say they are wrong for feeling as they do.
This is just another by-product of the mess one person created. Purposefully, knowningly or not.
And that is very sad.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:38:03 AM

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it's a real shame that this has been turned into a feeding frenzy. The Bob alter egos win I guess.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:42:39 AM

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I didn't call EVERY person that posted on the thread a nasty cunt. Only the people that were being nasty cunts, in the posts that I bothered reading.......(I stopped a few pages back due to impending nausea and disgust)

Two things came to mind.

Something I read in the paper the other day in Dear Abby or whatever the hell it is now.

A woman wrote in about her mentally challenged son, age 12, that has the physical appearance of much older, yet the mental and emotional capacity of an approx 5 yo. And, does not physically show any signs of his problem. The anguish it caused her, the way people treated her and her son, is what caused her to write...begging people to not pass judgement based upon what they saw, because it was often what they didn't see.......along that line.

It's easy to feel sorry for a person with cancer, or some tragic visible illness. Yet mental illness has such a stigma that is still quite common. None of us want to admit it, but we all have that. Because it's fucking creepy and scary. In this case, I mean seriously, imagine finding out that YOU YOURSELF, was perhaps not real, but instead the creation of some mentally ill person's imagination!!! I mean how totally fucked up scary is that?!? Most of us cannot even comprend, so we doubt. Or, attack. Or both.

I am the most imperfect human being I know. I AM one of the cunts I mentioned. That is what you are NOT UNDERSTANDING. Quite a few of us here are. In fact, right this second, I can only think of one forum poster that has the compassion and love for fellow man that I admire.

The other thing, the second thing. I've always felt that the true measure of a man, or woman, is not in how they handle themselves in the good times, but in trying times. In times and situations that challenge us, scare us, make us angry, etc....

I think, based on this thread and topic.........quite a few of us still do not measure up. Not by a god damned long shot.

I am finding all of this quite humbling and inspiring.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 4:47:09 AM

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it's a real shame that this has been turned into a feeding frenzy. The Bob alter egos win I guess.

If you sincerely believe that, then you really are fucked

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 5:01:20 AM

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Give Me some kind of answer about the harm you have caused Me. Either be happy in the fact that you called My reputation into question publicly, or do the right fucking thing and openly admit that I was just some fucking pawn in your little game.

LadyPact,

For what it's worth, I have always had nothing but the utmost respect for you.

Best,

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 5:04:37 AM

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Whyso?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 5:12:21 AM

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it's a real shame that this has been turned into a feeding frenzy.

It sure has. How about a nice game of chess?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 5:12:29 AM

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Whyso?

Use your imagination.

What's that cheesy old saying.......'walk a mile...'

Myself, I cannot even begin to imagine what it might be like to realize that everything I am, every life experience I believe I've had, ever person I believe I love, might not really exist except in the mind of one ill person. And that, if that person, gets proper treatment, takes some meds..........I might disappear.

Or......that I myself, might be so ill, as to have created the people I love, hurt them terribly, and yet, if I cease to live this way, get the treatment I need.....destroy them as they are fearing.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/14/2012 5:19:34 AM

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Sorry LT I'm a go slow mental zone today. it's a good point you make. Another way to look at this is that we in this thing that we do irrespective of being S or D have to really be shit together & emotionally sound, some of the postings on here disprove that theory.

Very good Seeker I bow to your War Games riff. I am not worthy of such irony. Respect.

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